Do you still wanna bonk your wife?

[bloopz]

Originally Posted by SneakyBastard

Making him feel like a king, for me, is the best way to do it. There's a reason why so many Singapore men get KC'd by PRC girls, or any other nationality than Singaporean, for that matter. Singapore women feel that they simply cannot bring themselves so low as to pleasure a man like a servant bordering on slave.

PRC girls can, and us SG guys find it such a welcome refreshing change. We love it! Often, many of us know we're being KC'd, & likely nothing good will come out of it, but we don't care! Cheat our money? Money can still earn it back. Cheat our feelings? It's probably happened before. We'll get over it. But never in our entire lives have we been treated this way, not even by our mothers! Just for that once-in-a-lifetime feeling of being pampered like a king, why the hell not?

Hope you understand the point I'm trying to make.

i do agree with the points and suggestions above.. well, it is a fact that many women nowadays are very frank about their feelings and what are their needs/wants and are agitated when their needs/wants are not met.
on the other hand, men whom had the chance to be vocal and have to make all the decisions in the past, now have to bow down to everyone.. eg: (when young) - mom, teachers, etc, (grow older) boss, wife?? how can we blame the guys for having bruised ego nowadays?

i know it had been quite frustrating for you not to have enough sex for so long. but, have you had a good chat with your hubby asking him
-wat are his expectations of you as his wife other then giving birth to baby and taking care of the household stuffs?
-what is his view regarding sex? (although he should be quite healthy since both of u have 2 kids in 5 years.)

as mentioned before by some other samsters, communication is the key.. good luck sister!

[starcrosser]

she is having straight patterns. Sometimes i am overfed, sometimes i am starved.

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by goodfuck

I think in general, all guys will want to bonk.

However, because its free, the service level, I must say, is non existent, at least for my case. You have to provide the service instead. You have to seduce her, beg her, please her, arouse her in order to get your free bonk. And in the process may even get scolded, kicked, etc.

Haven't you heard before? Nothing in this world is free. Seriously, NOTHING. Therefore need to "work" very hard to get that free bonk lor.

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Now once a week but I just cope in other ways the rest of the time. Ideally I would love to bonk my wife EVEREEDAE!!!

Woah. Once a week is really good ok. Once again, I am lamenting how come the high drive ppl don't end up marrying each other...

My current count is 9 days without sex. We'll see how long this takes to build up to another 20+++ days. I'm starting to find my own situation very amusing.

Originally Posted by dagger168

I'll keep trying to get my lust back cos words are simply not enough or even effective at all. Feeling lost & empty but will keep trying to save this marriage.

I guess sometimes the sexual spark just runs out. Nothing to do with whether our partners went out of shape or not, or kids, or anything. Cos I'm sure if you ask some of the guys ard, they will bonk nonetheless! Kids?! If horny enough, just go toilet 5 mins with the wife and it's settled lor!

Honestly I feel 99% of the time is down to whether the partner wants to or not. 1% remainder for valid reasons like illness, etc.

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Hmmm.... that's tough. Tell me when is your birthday. I'll buy you a vacuum cleaner for your birthday present.

Vacuum cleaner can compare to human cock meh??


SneakyBastard
I guess I get your drift, but if you think about it in another way (be empathetic to me lah), he pleases his boss/clients/etc, I please him, and WHO PLEASES ME?? My kids?!
Sorry if you find that I'm self-centered/selfish/whatever. But give any regular person the short end of the stick for years, and I'm sure they won't be very pleased with what they get.

If I may present the argument in another way, the whole day I am dealing with little people who aren't exactly very logical nor able to compromise as much as adults can, and I still have to make my spouse feel like a King? I'm sorry, man. It's not like he pays me to justify that much more extra effort, especially not after the last few years when I was doing EXACTLY THAT and got zero returns. Ppl get tired of trying and doing more for no returns, you know?
At least in your case of PRC girls, they at least get "good stuff" out of their KC'ed guys sia.


P.S. Maybe one day I WILL end up like the Pasir Ris woman. HAHAHAHA.


bloopz
2 kids in 4 years, actually. Haha.

My reply to you is very simple: It is not possible to communicate with someone who doesn't talk much.

When I ask, he tells me I am doing everything he wants me to, that nothing is wrong with our marriage (or with me) and that he simply doesn't have the urge to have sex often. That's all. (Or so he says.) But if he doesn't say, and after all these years I really don't find anything suspicious that I feel he is not telling about, I really don't know what else it can be. Except just simply... low drive lor.

No amount of communication can raise his sex drive. Whatever extra stunts I can pull have only served very temporarily. Very tired of trying leh.

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

jugesam
I also guessed that could be the reason lah. So I do take in some freelance jobs and such to help out with the $$ lor. [/FONT]

Maybe you should try FL that suit some of ur needs. It might solve your feeling of frustration as well

[TyLa_BaBy]

vectra
Why do I have a feeling the kind of FL you referring to is different from the type I was talking about?!?!

I was referring to freelance assignments as in "work that i do from home" leh. Not paid sex hor!!

[sleaguepunter]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

My current count is 9 days without sex. We'll see how long this takes to build up to another 20+++ days. I'm starting to find my own situation very amusing.

wa...sis u r up since 4am. what the hell u r doing up 4am?

9days huh.... my last was since mid jan, so who more pitiful.

[tryherout]

We are doing on a project basis - getting baby. She told me she needed maternity leave, a long leave away from work... apart from that, we didnt do anything since 2 months ago.

I ponder much but it didnt encourage me to hook on pros just yet. Is it a long waiting game? Frustrated at times really

[coach]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

If horny enough, just go toilet 5 mins with the wife and it's settled lor!

Sis, i dont think it is feasible with the partners like SG baby type, maybe in some countryside or village it can be done. to those educated modern SG girls, mostly the guys will get scolded and told to be"fuck off/out" right

so sometimes guy need to settle outside if cannot inside

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Vacuum cleaner can compare to human cock meh??

Of course a vacuum cleaner cannot be compared with with man's penis. I can't offer you mine (not that you want it anyway), nor can I assist you in getting your husband to be more active. So the only thing I can offer is a vacuum cleaner.

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

vectra
Why do I have a feeling the kind of FL you referring to is different from the type I was talking about?!?!

I was referring to freelance assignments as in "work that i do from home" leh. Not paid sex hor!!

Haha, you are frustrated of not enough to satisfy ur needs ma... As well as getting some $$$ return...

Just kidding, no ill intention

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Hi TyLa_BaBy, he is still not in hyper-drive after all the comments?

What have you done? It's already spring 2010.....where's your tiger?

[justfuckit]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Hi TyLa_BaBy, he is still not in hyper-drive after all the comments?

What have you done? It's already spring 2010.....where's your tiger?

Dont be confused bro, every woman come to sbf has a reason - different from guys of course, and look for different things too.

Their tiger is hidden underneath, and well controlled publicly, but ..

[TyLa_BaBy]

sleaguepunter
Sexually frustrated, cannot sleep lah!
ok ok, you more poor thing. But for a woman who's taken... anything more than a week is sad hor!


tryherout
It's damn stressful (not to mention not pleasurable) to have sex on project basis. Takes all the fun out of sex.


coach
Agreed. Some local girls are prudes and frigid. Boooooo. Spoil women's reputation.


slider_72
Ok lah, thanks for your vacuum cleaner offer. But no thanks.


Vectra
Your idea is not a bad idea, except *ahem* some guys can be quite gross leh! No amount of money will be able to erase them off my memory hor!


Ichigo_Kurosaki
Yah balls, I also wondering where is my Tiger... But if you notice, some comments not very helpful lah. Hahaha.


justfuckit
Ya ya. I am here to look for shopping kaki!! *rofl*

[bigxos]

i still enjoy it with my wife although i hardly get once in a month but eating out is just another option outside DIY. hee...