Shall I go with my feeling ?

[xyhan]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't .....Lot's of ding-donging forward/backward postings. Every bros who contributed in this thread has a sincere desire to help and whatever it is, real or troll thread, at least has a sincere desire to learn and wise up

Brother Ichigo,

Long time no see. I agree fully with your advice. The brother concerned should take all the advice given in this thread and think over very carefully. You are here and she is there. You never know if she already has a family there and just imagine if you give her RMB2000 MONTHLY and she gets another few "Boyfriends" to do the same, that will be alot of money for her.. All she has to do is to rotate the roaster for each and every "Boyfriend" to visit her in China ( I am not talking about visiting her Kampong ). It is like falling into a BOTTOMLESS PIT.

We can only do this much to advise you. The ultimate decision is still yours.

Good Luck and Cheers

[et911]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Maybe it's karma? He did a good deed by rescueing this FL so riches strike him??? We should do more good deeds...

Bro, you mean we should patronize them more??

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro xyhan, Happy 2011 to you. May the new year brings joy and prosperity to you and to all you hold dear.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by et911

Bro, you mean we should patronize them more??

I think bro ME means that we should KC more FLs and make them our GFs...

[et911]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

I think bro ME means that we should KC more FLs and make them our GFs...

That means I have been doing a lot of good deeds for the past years..

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by et911

That means I have been doing a lot of good deeds for the past years..

To increase your karma exponentially you must make them your mistresses...

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

To increase your karma exponentially you must make them your mistresses...

Or make them want to marry you NOT you marrying them

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Or make them want to marry you NOT you marrying them

Bro, seriously dun ever make them want to marry you. They are harder to shake off than 1,000,000 leeches if that happens...

Trust me...I kenna until jia lat jia lat during my younger days.

[et911]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

To increase your karma exponentially you must make them your mistresses...

Not enough dough leh, not everyone can afford mistresses you know..

[song881881]

bro , you are here , and she is there , theres no telling if there is any truth in

any of the words shes said . and only one month of knowing each other ,

isnt it a bit too short to commit so strongly into a relationship ?

(just my 2 cent worth of view )

[SDX5]

bros

if you are here and she is there, then it is up to you to believe her. If you want to keep her, you jus have to take her words. If she want to lie, she can easily do so as you will not be able to verify unless you engage a PI.

For example, if you dont like her to gamble; and she tells you that she is gambling but small stakes to pass time with her friends, isnt she is telling you the truth since she knows you may be angry with her? She can easily tell you that she is out shopping right - just to make you feel good. But what's the point? you want the truth or false from her?

So brothers if you are in such situation, you have to accept and trust her. If you cannot, then dump her and move to others who you can meet and manage.

[et911]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Or make them want to marry you NOT you marrying them

Can we skip the marrying part??? There are a lot of flowers out there waiting to be phruck..

[BscBMD997]

Originally Posted by Huge Dog

For the past one month I had been chasing these PRC KTV gal who I like her a lot. She is on those short term social visit pass 1 month then extend. I confessed my feeling for her and she asked me whether I can accept what is doing for a living. My replied to her is in long run I cannot and I really want to serious relationship with her. But she said she do not want to be my gf as she know I am an average salary worker and she is earning about $5,000 a month working in KTV here which is much more than me. She also told me her intention is make enough money in Singapore to buy a private apartment in her hometown.

Next week she is returning to China. And we still together. Then she said she intend to find a sales assistant job in her hometown but the pay is too low for anything. She requested me to give her a monthly allowance of 2,000 yuan on top of that she still work as sales assistant in any departmental stores in home city.

She promise me quit working as KTV gal and start new relationship with me. But I have to fly to her home city every 3 months once wow I asked her whether she had a bf in China and her replied is broke off already. She told me not visit her village or town area as she don't want her relatives and friends to know about our relationship.

How .... shall I continue with her ??

Answer = No.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by et911

Can we skip the marrying part??? There are a lot of flowers out there waiting to be phruck..

Of cos. Flowers blooming season soon.

[et911]

Originally Posted by ichigo_kurosaki

of cos. Flowers blooming season soon. :d

春天来啦！！妹妹，我也来啦！