Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
Ty for your reply, but I need to sleep now, I will reply tmr morning.
Does anyone know where do people have sex with their dates or gf considering that you can't bring them to your home if you live with your parents and you can't purchase your own home either cause you are single and you can't buy a house until age 35? The only obvious answer is hotel? Ty in advance. If hotel is the answer how do people hint or ask their dates or gf during dating that they want to go hotel to have sex then?
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