Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[3228]

Actually a simple concept or principal for cheongster: buy is cheaper than "free" , free for fuck but pay more for other expenses.
买的便宜过"免费"的. 虽然做爱是免费, 可是花在其他的会更多.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Ray06

I think one needed much courage to live with a FL.
While you understand the thought of having free sex but in fact paying more for other costs is not an equal duel mean you are indeed in love with her.
So, is there something she deserve your love beside her sexy body or sweet face?
Maybe is better for you to spend time and money on other average looking normal lady for a good relationship and companion.

it is a calling no one sane should take up, beneath the illusion that you triumph by getting "free" sex from a paid sex worker, you pay in other ways, and in many ways, many times the price it is worth. You might even forsake your sanity and your soul and be caught in this abyss of pain and hurt with no where to hide. Man are wretched creatures, "Of all creatures that breathe and move upon the earth, nothing is bred that is weaker than man"

[Ray06]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

it is a calling no one sane should take up, beneath the illusion that you triumph by getting "free" sex from a paid sex worker, you pay in other ways, and in many ways, many times the price it is worth. You might even forsake your sanity and your soul and be caught in this abyss of pain and hurt with no where to hide. Man are wretched creatures, "Of all creatures that breathe and move upon the earth, nothing is bred that is weaker than man"

Maybe you are a passionate person, no way I will do that....
Always remember Equal Deal!
Take care.

[skids]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

bro I know what you have gone through. I went through it, its a shitty feeling and it seems like hell never ends
Just fall in love with someone who should not be loved, give respect to someone who gave it away a long time ago
I think if we gather the bros who are in this situation for drinks, we all will be singing broken hearted songs and drinking like hell because we are all a band of brothers who fell in love in a FL, WL, someone who works in that trade
Hope your situation is better now.

Thank you very much, I am better now, pack my house, fix what I need to fix, in fact more better off, whatever I lost I gain back, except need to earn back these 2years money back again, only my wife is curious how come I so hardworking, making the home comfortable again

[deathnitez]

Had a session with friends yesterday suddenly one of my friend from then group agreed that the amount they spend on hangflower joint and ktv girls is enough for them to retire if not have spend. Wahaha

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Had a session with friends yesterday suddenly one of my friend from then group agreed that the amount they spend on hangflower joint and ktv girls is enough for them to retire if not have spend. Wahaha

WOO UPZ 👍 👍 👍

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

one of my friend from then group agreed that the amount they spend on hangflower joint and ktv girls is enough for them to retire if not have spend. Wahaha

There are also many friends who saved a lot. Didn't enjoy life much in their youth. With so much money in the bank, some have passed on due to illness. Are they happier than those guys spending money in ktv?

[skids]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

There are also many friends who saved a lot. Didn't enjoy life much in their youth. With so much money in the bank, some have passed on due to illness. Are they happier than those guys spending money in ktv?

My thoughts are for those bros including myself, maybe will still have one or 2 close contacts but no deep commitments, just stay comfortable, I think vice versa the woman also wishes to be like that, too much commitment spoils the friendship, I admit I do still have one to two best friends still in the line, but once in a while just let it out but any further, call it quits, after all when we get older, we do not want to be still struggling hard out there and btw we also need to keep an amount of money to live on, I understand some brothers lost much much more than myself, so I also just move on but seeing those who went ktv and HF joints, who are pretty well off, just enjoy the peer pleasure but don’t ditch in till cannot reverse, after all whether how much one earns, it still not easy, stress level are different. Just my 2 cents of words

[deathnitez]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

There are also many friends who saved a lot. Didn't enjoy life much in their youth. With so much money in the bank, some have passed on due to illness. Are they happier than those guys spending money in ktv?

Must strike balance. Why not spend wisely instead of overspending. Can have fun and retire earlier. I feel my friends they just like to boost their ego too much maybe is the job stress or family stress or the empty void they have to fill, I am not very sure since I am single and lucky to retire young. I have fun but choose not to overspend.

I remember one ml ask me why I no visit her I told her if I can get better service if not even better facilities then your 88 shop why would I go back to you even though you massage skill is good. Gonna be discipline o guess when come to spending.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Ray06

I think one needed much courage to live with a FL.
While you understand the thought of having free sex but in fact paying more for other costs is not an equal deal mean you are indeed in love with her.
So, is there something she deserve your love beside her sexy body or sweet face?
Maybe is better for you to spend time and money on other average looking normal lady for a good relationship and companion.

My ML is an average looking lady, don't have a sexy body or sweet face. She is a simple woman without much education, don't care about career, just want to live each day and being able to send back some money to her family to get by their day. Having her company makes me feel relaxed because she don't have a lot to think of. Just nice the kind of woman I'm looking for. You can't find a normal lady like this in Singapore.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

My ML is an average looking lady, don't have a sexy body or sweet face. She is a simple woman without much education, don't care about career, just want to live each day and being able to send back some money to her family to get by their day. Having her company makes me feel relaxed because she don't have a lot to think of. Just nice the kind of woman I'm looking for. You can't find a normal lady like this in Singapore.

most of them just live day by day, hence they take up jobs like that. They have no big ambitions for things. I say most, but of course, there are those who have a vision. Those are rare.

Just enjoy your time with her, when the time comes to split, don't have regrets, you enjoyed your lot.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

most of them just live day by day, hence they take up jobs like that. They have no big ambitions for things. I say most, but of course, there are those who have a vision. Those are rare.

Just enjoy your time with her, when the time comes to split, don't have regrets, you enjoyed your lot.

That's why it is very easy for me to become addicted with her because I'm looking for a partner with this mindset.

I can have her company for now, but she will eventually leave. I hope I can find a permanent partner like this ... Still considering the options I have, it took much time to find and build such chemistry with a ML which will end anyway.

[ssd3469]

Has it ever occured to you all that the money you all pay MLs/FLs is actually earned mostly by the Pimp/Orh gui tao/ boss who is a male? Does that thought turn you all off from visiting ML or FL? Cause it's like you are paying a male ultimately.

[Ray06]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

My ML is an average looking lady, don't have a sexy body or sweet face. She is a simple woman without much education, don't care about career, just want to live each day and being able to send back some money to her family to get by their day. Having her company makes me feel relaxed because she don't have a lot to think of. Just nice the kind of woman I'm looking for. You can't find a normal lady like this in Singapore.

Can share she is Malaysian or PRC?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Has it ever occured to you all that the money you all pay MLs/FLs is actually earned mostly by the Pimp/Orh gui tao/ boss who is a male? Does that thought turn you all off from visiting ML or FL? Cause it's like you are paying a male ultimately.

Pay? Apart from paying the listed price for the massage or other service like ear digging if i went down to the spa, she doesn't ask me for anything.