Expressing Dominance during sex and gal's reactions.

[Raynor]

These are my experiences with 4 girlfriends, over about 7-8 years.

Expressing dominance as in restricting her movements, holding her down or immobilising her.

I start dominance about 3-4 months after first sex.
First time it happened casually and non intentional, while doggy, I grabbed a handful of hair and banged away.
After, gf said she felt I was being very man

When with the next gf, also in doggy, did the same thing deliberately, although was progressive, first hand grabbing shoulder, then neck, then hair.
When I asked her after, she actually blushed and said altho don't know why, she liked it when I did that.
Experimented with her more after, both face down, me on top of her, with my forearm pressing her shoulders down, or across her throat, my other hand pressing down on the side of her face.
The sex became more intense for both of us.
She also became more submissive and said she enjoyed it more.

The next girl, the 3rd girl I tried, did not like it.
I can hold her hands down above her head when in missionary, but the others she did not like.
Did not progress much after.

4th gf liked it, even encouraged me, once asking why I released my hold on her so fast when my hand slipped and choked her neck instead.
We tried measured choked play (I did not like it), and it gave her intense orgasms. Something about being unable to breathe and the sex accelerated and magnified the feel for her.
She also became more submissive and more horny.

Just don't try with paid sex, they don't like their hair messed up .

I get the feeling that dominance play can improve the sex and also the relationship, as in SG, not really many chance to display dominance in everyday life.
Note, dominance play, not rough play. 4th gf liked rough play from me, I prefer dominance.
Maybe females, to some extent, are willing to be dominated during sex, as they are already exposing their most vulnerable parts to us. And dominance is a display of strength which they want.

I encourage bros to progressively try dominance play with their gfs and share their experience.
And also what are dominance play positions there can be, with no tying up of the girl.
I find tying up of the girl to a fixture limits positioning.
Have tried standing doggy, holding her hands back. But it hurt her shoulder joints and just not as fluid in thrusting.

[secretlurker88]

Originally Posted by Raynor

These are my experiences with 4 girlfriends, over about 7-8 years.

Expressing dominance as in restricting her movements, holding her down or immobilising her.

I start dominance about 3-4 months after first sex.
First time it happened casually and non intentional, while doggy, I grabbed a handful of hair and banged away.
After, gf said she felt I was being very man

When with the next gf, also in doggy, did the same thing deliberately, although was progressive, first hand grabbing shoulder, then neck, then hair.
When I asked her after, she actually blushed and said altho don't know why, she liked it when I did that.
Experimented with her more after, both face down, me on top of her, with my forearm pressing her shoulders down, or across her throat, my other hand pressing down on the side of her face.
The sex became more intense for both of us.
She also became more submissive and said she enjoyed it more.

The next girl, the 3rd girl I tried, did not like it.
I can hold her hands down above her head when in missionary, but the others she did not like.
Did not progress much after.

4th gf liked it, even encouraged me, once asking why I released my hold on her so fast when my hand slipped and choked her neck instead.
We tried measured choked play (I did not like it), and it gave her intense orgasms. Something about being unable to breathe and the sex accelerated and magnified the feel for her.
She also became more submissive and more horny.

Just don't try with paid sex, they don't like their hair messed up .

I get the feeling that dominance play can improve the sex and also the relationship, as in SG, not really many chance to display dominance in everyday life.
Note, dominance play, not rough play. 4th gf liked rough play from me, I prefer dominance.
Maybe females, to some extent, are willing to be dominated during sex, as they are already exposing their most vulnerable parts to us. And dominance is a display of strength which they want.

I encourage bros to progressively try dominance play with their gfs and share their experience.
And also what are dominance play positions there can be, with no tying up of the girl.
I find tying up of the girl to a fixture limits positioning.
Have tried standing doggy, holding her hands back. But it hurt her shoulder joints and just not as fluid in thrusting.

just curious what were the ages of the ladies in mention?

[yowtf]

Some of the MLs i visited over the years do enjoy being pinned down / slight choke on the neck. 1 even voluntarily pulled my hand to her neck during missionary. Same thing, claimed it will make her come faster.

But all these are after a few visits with chemistry built up. Good old days.

[Connor]

wrong post

[Oorb]

posted wrong thread

[superkk]

i indulge with some light dominance play with my exes a few fucks into the relationship. my favorite is pinning them into the bed via their arms when they are cumming or have their legs over my shoulders (aka g-whiz) when i cum into them.

most girls didn't like their hair pulled except one who said she came harder when i did it. this same girl liked the modified doggy position where you hold on to her arms so her body arches back while you fuck her. i think she had a higher tolerance for pain because she was an avid yoga practitioner.

one of my favorite pseudo bondage thing i do is not take off their pants/jeans/shorts totally so that it locks them around the knee while i enter them. you can cum very quickly this way because the pussy is so tight so unless you are the type that can stay hard after cumming and keep going so she can cum too i'd advise not to shoot off that quick and opt for grinding instead of thrusting.

[nimdafbskucf]

this is quite true. my girl says she likes being treated like a doll

[Iluma]

I think generally most girls like to experience being dominated during sex. 3 types of sex I've experienced. Intimate love making, horny fucking treating the girl like a sex object, and just going through the motion type of sex.

The horny fucks with the aim of treating the girl like a pornstar were the hottest fucks

[MiningXpert]

Would like to share that I have a different take of dominance to OP when it comes to sex (respectfully). As the man of the family I always make my dominance felt, albeit not in any unpleasant 'mcp' way. I just instinctively do it because I shoulder the responsibility of my family and I feel somehow compelled to remind her subtly who's overall in charge. We're happily married with children and still very sexually active.

I seldom get rough with her during the deed as I couldn't bring myself to "hurt" my wife, so choking and hair pulling aren't always common. But I was dominant in a sense she obeys and follows what I ask her to do during the process, and she enjoys it and accomodates most of the time but there are times she shared that she didn't like certain things so I didn't persist. Communication is very important, if you get a somewhat feminist gf you'd likely land yourself a different role during sex. But if your partner is open, role plays can be fun.

[Peacekeeping]

Give it to her hard and furious is my way of expressing dominance. Don’t degrade your partner unless she likes it.

[Cookiepusss]

Tied to bed like Joal Ong is one of my favourite

[Raynor]

Originally Posted by MiningXpert

Would like to share that I have a different take of dominance to OP when it comes to sex (respectfully).

All here to share, and the differences will be what is needed. If everyone the same, hard to learn more.
I would say theres a difference between being in charge and dominance. Dominance in sex, imho, is just only 1 way, not my way or the highway. This is how I want to take you and this is how you will be taken.
It is different from rough play, which I consider choking to be, but read that some girls actually like it so to each his/her own. I dont pull on hair either, its grabbing a fistful and holding on to it to more or less immobilise her.

All actions are upon the gals tolerance and acceptance, if she is not up for it, will not force and back off. Its meant to spice up, or a bit of roleplay.

[deployedrelayer]

if they like u, all girls want you go crazy with lust over her

[pizzahutdeliver]

Have tried standing doggy, h