Missed opportunities

[bigmannow]

Few years ago I was at a local attraction in VN. Met this girl who was asking for directions. I showed her a map which I have at that time and she was looking at it standing beside me but her boobs was pressing on my elbow.. I was thinking is it accidental ? But it seemed to be quite long there. After a while of explaining about where she is on the map, I chatted her and realised she is from Philippines. After some chatting, we went our separate ways. Back in town, I bought a bus ticket to go to another city. The next day when I boarded the bus , I spotted her in the bus as well. It was a "sleeping bus" meaning there are only beds in the bus. When we arrived at the next city in the morning, I called her over and she has not booked any accommodation. I have already booked a hotel so I invited her to my hotel to rest first while she find her own accommodation. When we reached my hotel room, I invited her to take a shower first but instead she told me I could shower first. So I went to shower first and I locked the door. After shower, I came out and saw she looked a bit unhappy. Then, she went to shower. After she finished showering, she laid on the bed. I went to lie beside her and stroked her hair. I commented they looked smooth. Can't remember what she said... then I went to touch her shoulders and she asked me "what are you doing?" I stopped everything. Later on, she found her accommodation and left.

On hindsight, I think she wanted me to shower first then she might join me inside? cos she looked unhappy after I came out of shower.

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

Few years ago I was at a local attraction in VN. Met this girl who was asking for directions. I showed her a map which I have at that time and she was looking at it standing beside me but her boobs was pressing on my elbow.. I was thinking is it accidental ? But it seemed to be quite long there. After a while of explaining about where she is on the map, I chatted her and realised she is from Philippines. After some chatting, we went our separate ways. Back in town, I bought a bus ticket to go to another city. The next day when I boarded the bus , I spotted her in the bus as well. It was a "sleeping bus" meaning there are only beds in the bus. When we arrived at the next city in the morning, I called her over and she has not booked any accommodation. I have already booked a hotel so I invited her to my hotel to rest first while she find her own accommodation. When we reached my hotel room, I invited her to take a shower first but instead she told me I could shower first. So I went to shower first and I locked the door. After shower, I came out and saw she looked a bit unhappy. Then, she went to shower. After she finished showering, she laid on the bed. I went to lie beside her and stroked her hair. I commented they looked smooth. Can't remember what she said... then I went to touch her shoulders and she asked me "what are you doing?" I stopped everything. Later on, she found her accommodation and left.

On hindsight, I think she wanted me to shower first then she might join me inside? cos she looked unhappy after I came out of shower.

No she prob got nothing to steal from you. Thats why unhappy

[fuckjedi]

Missed opportunities? Many many times bro.

There were a few times I had the girl in front of me, all naked and ready to be taken but I walked away because of certain reasons which I shall not share here.

But yes I have had many missed opportunities. Some I regretted on following up on and some I was glad I didn't commit.

[asianguy27]

Originally Posted by Lolitta

Thanks for sharing.

just pull out bro

[bigmannow]

Some years ago I used WeChat nearby and hooked up a girl from KL and holidaying in JB alone. She looked like mid 20s .. face look average and plain.. we met up in JB for lunch and she signalled for me to pay for the food, then we went to watch movie and also I paid, I felt a bit ripped off already … then after movie we walked around and I commented there are many hotels around .. she sort of thought I was talking about some action from her body language and while crossing one road she said she was scared and I think she wants me to hold her arm to cross but I didn’t .. then we took taxi back to her hotel …she didn’t invite me to her room so we just walked around to explore the hotel and I left after that . maybe if I hold her arm might have some action but I was a bit pissed she expect me to pay so much lol

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

She signalled for me to pay for the food, then we went to watch movie and also I paid, I felt a bit ripped off already … then after movie we walked around and I commented there are many hotels around ..

Next time just go watch ghost/horror movies. Scare her first. Can hug hug in the cinema if she is scared. Then tell her many Chinese people die in JB during world war 2 because of Japanese massacre. Then when Malaysia became an independent country, they have to dig up the Chinese mass grave and cemeteries to build hotels. So if the aircon suddenly very cold or noisy at night, don't open your eyes

Message me once thing in the morning so that I know you are safe in your room. Then you wait for open invitation lah

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Next time just go watch ghost/horror movies. Scare her first. Can hug hug in the cinema if she is scared. Then tell her many Chinese people die in JB during world war 2 because of Japanese massacre. Then when Malaysia became an independent country, they have to dig up the Chinese mass grave and cemeteries to build hotels. So if the aircon suddenly very cold or noisy at night, don't open your eyes

Message me once thing in the morning so that I know you are safe in your room. Then you wait for open invitation lah

Sounds like a good idea lol

[bigmannow]

About 8 years ago I met an Indonesian lady online .. she then came over here for holiday .. she is apparently quite rich and has a business in Indonesia. I suggested to meet at her hotel. When I arrived at her hotel lobby .. she came down to meet me and then she wanted to go back her room to change her clothes and asked me to go up her room instead of waiting at lobby. It was quite sudden and so I declined. She asked again and I declined again. Then she went up and changed and came down and I took her around sightseeing and exchanged contact up til now we sometimes keep in contact.

[TangBoHu]

Used to know a Muslim girl during my NS days. So after NDP rehearsal, brought her to my home and after my shower, we sleep on the bed.
Started to touch her and she also touched my bro which was really hard. She was wearing jeans which is so hard to take off. Then last min, she backed out and i leave her alone until morning then send her off after breakfast.

[bigmannow]

About 8 years ago I met a VN girl online .. went to VN for holiday and met up with her ..she was only 22 and quite pretty and C cups …she was unemployed at that time and she occasionally sings at a club. Some time later , she came here for holiday with her relatives. We met up and I took her to eat some nice food. She was very happy..I also test water by holding her waist while walking … no resistance .. I suggested she visit my place , so we took MRT .. it was also her first time taking MRT and she was excited , I remember she was holding the standing pole and swinging round and she purposely rub against my body .. when reach my place I invited her into my room , then we sat on my bed and chatted.. then I stroked her skirt asking her what colour is it … she replied and I argued with her the colour haha .. then I start to stroke her dress straps and she suddenly stood up and say want to go hawker Center to have dinner … so we went and eat and then she went back .. thinking back she was maybe trying to act shy I should have persist more haha

[Ushkaka99]

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[Nelsonlim]

Met a pretty and fair prc xmm for lunch. I said I wanted to charge my phone and asked if I could go to her rented room nearby. To my surprise she agreed! She was really too naive. At her room while waiting for my phone to charge, we chatted on her bed. My mind was running wild seeing her cropped T shirt exposing her fair and slim waist. One moment she got up to get her phone and she tripped and fell on me. I was trying hard to control myself not to ravage her young body. That time I was afraid she might cry foul and I remembered seeing cctvs on the way to her apartment. Thinking back, should have just test water by starting slow like stroking her legs or something.

[phantomboyz]

After i moved out from my parents out due to some conflict, i used to work in then Westin Stamford hotel as room service. Back then, Tiong Bahru used to be where most of the hotel foreign staff rented room above those shop lots. So i used to rent a small personal room then there was another room where a Malaysian couple were staying. Our communication among housemates just hi hi bye bye.Or the most watching tv program together. Then one day her boyfriend went back to Malaysia for a week ,left his girlfriend alone. Within 2-3 days i accidentally bumped into her came out from bathroom just wrapping towel,can see those poking nipples. There was once caught her brought a guy into the room,but i borchap lah. Since then we had few chitchat,she also came into my room just to see how big my room is,of coz not alone lah. With another female housemate. Then one day i asked he got any VCD to watch, she brought out lah many pirated VCDs then accidentally found few porn VCDs. Jio her to watch together she was ok at that time. We planned to watch that night suddenly her boyfriend returned without inform earlier. Heard big quarreling was going on whole night. On the next day, found the room already vacate.

That was one of my missed in the millennium year

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by Nelsonlim

One moment she got up to get her phone and she tripped and fell on me.

u didn't "hop" her and then looked deeply into her eyes meh?

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

About 8 years ago I met a VN girl online .. went to VN for holiday and met up with her ..she was only 22 and quite pretty and C cups …
.. thinking back she was maybe trying to act shy I should have persist more haha

Over the years, I learnt to just go in for the kill. The worst that could happen is you get rejected.

Firstly, see if she rejects you when you get into her personal space, meaning get very close to her.
If she didn't reject you, go for the kiss. - this is the best indicator for the next step.
Some won't kiss but I will proceed to the neck and earlobes - yes, you can still go all the way without kissing.