Do you still wanna bonk your wife?

[chelsea4ever]

Initially got bored with fucking my wife after 7 years together. However found new interest again after she agreed role playing with me, sometimes I will 'rape' her as we imagine not knowing each other, sometimes we will will go clubbing and she will dress sexily and dirty dance with guys and go home with me for some wild sex as though she just know me there, and sometimes she will listen to me and go to work without her panties and bra and I will be eagerly awaiting for work to end so that we can have a good fuck and she's open to outdoor sex as well. We always try new things to keep our sex life going.

Of course there's drawback as well, e.g. We were caught a few times having outdoor sex by peeping toms and what surprised me was that she refuse to stop when I told her of them, instead she ask me to fuck her harder.

Another backfire is we role play so much that once she got drunk at a disco and ended up at a guy's place thinking it was me role playing with her and ended being fucked by the guy and his friend raw as she think it was me and stop him from putting on the condom.

[goodfuck]

I think in general, all guys will want to bonk. And its true even if the gal is their own wife. What's more, there are also benefits to bonk your wife: a) its free and b) it saves time (no need to find gal available for booking and then travel to/fro hotel just to bonk).

However, because its free, the service level, I must say, is non existent, at least for my case. You have to provide the service instead. You have to seduce her, beg her, please her, arouse her in order to get your free bonk. And in the process may even get scolded, kicked, etc. Like what some bros mentioned earlier, there's no BJ, not to mention BBBJ, cannot touch/lick/finger pussy, cannot suck/squeeze breast too hard or else complain pain, only one position, missionary, that's all. With so many restrictions, its a great turn off for me. I hope most wives are not like that but I'm not sure how many is like my case. Its not that she does not want to have sex, but just too many restrictions.

In addition, many conditions must be right in order to make love with your wife:
a) Need to find a suitable time when both of us are alone or kids are asleep.
b) She must not be on code red.
c) Both parties must be in the right mood. If she has been watching horror movie or too stressed or tired from work or have just quarreled or argued over something, then no chance.

From the description above, I think if you are me, you would also sometimes either DIY or 'ta-pao' from outside than bonk your wife. I am not making excuse for myself but this is how I truly feel.

[goodfuck]

Originally Posted by chelsea4ever

Initially got bored with fucking my wife after 7 years together. However found new interest again after she agreed role playing with me, sometimes I will 'rape' her as we imagine not knowing each other, sometimes we will will go clubbing and she will dress sexily and dirty dance with guys and go home with me for some wild sex as though she just know me there, and sometimes she will listen to me and go to work without her panties and bra and I will be eagerly awaiting for work to end so that we can have a good fuck and she's open to outdoor sex as well. We always try new things to keep our sex life going.

Of course there's drawback as well, e.g. We were caught a few times having outdoor sex by peeping toms and what surprised me was that she refuse to stop when I told her of them, instead she ask me to fuck her harder.

Another backfire is we role play so much that once she got drunk at a disco and ended up at a guy's place thinking it was me role playing with her and ended being fucked by the guy and his friend raw as she think it was me and stop him from putting on the condom.

Bro, I really envy your sex live with you wife man, except the part she get bonked by another guy raw.

[Wet_Towel]

Originally Posted by freezetheDB

Really feel sorry for bro chowyunfat after reading his plight.

At least he still get to ML with wifey. Not like me.

[cumfast]

Originally Posted by chelsea4ever

Initially got bored with fucking my wife after 7 years together. However found new interest again after she agreed role playing with me, sometimes I will 'rape' her as we imagine not knowing each other, sometimes we will will go clubbing and she will dress sexily and dirty dance with guys and go home with me for some wild sex as though she just know me there, and sometimes she will listen to me and go to work without her panties and bra and I will be eagerly awaiting for work to end so that we can have a good fuck and she's open to outdoor sex as well. We always try new things to keep our sex life going.

Of course there's drawback as well, e.g. We were caught a few times having outdoor sex by peeping toms and what surprised me was that she refuse to stop when I told her of them, instead she ask me to fuck her harder.

Another backfire is we role play so much that once she got drunk at a disco and ended up at a guy's place thinking it was me role playing with her and ended being fucked by the guy and his friend raw as she think it was me and stop him from putting on the condom.

whao! how you get the "new found interest" after 7 years? teach us! how you communicated with her over the idea?

[cumfast]

Originally Posted by goodfuck

I think in general, all guys will want to bonk. And its true even if the gal is their own wife. What's more, there are also benefits to bonk your wife: a) its free and b) it saves time (no need to find gal available for booking and then travel to/fro hotel just to bonk).

However, because its free, the service level, I must say, is non existent, at least for my case. You have to provide the service instead. You have to seduce her, beg her, please her, arouse her in order to get your free bonk. And in the process may even get scolded, kicked, etc. Like what some bros mentioned earlier, there's no BJ, not to mention BBBJ, cannot touch/lick/finger pussy, cannot suck/squeeze breast too hard or else complain pain, only one position, missionary, that's all. With so many restrictions, its a great turn off for me. I hope most wives are not like that but I'm not sure how many is like my case. Its not that she does not want to have sex, but just too many restrictions.

In addition, many conditions must be right in order to make love with your wife:
a) Need to find a suitable time when both of us are alone or kids are asleep.
b) She must not be on code red.
c) Both parties must be in the right mood. If she has been watching horror movie or too stressed or tired from work or have just quarreled or argued over something, then no chance.

From the description above, I think if you are me, you would also sometimes either DIY or 'ta-pao' from outside than bonk your wife. I am not making excuse for myself but this is how I truly feel.

1) Please don't treat your wife as someone who should service you. You need to please her! Why not?

2) Code red cannot bang? I always bang my gf when we have time together, whether code red or not!

3) If mood not right also won't enjoy mah. If no mood to have sex, then hug and sleep loh.

Something tells me that some man / woman take their spouse for granted. Who knows... I may be like that after I get married.

[chelsea4ever]

Originally Posted by cumfast

whao! how you get the "new found interest" after 7 years? teach us! how you communicated with her over the idea?

I just told her we need to do something to spice up our sex life and started by asking her to dress sexily and as skimpy as possible to arouse me and ask her to imagine I'm someone else and me imagine that she is someone else and tell each other our fantasy

[AdministratorX]

Originally Posted by chelsea4ever

I just told her we need to do something to spice up our sex life and started by asking her to dress sexily and as skimpy as possible to arouse me and ask her to imagine I'm someone else and me imagine that she is someone else and tell each other our fantasy

maybe u can find a FL and do a threesome?

lidat sure can spice up ur life..

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by chelsea4ever

Initially got bored with fucking my wife after 7 years together. However found new interest again after she agreed role playing with me, sometimes I will 'rape' her as we imagine not knowing each other, sometimes we will will go clubbing and she will dress sexily and dirty dance with guys and go home with me for some wild sex as though she just know me there, and sometimes she will listen to me and go to work without her panties and bra and I will be eagerly awaiting for work to end so that we can have a good fuck and she's open to outdoor sex as well. We always try new things to keep our sex life going.

Of course there's drawback as well, e.g. We were caught a few times having outdoor sex by peeping toms and what surprised me was that she refuse to stop when I told her of them, instead she ask me to fuck her harder.

Another backfire is we role play so much that once she got drunk at a disco and ended up at a guy's place thinking it was me role playing with her and ended being fucked by the guy and his friend raw as she think it was me and stop him from putting on the condom.

Oh dear !!! How did you two get over the incident ?

Hmmm ... maybe u shld ask bro peterpan to join the swingers club if you get more aroused by such incidents

Just a suggestion, no offense bro.

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Eh, serious?!? Ok, I try!!



SneakyBastard
See? If all men would be as honest & communicative as you are, life would be so much easier. (Same goes for the women who say "nothing's wrong" when OBVIOUSLY something is wrong.)
Though... WTF lah, I CAN COOK OK. !@%#%$@! And in Singapore, no one really runs a bath for their partners. How many of you have bathtubs at home??

Although honestly, I don't feel what you've described is what he's going through. You know it's not work is not something he is willingly burying himself in when you help him pick up his calls, and it's his boss asking for something to be done NOW.

I personally believe in work-life balance. I was stuck in a horrible job before.

My ex-colleagues were great but our bosses were plain horrible.

It took a heavy toll on my relationship and personal well-being.

Stressed out, worrying all the time, losing sleep, bad temper, fatigue etc...

This affected my gf (now my wifey) badly as well. In the end, I gave up the job although it was paying quite well for a more stable but lower-paying job.

Ended being happier and this helps make me a better person both on the bed and off.

But a lot also depended on my wife being supportive of me.

Communication is the key as usual.

[Xgenre]

Wonder if you guys had this scenario before. Last week, a close guy friend asked me out for a drink. You know lar, when we guys have all guys time, we tend to do guys talk. (look at girls and comment on face, figure etc, talk abt cars, talk about career, bitch about wife etc). Basically, he got tired of his wife after so many years. Complain wife getting old (thus naggy), looking old (can see sagging face and wrinkles), feeling old (running your fingers over sagging, not firm flesh and wrinkled skin) etc... not many guys care that their wives are in such a state because the wives have to give birth to kids and look after small kids (children) and big kid (husband).

I thought this will be a normal drinking session where we had a great time and no one will remember whatever crap we discussed during the drinking session. How wrong I was. He came looking very stressed and told me his wife was diagnosed with a 5 cm ovarian cyst. Maybe cancer. Gynae took blood for some tests and results will come back 2 weeks later. Don't know why it needs such a long time to get results also. His wife is 35 (not that old also) and has been crying a lot. Thoughts of her dying with 2 young kids kept both of them worried and depressed.

He did what he could to re-assure her. Hugging her for hours and having heart to heart chats. He told her regardless of what happens, he will be there for her. Even if the worst case scenario of death occurring, he will look after both kids well. He didn't describe too much but they had sex soon after. He told me the sex was amazingly intense. It's like break-up sex, only much more intense. Sex, when there is a sense of impending loss, can be amazing. This incident kind of spark off a new chapter in their sex life. Live life like everyday's your last.

When a lot of us married our wives, we vow to love them in sickness and and health, for better and for worse. The vow has nothing to do with any promises of eternal fantastic sex after marriage. If your wife is sick and may die soon, will you bonk them more (as a form of love) ? I do wonder sometimes, if we need a crisis to look at an issue from another angle. Just hope his wife is fine as the results will be known this weekend.

[goodfuck]

Originally Posted by cumfast

1) Please don't treat your wife as someone who should service you. You need to please her! Why not?

2) Code red cannot bang? I always bang my gf when we have time together, whether code red or not!

3) If mood not right also won't enjoy mah. If no mood to have sex, then hug and sleep loh.

Something tells me that some man / woman take their spouse for granted. Who knows... I may be like that after I get married.

Here's my reply:

1) Please don't treat your wife as someone who should service you. You need to please her! Why not?
Yes, I'm willing to please her and I did please her, else will not be bonking her. But what I mean is that it should be both ways, ie, she should also reciprocate.

2) Code red cannot bang? I always bang my gf when we have time together, whether code red or not!
Oh, I have never tried banging when she's code red. She don't allow me anyway.

3) If mood not right also won't enjoy mah. If no mood to have sex, then hug and sleep loh.
Yes, that's only what I can do lor .....

[Whitehorn28]

hmm..for me my sex life with my wife is soo bored.she acts like a piece of mannequin and i hv to foreplay on her then ask me to fuck her.she juz lay down and dun bother bout me..tried to tok bout dis b4 but no use.still the same..

one day become unfaithful then she realise about the problem i tink.....
Sian!

[spinex09]

I have been married for 7 years. When i was young i was into good girl conservative types. In fact we only had sex after marriage. Now 7 years down the road we have drifted a lot sexually especially after the kids came along. My taste in women has also started changing. Im now more into sexy clothed women with big breasts and with a daring attitude. The risk of straying increased so much that i started a short fling with a prc Hc fl a few months ago. I have since ended that. But the guilt and the lure of lust still remains. Sigh.

[Frankiestine]

I only get "home cooking" once in two months so bo bian oc cannot blame me for eating out most of the time...in fact if given a choice i would prefer to eat "home cooked" every day but then too tiring for oc to "cook" everyday...