Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[ssilverzoommer]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Aiyoh, come to me la. My in-law's side has quite a number of young pretty gals that's around 20 to 26. All ready for marriage. I only introduce gals i know.Me not full time match maker, just do some times only.

Wah bro really ah? R they in Spore now?

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Aiyoh, come to me la. My in-law's side has quite a number of young pretty gals that's around 20 to 26. All ready for marriage. I only introduce gals i know.Me not full time match maker, just do some times only.

Thanks bro, i let u know the outcome

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by ssilverzoommer

Wah bro really ah? R they in Spore now?

bro, i not full time match maker. So will not bring the gals in for viewing la

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Thanks bro, i let u know the outcome

No worries bro. Give me a PM or sms me after you have decided.

[SingViet]

I went shopping with my family the other day and i met 2 Singaporean man with vietnamese partners along the way. Not sure if they are married. But can know the gals are vietnamese from their mandarin accent. WOW!! More and more singaporean man are with vietnamese partners now, maybe next time must call for FALL IN at City Hall. :P

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I went shopping with my family the other day and i met 2 Singaporean man with vietnamese partners along the way. Not sure if they are married. But can know the gals are vietnamese from their mandarin accent. WOW!! More and more singaporean man are with vietnamese partners now, maybe next time must call for FALL IN at City Hall. :P

Vietnamese gals are been favoured by many single sporean men now.

I heard vn govenment r trying to discourged their gals from marrying foreigers and i also heard those matchmaking agency that matchmake vn gals to foreigners r also ban in vietnam.

I also afraid one day our government will also make it difficult for sporean men from marrying vn gals, as many sporean gals are still single.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Vietnamese gals are been favoured by many single sporean men now. I heard vn govenment r trying to discourged their gals from marrying foreigers and i also heard those matchmaking agency that matchmake vn gals to foreigners r also ban in vietnam. I also afraid one day our government will also make it difficult for sporean men from marrying vn gals, as many sporean gals are still single.

It is indeed true that matchmaking is illegal in Vietnam now. But most matchmaking agencies are surpassing this ban by going underground, i.e they claim that the individuals got to know each other. this is one trade that is difficult to get rid of all together. Vietnamese in vietnam dependence on remittance from overseas vietnamese is so high that we are looking at around US$3 billion is being remitted back to vietnam each year. So such big amount of money at stake, do you think hanoi will impose a total crackdown?

As for Singapore side, it has become a norm that Singaporean man and woman are marrying foreigners. Singapore man go for Chinese and Vietnamese woman while Singaporean woman go for the SWM. This is a social trend that is unstoppable. For singaporean man who has a proper job and steady income, getting PR for the foreign spouse will not be much problem under normal circumstances. Your children will also be entitled to Singapore citizenship and the baby bonus and education co-savings. At the same time, you will get a $10,000 income tax rebate, which translate to no personal income tax payment for at least 5 years.

But my wife personally experience some sort of discrmination at ICA last week when we went for citizenship application. The lady officer conducting the first interview was quite fierce to my wife when she was with my wife alone in the room. My wife claim that once i went into the room, the attitude of the officer changed to become polite.

For those reading this thread or for ladies samsters, Vietnamese Spouse are not inferior and Singaporean man marrying vietnamese spouse are not always individuals with low education and low pay. Many Singaporean man who holds degree or post graduate degrees and earn 5 digit income monthly are also with Vietnamese spouse.

[Torres_Mok]

For those reading this thread or for ladies samsters, Vietnamese Spouse are not inferior and Singaporean man marrying vietnamese spouse are not always individuals with low education and low pay. Many Singaporean man who holds degree or post graduate degrees and earn 5 digit income monthly are also with Vietnamese spouse. [/QUOTE]


It is true that more and more professional and white collar workers are marrying vietnamese gals, as many such men believed that vietnamese gals are family oriented, beautiful and less demanding compared to sporean gals. I believed that this trend will go on.

Due to also some facts that majority of the sporean gals (but not all) think that sporean men are useless, mummyboy and always dare not take risk attitudes are seen not attractive to them. Anyway attractiveness is the eye of the beholder. All these attributes from the sporean men may not be attractive to the sporean gals but i think it is defintely attractive to the vietnamese gals.

perhaps a 50 to 60 year old SWM is more attractive than 20 to 40 year old sporean men.

[SingViet]

Today's Straits Times again featured a British Footballer attached to a local football club marrying a local chinese gal. In fact, two such examples of local gals marrying SWM were cited. And in the report, it stated that more and more Singaporean ladies are marrying SWM.

I remember a friend of mine who used to love SWM a lot. She was with a number of SWM before she finally settled for a french man. After that, they moved back to a town near paris. She told us that life was so hard and she really regretted marrying that guy.

Its an undeniable fact that SWM can sweet talk well, much better than local man. But its also undeniable that they sweet talk every other woman they meet. Anything eastern is in fashion now. I remember my British University classmate told me that its a trend to play with asian pussies. Go west and follow the western trend and u will end up like them, marrying a few times throughout your life.

We wish Singapore ladies the best in their future endeavours.

[Torres_Mok]

After talking so much about sporean gals craving for SWM, i don't know whether vietnamese gals like SWM or not? I hv not been to HCMC, but i hv heard alot of SWM r going to HCMC to look for vn gals! I also heard nicro r going there for vn gals too. If vn gals like SWM and nicro....... mati sia I hv to go to china shaolin to become a monk.......

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Vietnamese gals are been favoured by many single sporean men now.

I heard vn govenment r trying to discourged their gals from marrying foreigers and i also heard those matchmaking agency that matchmake vn gals to foreigners r also ban in vietnam.

It should be that vn government discouraged their gals from marrying countries like Taiwan and korea etc...especially taiwanese...taiwanese go find gals and then make love with them...sleep with them...then in the end end up to be the wife of the taiwanese guy's mentally disabled brother....if not...the gals end up working as maid in the house....and also required to serve all the men in the house....

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

I also afraid one day our government will also make it difficult for sporean men from marrying vn gals, as many sporean gals are still single.

Dont think so this will happen since both side government is working together now....

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

It should be that vn government discouraged their gals from marrying countries like Taiwan and korea etc...especially taiwanese...taiwanese go find gals and then make love with them...sleep with them...then in the end end up to be the wife of the taiwanese guy's mentally disabled brother....if not...the gals end up working as maid in the house....and also required to serve all the men in the house....

Very sad to hear that vn gals suffered like that.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Very sad to hear that vn gals suffered like that.

Sad stories like that are plentiful. Around 100,000 Vietnamese gals married taiwanese man for the past many years and there are also a group of them ended in divorce. I heard stories that are terrible like taiwanese husband brought another 2 man home after a night of drinking and demanded his vietnamese wife have a mass orgy. Penetrated the pussy. anal and mouth. Other stories included them serving like maids in the mentally disabled husband's family. Sad Sad stories lah.

But in recent years, hanoi placed restrictions on vietnamese gals marrying taiwanese man. Each year, only a limited number of taiwanese man are allowed to marry vietnamese gals. They have to go thru interview by the HCM government or Hanoi government. Those that passed the interview will be given a certificate of eligibility. With this certificate, they can go to the provisional government and apply for marriage with the vietnamese gal. At the provincial government, the taiwanese man and the vietnamese gal has to go thru another few rounds of interview to ensure consistency in their statements.

So nowadays, its not that easy for vietnamese ladies to marry taiwanese man. instead, Singaporean man are the most wanted as we are deemed as gentle and responsible, most importantly, they believe that singaporean husband will not beat the wives up. next in line after Singaporean man are the korean man.

[SingViet]

For bros who needs a different view of Vietnam now, all prices quoted in US$
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60% of imported used cars are luxurious 17:25' 08/02/2007 (GMT+7)
VietNamNet Bridge – Some 500 used cars have been imported in the last seven months, since the Government lifted the ban on used car imports, 60% of which have been luxury cars, priced 2-3 times higher than brand new locally made cars.

The Italia-made Porsche now available in Vietnam
Vietnam remains a small market, but all luxurious brand names have appeared in the market, including BMW, Lexus, Mercedes Benz, Porsche, Aston Martin, Bentley, Audi and Jaguar. The HCM City-based Hoang Trong Company has been the biggest used car importer, importing 100 units so far, including unique cars that cannot be seen elsewhere in Vietnam.

These include the Maybach 62, Bentley Continental 2, Audi Q7 manufactured in 2007, Cadillac Escalade (series 2007), Mercedes Benz S550 (series 2007) and two-door BMW 650 (series 2006), which have prices of between $70,000 and several hundred thousand dollars.

Duy, a businessman who specialises in importing used cars in district 11 in HCM City, said that the majority of the luxurious cars were being purchased by the owners of businesses. In general, BMW 5-series and 7-series are favoured by young entrepreneurs, while Mercedes S class are used by elder businessmen, and playboys like driving BMWs and sports cars.

Duy said that businessmen who trade seafood and rice in the western area and construction steel traders have recently been added onto the list of his clients. The list also includes people who have become rich overnight thanks to profitable securities trading deals. Duy said that his clients, who only purchase unique cars, rarely pay by instalments; they always pay in cash, and once only.

The director of a Hanoi-based car trading company said that there were more and more people, business bosses, who wanted to buy luxury cars. He related the story of a construction company director, who sold and bought cars 10 times last year.

Used cars have been imported to Vietnam mostly to fulfil the orders of clients, and it takes 2-3 months on average to get cars, which come on shipping lines. Used car dealers mostly import cars from the US as there are many choices and the prices seem to be cheaper than of those from Europe.

Used imports have an average mileage of 2-3,000 miles; therefore, they are all in good condition.

However, it takes care and pain to play with cars. Only very few customers who are keen on vehicles can purchase models that manufacturers have just launched onto foreign markets. Several rich people and playboys, who don’t want to wait two or three months for their cars to be shipped to Vietnam, have had their cars shipped in by air.

Playboys have helped Vietnam’s market connect to the world’s car market. Playboys these days are whispering in each others’ ears the information that a BMW X5 manufactured in 2007, which has just been introduced in Germany, has appeared in the garage of an IT (information technology) company. It is said that the owner of the car is one of the 100 stock market millionaires.

D. said he has sold a Mercedes S600 manufactured in 2005 to the director of a steel company at VND4.5bil. The Maybach 62 imported to Vietnam at the end of last year as ordered by a businessman was valued at $580,000 after tax.

The red Rolls Royce manufactured in 1995 now being used by Mrs H., a businesswoman in the real estate sector, does not have an official price, but according to T., a used car importer, it must not be below $1mil.

The Bentley Continental that was sold by Hoang Trong Company to a rich man named K. was priced at $500,000.

T. revealed that a Rolls Royce, which is on its way to Vietnam, could set a price record as it might be valued at over $1mil.