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Old 24-02-2012, 02:39 PM
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

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What is your reason for doing so?
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Need a third participant (excluding Engrish teacher) in this self/duo-directed thread?

IMHO, just give and make a friend and ensure she knows it directly or indirectly. You. Ever know who else she might lead/introduce you to for being that gentlemen or friend. No need think so much. Even friends are hard to cum by these days.

Dear bro goodpartner,

you may be the only participant left if your are referring to the English Class that comes and goes like "fart". ;p (errr i am not scolding anyone.... just that someone left a comment to me again that its a waste of his/her time to come into my thread.... .... so perhaps that "fart" angered him/her ;p....... anyway,,, no big deal ;p....... i'm open to "fire" ;p,,, burn in hell sinner!!! ;p)

Back to topic.... thanks for your comment... it's always good not to burn bridges ;p.......

True.... frds are hard to come by.... true true,,,,,,, tinking back abt my situation..... honesty is NOT the best policy... ;p


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Reason is trying to live by this:
You can give without loving but you can't love without giving.

Dear Bro songest,


I like your commented phrase.... it sets me thinking for a good 10minutes on a side note... ;p


Just that..... it's errr... not exactly very applicable to my Q as......... there is no action......... such a profound phrase........ but it can actually mean accepting choice 1) or 2).......... it's just a first meeting and there is no continuation already........... Love is not exactly applicable here.... ;p


anyway.. have a great weekend...
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Old 24-02-2012, 09:18 PM
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

wah, tis scene reminds me of many years ago i kena b4 leh...

years ago got a auntie ( neighbour ) intro me ( cos i always home stayer and she tot i am the guai guai type ) her indonesian chinese niece ( can speak mandarin and cantonese cos she stay in SG very long liao ) to be frenz, then before the meetup few days the auntie told me the gal already standby present liao, so stingy me also lan lan go and buy a necklace with a heart shape pendant as present for her.

sekali when we saw each other, the chemistry not there and we suan each other until jialat jialat ... but she steady leh, still give me the present a branded wallet and i steady also give her the present...we accepted the presents ( with suaning ) and she asked me y we buay gum and i still give her the present, i asked her back and she told me 麻烦 to bring back and she nobody to give the present, so my itchy mouth also say best is u always many 麻烦 in the future and can give me many presents if she dun have ppl to give the presents to ... ..

then she chase me for my answer as to y i give her the present and since i dun wan give her the same answer, i told her tat 丢锅不丢盖, 有空来场友谊赛, she laf until peng and we seperated ways ...

the shocking part was few months later, she jio me go to drink and we fuck for almost a year till she found her BF and say bye bye to me...the day was a sad day for me cos i ask her whether still have 友谊赛 or not and she very firmly said NO!!!
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

Was told to come to this thread so here's my 2 cents on this matter

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A sudden thought came to my mind on my way back home yesterday, so decided to bring it out for some “discussion”.

I had a good friend previously (we had parted ways though) who went out on a date with a lady introduced by my mum.

The lady gave him a gift on their first meet up. My friend was taken aback and fumbled to get her a gift after their movies.
This is self imposed stress but i think if she bot you a gift and you bot her a meal and movie, it kinda evens everything up ya?

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I actually feel it’s a very good way and thought on the girl’s part.
Man… how I wish I was the recipient then ;p.
Agree, very sincere and nice gesture, wud touch anyone's heart I'm sure.

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I feel, we should provide a gift as a token for the first meet up.
Likewise the lady should do that do.
It takes two to tango.
It need not be expensive. It’s the thought that counts.
I think this part is purely voluntary. A good intention may backfire like you mentioned in para 1, that poor guy feel so obligated to get her a gift back in return, so the atmosphere has progressed into a tense one, so to speak.

Ok, the million dollar Q to this thread:

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If you have prepared the gift and it is well hidden (the lady/man will not know unless you say it out), BUT, to your despair, you dn’t have chemistry and want out and will take the meet up as the first and last date, will you:


1) Still offer the present? Treat it as a farewell gift.
What is your reason for doing so?
The intention was for something more to happen after the 1st meeting, but if there's no chemistry, I'd still give the gift I bought, can still have a friend who you may never know, will one day know someone whom you're chasing and just might say some good words for you because of that little gift

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2) Keep it? Since it’s the end of the road (Save it for future use)
What is your reason for doing so?
Keeping it for the next better player is an alarm bell that shud go off it anyone was to even think of it and yes, I dare to be certain that there are some super el cheapos around. Remember, the phrase here is sincerity, but a gift looked at the viewpoint of an investments spoils the intention for any meetup in the 1st place.

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The best reason to me (may not have one as I am quite picky ;p) will get a complimentary coffee/drink from me if I get to meet you in future. ;p
Agree, cannot be lovers FB sex slaves but can still be friend wor and better to have a friend than none
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Old 24-02-2012, 09:55 PM
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

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Need a third participant (excluding Engrish teacher) in this self/duo-directed thread?

IMHO, just give and make a friend and ensure she knows it directly or indirectly. You. Ever know who else she might lead/introduce you to for being that gentlemen or friend. No need think so much. Even friends are hard to cum by these days.
Totally agree with this bro
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she jio me go to drink and we fuck for almost a year till she found her BF and say bye bye to me
If emotionally speaking, ya la, sure emo but if ROI speaking, bro, you also gain 1yr of shiokerdoodoo wat
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

I actually tot both will end up together.
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

this is an interesting question that makes me think for a moment.

it's really nice of the lady to prepare a gift for the guy. I highly suspect this lady watch too much korean drama...

ok back to TS question:

if i am caught in the same situation, i will still give the present to the guy but make it clear that it's just a token of appreciation to him and hopefully we can still remain as friends simply because you never know when you might need his or her help someday.
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

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wah, tis scene reminds me of many years ago i kena b4 leh...

we fuck for almost a year till she found her BF and say bye bye to me..
Well I guess history will teach you that a little gesture can go a long way! Talk about having fren with benefits for a year!

Hmm though I am not sure whats the practice nowadays on first meetups.. (I personally don't have much experience to boast of) I guess it will usually be better to have have a little gift rather than not.. I say a small box of chocs will do fine.. can't go wrong with that.. In case u meet a good catch you will be glad you scored cookie points.. even if buang, stay as friends also ok (but let your intentions be known clearly thereafter though). Is like I would rather be over-prepared than to need it and don't have it.

And I won't "save" the gift for another session/girl la.. If I brought this gift along during dinner or what just give liao. Cuz I would say if have this sort of kiam siap mentality very hard to score big also.. haha and bro alan will testify to that..
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but she steady leh, still give me the present a branded wallet and i steady also give her the present...we accepted the presents
I also got present for you from my recent hokkaido trip. You sure like it
And 1 gardening gift from the lavender farm for the English teacher too
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Re: Providing a gift on your first meet up?

Rachel set me on a date
Meet her best friend, name is Kate
Kate treat movie, I treat meal
Make a new friend, that’s the deal
Should I prepare a present?
Was told Kate joined some pageant
Gift should help me impress her
How to impress pageant girl?

Present too big, hard to hold
Carry around she will know
Present too small what’s the point
Make me look cheap, my viewpoint
Plan a gift to suit the date
I think that will impress Kate
During movie, share a cake
Then tell Kate the cake I bake

Don’t bake cake then make sandwich
Finger food leaves Kate bewitched
Simple gift that feels quite smart
Through her stomach reach her heart
Date fail also never mind
Eat liao leaves no gift behind
No gift that may come haunt you
In ways you yet have a clue
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Haha like that also can make poem out of your commentary.. power
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braddahs should just gift money.
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braddahs should just gift money.
Give money? As in ang bao? On the 1st date? Or shove straight into her hand like giving WL for the time she spent wif U?
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