Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by playboy82

wow.. keep it up, keep it going, lets make it a 100 page thread.

True love ever exist? how u define true love? well at the very least, i have not teasted any.Actually i always wonder how those marriage couple cope with their life, imagine after work come back, so tired, still need to take care of children, cook, i think abt it also buay tahan ord.

i was thinking of single all the way, so carefree, no worried, when i have save enough $$, maybe i will stay in a far away land, and maybe adopt a child, to have someone to take care of me when i old... haha i must be crazy... haha

i once experience true love but the foolish me let it go and in the end..i came back to the circle..lookin for the thing tat i once threw away

Anyway juz to say..u are not crazy also..i tot of the same things as u before..stay in a faraway land when nobody noe me..mayb adopt a kid or wat so tat i wun b so lonely..

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Wholeheartedly agree. I still remember making the decision whether to meet my ex-gf for some wild sex or go home to my playstation. The playstation won... mind you it was only a PS1.

My ex-gf did suggest about keeping in touch for kinky exercise. But, after we broke up, things got really sour. Never kept in touch anymore. However, she gave very hot sex.

Originally Posted by surfer888

I hate it when my ex-gf keeps smsing me while I'm driving and expecting me to respond. On top of it, I would receive at least 100 smses and 20 phone calls throughout the day. It was actually one of the reasons why I left her. Looking back, it was silly to get worked up over this but during that time, it was downright irritating and I almost went mad... almost like being stalked.

Lol. ur ex-gf really knows how to breath down your neck. Actually, I’m dating this girl (what an irony, after several posts of anti-gal remarks. will come to the details shortly) and she (at least) knows when to lay off and understands that I may be caught up by work.

Promised her that I would get back to her asap, after my work. Made it a point to tell her that I’m busy. Think everything is working out well. She knows why and when I’m really busy. Maturity and understanding makes things work out.

On the other hand, ur ex is damn telok. 100 SMSes cum 20 phone calls is a bit too exaggerating. If I was you, I would have kicked up a fuss. Its just too much.

Originally Posted by surfer888

Fully understand. I'm doing my best to make as much when the sun shines.

I’m doing that too. Be happy with what you do and never look back. May we all achieve our goals in the coming years.

Originally Posted by surfer888

Totally agree. But almost made that mistake in my younger days... almost sold my first car to get a Gerard Genta for one of my ex-gfs. Luckily came to my senses. But I bought her some diamond jewellery a few years later after I married someone else... Does not count though as it was much more affordable to me later in life.

Ehh.... that would have been a serious mistake to sell her car for a piece of decorative ornament. Heng, you never think with small head. :P Just kidding. We all make some kind of silly mistakes, at some point in time or another. Its all about living. Sometimes, there are things that have to be done and remembered as fond lovely memories.

Better to have loved than never. Some gals are, no doubt, worth courting. Others are only worthy of the bin. Given another chance to live, I think we would all do the various crazy stuff for the gals we like. Inevitable, but again realise that some gals are totally not worth the time.

Originally Posted by surfer888

No apologies required. Up you 4 pts for your insight!

No prob. Thanks for the points. I was just writing my personal thoughts. Up your points too.

[Archduke]

Well the Mrs and I have had our fair share of domestic quarrels but we always managed to cool it and sort it out.

Our secret is to give each other some space from time to time and always make sure that the other half is kept in the loop when major issues are concerned. Lots of give and take in equal amounts but we do not keep score. Sometimes I let her have her way sometimes she lets me have my way. Mutual respect I guess. Housework... well I pitch in to help thus easing her burden.

Most importantly we never forgot that we were not just father and mother to our children but also husband and wife. From time to time we do take some time off to be alone. Hope all this helps.

Cheers!

[evo3]

True Love:

Love is modern just a feeling
Love is knowing and understanding

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

On the other hand, ur ex is damn telok. 100 SMSes cum 20 phone calls is a bit too exaggerating. If I was you, I would have kicked up a fuss. Its just too much.

On top of it, she's from Japan and she quite often forgets the time difference so I get calls from early in the morning (1 hr later). The worst is when I'm travelling and she calls me at 2am, 4am, 6am.

But at least the sex was almost worthwhile. CIM, AR, Creampies, Almost Mile High Club, Outdoor, Fuckathons, etc. But only almost worthwhile. She was just too high maintenance on my time.

The one thing I miss about her now are her yelps of "Kimocheeeee!"

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by surfer888

But at least the sex was almost worthwhile. CIM, AR, Creampies, Almost Mile High Club, Outdoor, Fuckathons, etc. But only almost worthwhile. She was just too high maintenance on my time.

The one thing I miss about her now are her yelps of "Kimocheeeee!"

wow!! my dream to have a jap gal as gf. if can enjoy all the stuffs like u bro, i dun mind the high maintenance part for a period.

come to think of tat, reali feel like going to Jap for my holiday in the coming mth.

cheers.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by playboy82

wow.. keep it up, keep it going, lets make it a 100 page thread.

True love ever exist? how u define true love? well at the very least, i have not teasted any.Actually i always wonder how those marriage couple cope with their life, imagine after work come back, so tired, still need to take care of children, cook, i think abt it also buay tahan ord.

i was thinking of single all the way, so carefree, no worried, when i have save enough $$, maybe i will stay in a far away land, and maybe adopt a child, to have someone to take care of me when i old... haha i must be crazy... haha

Yes this topic is a refreshing one amidst all the discussion about sex, flings & ONS etc haha.
The way u described ur situation (particularly in the 1st post of this thread) was so similar to how i feel. Sometimes i feel so sorry & peculiarly ashamed of myself. I'm not a poor beggar or criminal but yet feel so pathetic over an apparent trival aspect of my life--- being unable to find the love i want

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Yes this topic is a refreshing one amidst all the discussion about sex, flings & ONS etc haha.
The way u described ur situation (particularly in the 1st post of this thread) was so similar to how i feel. Sometimes i feel so sorry & peculiarly ashamed of myself. I'm not a poor beggar or criminal but yet feel so pathetic over an apparent trival aspect of my life--- being unable to find the love i want

Ya, then nowadays, all the gals ard me seems to me that they are not my loves one, cos after all the failiure, we like kinda know wat excatly wat type of gal we want, wat type of gal will work out.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Yes this topic is a refreshing one amidst all the discussion about sex, flings & ONS etc haha.
The way u described ur situation (particularly in the 1st post of this thread) was so similar to how i feel. Sometimes i feel so sorry & peculiarly ashamed of myself. I'm not a poor beggar or criminal but yet feel so pathetic over an apparent trival aspect of my life--- being unable to find the love i want

Ya, then nowadays, all the gals ard me seems to me that they are not my loves one, cos after all the failiure, we like kinda know wat excatly wat type of gal we want, wat type of gal will work out.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Ya, then nowadays, all the gals ard me seems to me that they are not my loves one, cos after all the failiure, we like kinda know wat excatly wat type of gal we want, wat type of gal will work out.

cant help to wonder how they know.anyway fate and timing plays an important part.i have learned to take things easier.what u always want may not be what u will get.the lesser the hope,the lesser the disappointment.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

wow!! my dream to have a jap gal as gf. if can enjoy all the stuffs like u bro, i dun mind the high maintenance part for a period.

come to think of tat, reali feel like going to Jap for my holiday in the coming mth.

cheers.

Be careful of what you wish for. I've dated women from many countries before and the highest maintenance came from the Jap ones. Not so much money... they have that already... it's attention and affection. I reckon it's either a culture thing or just that Jap women are deprived of it.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

cant help to wonder how they know.anyway fate and timing plays an important part.i have learned to take things easier.what u always want may not be what u will get.the lesser the hope,the lesser the disappointment.

Yeah... lower the expectations and perhaps see results. Actually, I believe good things come when you're not looking.

But I still can't imagine going out to look for an ugly, poor, stupid and bad tempered chicks.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

[QUOTE=surfer888;1768799]Yeah... lower the expectations and perhaps see results. Actually, I believe good things come when you're not looking.

But I still can't imagine going out to look for an ugly, poor, stupid and bad tempered chicks.[/QUOTE}
i also believe in not expecting anything,this way u wont be disappointed and if a gd ger comes along it will always feel so nice.as for "downgrading" ur taste,it's all up to individuals,i have no say abt it.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

i once experience true love but the foolish me let it go and in the end..i came back to the circle..lookin for the thing tat i once threw away
Anyway juz to say..u are not crazy also..i tot of the same things as u before..stay in a faraway land when nobody noe me..mayb adopt a kid or wat so tat i wun b so lonely..

yup whilst today i'm lamenting about my sad lonely existence, wondering why am i so isolated compared to most of my frens who are blissfully attached.... i realized that destiny did gave me a "chance" before--- There was once a beautiful gal who loved me for who i was (that was also the only time in my life i ever experienced "true love"). But i did not know how to treasure happiness and it left me.

i was young (around 17,18), immature and did not know how to handle relationships, much less happiness... so was it entirely my fault?

so sometimes i wonder is it because i've had my chance but did not play my cards well, alas the sorry state i'm in today

[jinrenhe]

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