The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[suteerak1099]

can u handle the truth??

our true love is $, but we're married to our dead end jobs

[hellopoppyy]

yes i agree.
im married to someone whom im stuck with because of kid.

[orangeproud]

Normally, the cruel reality is like this, usually end up wif the other one is nt the one u love most, but who is willing to compromise the most. The one u love the most, might nt the one who suit u in terms of the character, personality, lifestyle, background, thinking n etc.

In love is easy, but two different persons living under 1 roof is different issue liao, it needs a lot of understanding, compromise n some sacrifices.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

In love is easy, but two different persons living under 1 roof is different issue liao, it needs a lot of understanding, compromise n some sacrifices.

Tats why the divorce rate is high & still going up ...love they say is blind...many go into marriage or other kinds of similar r/s wif both eyes closed.. only to wake up much later to discover tat, tat was not wat they actually bargained for !

couples can't stand each other after some time into the r/s when they discover much later each other's negative character & side of things etc & cracks in the r/s begins to appear...sigh...by then it is too little, too late...human beings esp gals are very hard to please, & so it's not surprising to see so many break ups happening all the time around us...u can be the closest of frens today, but the worst of enemies 2moro ! ..tis is a truth we all can't deny happening..it's sad..really sad...

[ajlover]

得不到的永远是最好, 因为没机会发现她的缺点!
相处容易, 同住难

Best are those you never get, cos then you will never know their weakness..

Get along easy, stay together difficult...

[orangeproud]

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[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Tats why the divorce rate is high & still going up ...love they say is blind...many go into marriage or other kinds of similar r/s wif both eyes closed.. only to wake up much later to discover tat, tat was not wat they actually bargained for !

couples can't stand each other after some time into the r/s when they discover much later each other's negative character & side of things etc & cracks in the r/s begins to appear...sigh...by then it is too little, too late...human beings esp gals are very hard to please, & so it's not surprising to see so many break ups happening all the time around us...u can be the closest of frens today, but the worst of enemies the next ! ..tis is a truth we all can't deny happening..it's sad..really sad...

Human is a changeable creature, every relationship is changeable as it's very fragile. Everyday, everything is changing.
Like this song lyric. The song title tells it all.

http://m.xuite.net/vlog/victan66/eUt...EwOTA4ODcuZmx2

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Human is a changeable creature, every relationship is changeable as it's very fragile. Everyday, everything is changing.
Like this song lyric. The song title tells it all.

http://m.xuite.net/vlog/victan66/eUt...EwOTA4ODcuZmx2

T.Q. v. much bro orangeproud for posting the link wif those nice songs ! ...like esp the one "Oh Carol"..my favourite oldie song ! ...haha

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by Rickey

T.Q. v. much bro orangeproud for posting the link wif those nice songs ! ...like esp the one "Oh Carol"..my favourite oldie song ! ...haha

Is my pleasure
Juz hope tat u won't find this oldies song is outdated n boring lor
Juz find the lyric is very meaningful!

[milktoast]

Will I ever find a man I love most and he love me most?

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by milktoast

Will I ever find a man I love most and he love me most?

Hmm.......normally for a couple, one loves more while the other one loves less. The love more 1 usually is the 1 who willing to compromise the most.

[milktoast]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

hmm.......normally for a couple, one loves more while the other one loves less. The love more 1 usually is the 1 who willing to compromise the most.

以下 是小妹 谦虚的想法 不要介意喔

爱可以衡量的吗？去爱一个人 有很多方式。有时 或 最好 不要太计较。

[goody88sg]

Originally Posted by milktoast

以下 是小妹 谦虚的想法 不要介意喔

爱可以衡量的吗？去爱一个人 有很多方式。有时 或 最好 不要太计较。

假如，时间能倒流。我想

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by milktoast

以下 是小妹 谦虚的想法 不要介意喔

爱可以衡量的吗？去爱一个人 有很多方式。有时 或 最好 不要太计较。

Love is immeasurable, I agree. Normally, if the one who love the most is willing to give out n compromise the most.

Ppl always say tat the one who being love by someone is more blissful than to love the one whom might nt love u n care u the most.

Bei ai zhe shi xin fu de ma? Yin Ren er yi ba!

Sorry for due to my system when type Han yu pin Yin, it won't appear Chinese characters.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by milktoast

Will I ever find a man I love most and he love me most?

Originally Posted by milktoast

以下 是小妹 谦虚的想法 不要介意喔

爱可以衡量的吗？去爱一个人 有很多方式。有时 或 最好 不要太计较。

Wa..how come suddenly all speckkk Chinese...I catch no balls leh ..haha

Yah possible, there are couples who love each other equally or wif the same intensity...but these are very few & rare like our former PM Mr Lee KY & his wife or even now between my BIL & SIL...but u must be lucky enough to find the rite partner ...so the hope is always there of having a very happy marriage ! ...but for most other couples its either 1 party loving the other more or less