The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Not married haha can't ans to this thread topic..

But still one old line treasure the one beside you. Does not really matter he or she was the one you love the most ornot..

What matters is who the one beside you when you are lost.. Down.. Cashless.. Helpless..and walk thru with you thru thick and thin.
Live in present tense. & forge a future tense with whoever you treasure the most atm.

Throw away past tense. Be happy everyday (=

Ok queeniegal i post u a question.

If i discovered she cannot go thro thick and thin with me, and kws her character that she is self centred. What shld I do? If I got a less than 2 yr old kid?

[maybelee]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Ok queeniegal i post u a question.

If i discovered she cannot go thro thick and thin with me, and kws her character that she is self centred. What shld I do? If I got a less than 2 yr old kid?

I guess u have to ask urself first why did u marry her in the first place?

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by maybelee

I guess u have to ask urself first why did u marry her in the first place?

Before we got married she everything ok.

Ask her to go a place- she said anything
Ask her what do u tink of girl who prefers bf with car- she said don't mind can take MRT


Now, changed. Every venue she decides. ANd now she wants either a house or a car.

I opened my eyes big liao. But she covers well

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Before we got married she everything ok.

Ask her to go a place- she said anything
Ask her what do u tink of girl who prefers bf with car- she said don't mind can take MRT

Now, changed. Every venue she decides. ANd now she wants either a house or a car.

I opened my eyes big liao. But she covers well

Hai... What I can say is this type of gals plenty la haha my own friend I saw a few. as long as they see the guys is potential chip they will go all the way to married themselves off

So now most are married off & some divorcing.

She shd be very shi wen type and guai guai one har lol I wondering

[deathnitez]

Dont get married is the best..... some girls married liao think they must be treated like a princess.... or just like to be tai tai. the things some girls expects from a married life is just sooooo..... so must control regarding children thingy..... my in law keep asking me to have kids but i say no cause my wife is becoming abit diff from before marriage.... tsk tsk tsk....

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Dont get married is the best..... some girls married liao think they must be treated like a princess.... or just like to be tai tai. the things some girls expects from a married life is just sooooo..... so must control regarding children thingy..... my in law keep asking me to have kids but i say no cause my wife is becoming abit diff from before marriage.... tsk tsk tsk....

My mum say before married is princess treatment after married will be zero and no expectations and might be worst.

I also think same as my mum cause my aunties all like from branded lady to simple lady all devoted to family -.- one even quit her high pay salary just to look after her kids and lead a very simple lifestyle.

[deathnitez]

Guess maybe is your mums era .... If you hear those at their 40s who are spinster and you should see what they try to instill into my wife.... They say a housewife can be very busy because they need to go spa massage, take up courses for dancing and etc, i was like erm is that call busy??

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Guess maybe is your mums era .... If you hear those at their 40s who are spinster and you should see what they try to instill into my wife.... They say a housewife can be very busy because they need to go spa massage, take up courses for dancing and etc, i was like erm is that call busy??

Lol u say me? I might be a spinster too wahahahahaha

But I don't go for spa massage lol I am thinking of learnjng. Baking too wahahahahaha

Dancing & yoga can do evening. I would said these are hobby la.
Even volunteer work to me is a hobby. Enjoying life hahaha

If your wife is working, having go spa once a month or learn dancing or baking once a week shd be okay la

Better then she everyday stick to you anyhow think what you are doing.. Why you are not home.. Are you seeing other gals.. Keep calling you asking where are yoy... Since no kids find activity to keep herself occupy ok mah.

My mum.. She everyday also bz with my dog at home, housework, she work part time. She like to read newspaper one day 3 set so when she is reading she will say don't disturb lol..

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by slicknsmoov

Hence, even if you married someone whom you love a lot, it's not a guarantee of a happily-ever-after ending, unfortunately.

yes but the question is, we don't always marry the ONE?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

yes but the question is, we don't always marry the ONE?

Wrong timing right person?
Guess all are fated so better dont dwell the past look forward!
Life will be happier

[deathnitez]

Actually being a spinster can be a blessing too 😊. I don't mind being a bachelor after I tasted marriage. Having a few summer romances should be able to keep myself occupied. Lol. 😎

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Dont get married is the best..... some girls married liao think they must be treated like a princess.... or just like to be tai tai. the things some girls expects from a married life is just sooooo..... so must control regarding children thingy..... my in law keep asking me to have kids but i say no cause my wife is becoming abit diff from before marriage.... tsk tsk tsk....

YEs bro. Advise to u is PUT ON HOLD abt having a kid. Really. If u see cracks in yr marriage, coz with kid and without is great difference.

Without kid divorce is just living away frm each other and social stigma. With kid another one suffers in the equation.

I suggest u quickly find out what is wrong, the underlying issue, and solve it.

Make sure it is not "cancer" type of prob, before u proceed.

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Hai... What I can say is this type of gals plenty la haha my own friend I saw a few. as long as they see the guys is potential chip they will go all the way to married themselves off

So now most are married off & some divorcing.

She shd be very shi wen type and guai guai one har lol I wondering

Last time, when divorce happens, seems to be always the guy's fault. Have another woman. Drink. Gamble. Violent character.

Now, I heard guy friend saying he fucked some married women. Then heard alot of cases woman does not perform their wifey duties, household chores and MOSTLY also sex part.

Nowadays woman seems to have forgotten.
Yes we guys have to support family financially, take care of family, take care of baby (contemporary husband),
But girls have forgotten they need to at least help, take more responsibities with kid AND AT LEAST DO SOMETHING IN THE BEDROOM.

Life before marriage and after is different. A matured girl will kw... before marriage u can be princess, no responsibilty, dad and mum sayang u.
After married u made vows to care for another extra person, which is yr husband. If u wan continue be princess, then DONT marry.

I believe giving and taking. If u only want to take only, then what the fuck?

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Wrong timing right person?
Guess all are fated so better dont dwell the past look forward!
Life will be happier

Is there a thing as fate?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

Is there a thing as fate?

Haha I believe so....

Things happen strangely the more you cling on something the more you won't have it... Once you let go... If it return it gonna be yours