Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Mine is different in the sense that I do not know is my feelings are mutual or she juz treat me as one of the Sha-Zi...

Think it has been a long long while since someone was so true and nice to her without asking for anything in rtn hence she is also confused.

At this point, I juz want to help her safeguard her hard-earned money from any other "man" in PRC.. my relationship with her can wait a few more years as we clarify our feelings for each other and see if ..

She probably dun want to cause you hurt as she knows you're genuine to her. I think in that sense, I dun think she treats you as a sha zi.

However, it hardly justifies for your 'investment' in feelings. As a bro here, I'll say that prc girls have many things that runs deep. Sometimes, you'll be so damn surprised after you know the truth. You'll wonder how on earth is she able to keep such things from you, and yet behaved so naturally without a sense of self doubt.

Your willingness to help her safe-guard her money against other men is admirable, it really show genuine concern although I can't really guess how you intend to do that. It sounds tough.

Hope your investment come back with good returns, bro. Best luck!

[yunao]

bro shawn_mib
Sorry to say that..but do u know what she do when she get back to china?
Since she can sweet talk to others guys, free fuck for u..Why not other guys?
Are u so special?
Now going to sleep soon, maybe tml i will share my exp with a Fl whom is my first love and finally break off after 2 yrs relationship.Btw this Fl of mine is holding a Thai PR and is a citizen from China.She can spoke thai very well and u will not believe that she was from China.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

She probably dun want to cause you hurt as she knows you're genuine to her. I think in that sense, I dun think she treats you as a sha zi.

However, it hardly justifies for your 'investment' in feelings. As a bro here, I'll say that prc girls have many things that runs deep. Sometimes, you'll be so damn surprised after you know the truth. You'll wonder how on earth is she able to keep such things from you, and yet behaved so naturally without a sense of self doubt.

Your willingness to help her safe-guard her money against other men is admirable, it really show genuine concern although I can't really guess how you intend to do that. It sounds tough.

Hope your investment come back with good returns, bro. Best luck!

Dun know lah.. went to pass her something last nite and ended up with a session as she was quite pissed with all the "China man" asking but not doing.

Spend 2 hours in htl chatting on some of the things I mentioned here and well, she told me that she is not married as legal age in PRC is 21 so whoever told me muz be lying.

Told her I may be settling down soon so I wanted to clarify my feelings for her..(Maybe I shall try to test her feelings for me next time.)

Anyway, she shared some things with me too and now I wonder if the other one was lying as this friend only recently told me some "truths" and admitted she lied in the past.

But then, as the one who told me has never asked me for anything at all and had been quite a friend. I dun know if I should believe her or suspect her of being nasty to others...haiz

Well, like you say. Their feelings run deep but I am tired of playing games liao SO i told her that from henceforth, I will speak my mind with her and if fate will bring us together in the future.. so be it.

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

...Well, like you say. Their feelings run deep but I am tired of playing games liao SO i told her that from henceforth, I will speak my mind with her and if fate will bring us together in the future.. so be it.

Hope it ends well for you bro. Sometimes you know you'll never get to know the truth, you just have to get the next best thing. And that, to me, is lots of communication. You can tally her many accounts from her various state of mind. Like when she is down, when she is happy, when she had a little alcohol, when she felt like being romantic...

I always tell me girl that I only know her 5%. And if I have to make decisions on that 5%, it may not be good for our future.

[aczeta76]

Thanks bro. Same to you.

Anyway, I have steeled myself and will not be a Sha Zi and spend within my means.

If we are meant to be, time will "process" it for us.

[dirtyhairy]

Dun know if this apply to WLs as well
but my non WL but biz PRC divorcee is kind and different, I can tell
bcos she would either sms or ring me every day
just to make sure me okay
although I think she wanna ensure I dun stray
Sometimes in jest to her, I would tease
about leaving her for another fair miss
and you could hear her sobs and read her sad SMSes
in case u wonder why DirtyHairy so stylo
really got PRC so good meh, even when I look worse than "only so so"
just as there are corrupted lawyers who are thieves
there are also many wise legal counsels who, for charity,they generously give
As I have repeated b4 that not all women or men are bad
although in both sexes, there are oso really many bad hats
but regardless of one's nationalities,
it's about the individuals, the chemistry....between the involved parties
so can there be true love after all?
yes... for me... bcos my gal having my baby is the best gift of all

[aczeta76]

Bro DH,

I agree loh... sometimes all they want is for someone to take them in their arms and 'protect' them from the world.

C'mon... I stood at GL L19 alone for 2 hours at 3AM one of the days last week so that I can get a sense of how it muz be like... And it was terrible, esp with all the Chinaman around..

Juz looking at how the girls were chill my heart... Now, can we blame them for being $$ minded when most of the man they meet are like that. No wonder so many of them get conned by Chicken Head at home

All they want is stability, love and someone who takes care of them... so much till they can turn a blind eye to other things.. strange how all humans are like that.. I am also turning a blind eye to some of the things she does and letting it go...(Which I will never do when I wear my BIZ hat)

"All the world is a stage and we are merely actors"

[Picocloud]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I am also turning a blind eye to some of the things she does and letting it go...(Which I will never do when I wear my BIZ hat)

"All the world is a stage and we are merely actors"

You mind sharing what are some things you "turn a blind eye" aside from the most obvious that she is a WL?

[shawn_mib]

this makes me more determine to take good care of her....

[aczeta76]

Good for you.

Today I juz discovered that my presence will affect her from doing work. Once she sees me, she will feel like being with me and forget about work

So I decided not to visit her so often. Afterall, she needs to work since I can't pay for all her needs at current.

So Bro Shawn, Jia You to the both of US...

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Good for you.

Today I juz discovered that my presence will affect her from doing work. Once she sees me, she will feel like being with me and forget about work

So I decided not to visit her so often. Afterall, she needs to work since I can't pay for all her needs at current.

So Bro Shawn, Jia You to the both of US...

mi sincerely wish both of you find true love with PRC girls

[cinta]

Though I am quite pessimistic of such relationship, my sincerest hopes for the 2 of you and may you find happiness .... Gong Hei Fatt Choy bros

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

this makes me more determine to take good care of her....

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Good for you.

Today I juz discovered that my presence will affect her from doing work. Once she sees me, she will feel like being with me and forget about work

So I decided not to visit her so often. Afterall, she needs to work since I can't pay for all her needs at current.

So Bro Shawn, Jia You to the both of US...

[shawn_mib]

thanks bro, may both of us have a happy ending.... anyway, these few days have been calling her but she is always busy.

So dun reali have a chance to have a good chat with her.... but at least now i know i can reach her easily these days.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

thanks bro, may both of us have a happy ending.... anyway, these few days have been calling her but she is always busy.

So dun reali have a chance to have a good chat with her.... but at least now i know i can reach her easily these days.

For mi ... I will try calling my PRC gf everyday after lunch time at 1pm.
Just to ask her how is she doing for the day ?

This is another way to show care & concern in daily manner

[Insider]

Bro, juts curious, wont she think you really interested in her and maybe want a long term relationship with her ,....