Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Yup... i dun rely agree with the "reality" that most local gals are materialistic and go for guys with money & fast car. Maybe it's cos of my environment..i've a few gal frens who are simply sweet & caring homely type of gals, the kind u can't help but feel like falling for her. But alas, the "reality" is also like what bro shuang jie gun put it haha



The most heart ache reality is not that there are no good gals around, definitely have one, just that it's for everyone else, not meant for me

ya, true, deffinetly got good gal, but some how or rather, jus not ment for me...
loves ur phrase.Think in life, for now, i rather be very very rich or hav a good and caring gf, who will stand by me. But i dun hav a gf, and worst still, i not rich... wata life.

[asdfghjkl]

i got money and wife but she always work till late hour how?

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i got money and wife but she always work till late hour how?

Got money. want to find gf also no luck. how?

Worse still, received an out-of-the-blue sms from a gal that I had not kept in touch for over a year. SMS asks me out regularly to meet up with her. She is pleasant looking and not too old, but kena some crap from her ex. Hope that she not looking for substitute.

was talking with some of my reservist pals. Older guys talk about settling down. The younger ones more concerned with money. Better have more money than less. But, one thing for sure..... can have no women, but must have money. For with money, one can women. Without money, nothing can happen.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

The gals i like almost NEVER contact me before .... sometimes i was jus wondering say one day i meet with an accident & die, they wouldn't even know since they virtually never contact me...

sometimes i wonder what makes that difference in the quality of life amongst people. like some people are born with rich & doting parents, some may have gambling & abusive parents.

some people jus have that beautiful, devoted & caring girlfriend without having to put in much effort. some people, despite the best of intention & effort, seem to be perpetually struggling with rejection & loneliness...

But i guess that's what it's called Life ....

Rite. Not all are born equal. Right at the moment when I was talking with a fellow army mate, truth is that no two men share the same strength. One's strength is really another's shortcoming.

Some gals are like that. Never bother to call back or keep in touch. One corny char bo (I tried to court) asked me why I like to call her and why I didn't I sms her instead ...... she never realise that its always easier to talk and convey thoughts and ideas. ...... especially since I'm on the road most of the time.

Your situation is actually largely similar to mine. Most gals I liked never bother to sms me, after a "free meal cum movie".

But, really no point looking back at these gals. Sometimes, I remember these gals. Just have to swallow and move on. Rite now, the most impt thing is make the money first (not become money making slave). Lose r/s opportunity is ok, but opportunity to make money (either through biz or career) comes once in a lifetime.

Most imptly, next time u drive 5 (or 6 or 7) series, the gals that rejected u will be cursing and swearing. But, when u get a 7 series, don't forget the gang here. lol.

[Deztruct]

I was thinking..maybe true love do exist..juz like Ferarri..juz tat not of us can ever hv a ferrai in our lifetime...the lucky ones will be able to hv it the day they are born..the others work hard for it..

the rest? well...

[natsuki]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Rite. Not all are born equal. Right at the moment when I was talking with a fellow army mate, truth is that no two men share the same strength. One's strength is really another's shortcoming.

Hi there, hope u dun mind me to quote out ur posts and give each a reply. As u have already stated not all are born equally. So, not all girls are that 'money-face'. FLs are normal girls too. The way most guys think : 'Ah, that girl confirm after my money.' is sure not very right. Give people chances, it's not right to drown the ferry cuz of a black hen.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Some gals are like that. Never bother to call back or keep in touch. One corny char bo (I tried to court) asked me why I like to call her and why I didn't I sms her instead ...... she never realise that its always easier to talk and convey thoughts and ideas. ...... especially since I'm on the road most of the time.

Some guys true enough, never bother to keep in touch too. They thought girls are out for their wealth, but however, some girls only need friendship. I don't understand why some guys prefer sms to calls, but i like ur thinking of "its always easier to talk and convey thoughts and ideas." Very good!! That's why i don't encourage smses.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Your situation is actually largely similar to mine. Most gals I liked never bother to sms me, after a "free meal cum movie".

Your situation is quite different from mine. Most guys who dated me, never find me again. And imagine, we pay dutch! They don't even bothers to forward those irritating good night or good morning smses. To add on, those people don't know i'm a FL. And ya... It's been years since i last went out with a guy for a 'movie-cum-meal' session, like normal friends. I offer to help him buy food and drink, in the end that guy told me to get what ever i want and he actually want to share my drink with me! Hello!!! That is not very right. I still prefer dutch. And why should i share my drink with you when i don't really know u that close yet. Not a bf or even a close friend.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

But, really no point looking back at these gals. Sometimes, I remember these gals. Just have to swallow and move on. Rite now, the most impt thing is make the money first (not become money making slave). Lose r/s opportunity is ok, but opportunity to make money (either through biz or career) comes once in a lifetime.

Needless to say, no point looking back at those guys who look down on me, i earn on my own. I don't cheat, i don't steal and definately i don't look down on anyone. As long as one don't irritates me too much. I'm moving on, maybe as a slave to money. But who don't want money? It means security. Without men, at least there's money one could depend on. I lost chances of getting love with the one i want, but i earn back money that is what most people want. As u said, "opportunity to make money (either through biz or career) comes once in a lifetime." . So since we are still young, we could earn as much as our ability could carry us to.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Most imptly, next time u drive 5 (or 6 or 7) series, the gals that rejected u will be cursing and swearing. But, when u get a 7 series, don't forget the gang here. lol.

Next time, whatever transport... (suzuki,honda,mitsubishi,subaru..... etc) the one i want/like/love is driving.... Or even walking, i won't mind. Cuz i don't cling on to him for his money.


That's only how i feel... Hope u are not angry for how i express my views. Take care.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

bro, the fact that there are still gals who come & ask u go for a meal shows u are none of the above...

The gals i like almost NEVER contact me before .... sometimes i was jus wondering say one day i meet with an accident & die, they wouldn't even know since they virtually never contact me...

i am destined to be gers' best frd but not bf if u noe wat i mean..i luckier than most pple here..at least gers i like wun disappear after a dinner date..we still do keep in contact but then sometimes bcoz of tis..u really dunno wat they wan..as in do i hv a chance? or i juz a frd?

just be grateful for wat u hv in life..everyone has a role in life to play..mayb my role is to be a frd to the gers i noe..i juz believe tat as long i play my role well..wat come will come..

the period of time when u are single? its like someone upstair is givin u a vacation..for u to be by urself and to think abt life..so tat u can b ready for the next person tat comes into ur life..if tat person neva comes..tat mean u r still not ready yet..think of it tis way..if u are not ready..u only hurt tat person..do u wan to hurt someone tat u like?

[Deztruct]

[QUOTE=natsuki]Hi there, hope u dun mind me to quote out ur posts and give each a reply. As u have already stated not all are born equally. So, not all girls are that 'money-face'. FLs are normal girls too. The way most guys think : 'Ah, that girl confirm after my money.' is sure not very right. Give people chances, it's not right to drown the ferry cuz of a black hen.


Hi Natsuki..pardon my ignorance..neva really tot tat u are a lady even tho ur previous postings seem to imply so...

dunno wat to say here or neither do i wish to say more in case pple think tat i tryin to be funny..all i wan to say is tat believe in fairytales..they sometimes do come true..if u believe hard enuf..even if they dun come true..at least u hv hope in ur life once..sound cliche but then mayb cliche things are the only things we can ever say here

[covenn]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Rite now, the most impt thing is make the money first (not become money making slave). Lose r/s opportunity is ok, but opportunity to make money (either through biz or career) comes once in a lifetime.

bro i guess u need to find a balance la. sometimes the right girl also comes once a lifetime n if u were to miss it while bz making money. it will be kinda pity.

[giggz83]

hello all ..

well, it really take 2 to clap.

for me, i've been trying to learn the cave and the rubber band theory (men from mars women from venus), bros, who have read this book will know.

after all, men and women come from different "planets" isnt it so?

sometimes, we have to keep trying and trying.

earning money is one thing. never stop trying to find is another ... some people say destiny is in our hands.

so .. again and always again. i wish all bros luck.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Vesfreq

But, really no point looking back at these gals. Sometimes, I remember these gals. Just have to swallow and move on. Rite now, the most impt thing is make the money first (not become money making slave). Lose r/s opportunity is ok, but opportunity to make money (either through biz or career) comes once in a lifetime.

Most imptly, next time u drive 5 (or 6 or 7) series, the gals that rejected u will be cursing and swearing. But, when u get a 7 series, don't forget the gang here. lol.

Love (and getting ur happiness from it) can be one of the most unfair, irrational & cruel thing on earth. u can be the kindest chap, willing to do anything for her, but sometimes life jus seems biased against u.
And yet, sometimes u see some lying, two-timing jerks having such fulfilling relationship. I've seen it happen around me, happen to my friends so many times.
what a crazy world, if u think of it..

The gal whom i can never bear to hurt, always end up having her heart broken by some other guys

So i do feel like u sometimes, it seems wiser & more rewarding to concentrate on other areas of life like studying, working, building ur wealth. At least the fuits of ur labour are tangible (better grades, fatter bank account ) and what u get depends on how much effort u are willing to put in...

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

just be grateful for wat u hv in life..everyone has a role in life to play..mayb my role is to be a frd to the gers i noe..i juz believe tat as long i play my role well..wat come will come..

Actually i'm generally quite contended & comfortable being alone... 4 years plus, gotten used to it already. I feel quite happy as long as i can still afford occasionally a good meal with my frens, and like bro vesfreq, have my car to zoom around & take me swiftly to GL...

it only gets shitty during special occasion or social gathering where u see everyone around u being blissfully attached, and u ponder if there's somethk missing in ur life?

And boy, this have been a wonderful thread... it's like allowing me to realize that i'm not some anti-social freak for feeling the way i did... kudos to threadstarter bro playboy...

wish luck to all the wonderful bros who have posted in this thread too ..

[Herich]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Actually i'm generally quite contended & comfortable being alone... 4 years plus, gotten used to it already. I feel quite happy as long as i can still afford occasionally a good meal with my frens, and like bro vesfreq, have my car to zoom around & take me swiftly to GL......And boy, this have been a wonderful thread... it's like allowing me to realize that i'm not some anti-social freak for feeling the way i did...

Exactly same thoughts as you bro. always drive my beloved car to 逃亡 to GL esp when Mum nagged at me. though at times felt that giving up my car can buy me many many more fucks. but nothing beats the twin pleasures of chionging on expressway after a good fuck. 'glad' that i am not alone.

[playboy82]

seems that after all, putting aside all our ONS, trip to geylang, at the end of the day, all we want is someone who will care for us.... we are not just some sex machine, we need love too.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by playboy82

seems that after all, putting aside all our ONS, trip to geylang, at the end of the day, all we want is someone who will care for us.... we are not just some sex machine, we need love too.

u r rite in making this statement,in fact who don't need love.it's only a matter of place and when we can find it.