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14-09-2014, 07:49 PM
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What do you mean by being a guarantor in ICA? The gal is asking my friend to be her guarantor.
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15-09-2014, 05:19 AM
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There are also some Singaporean man with Viet spouse providing accommodation for these VBs going around looking for addresses to sell to these VBs to place on their Singapore White card. They will provide the address of their Singaporean friends, especially those with viet spouse to the VBs. 1 address is $100. This is highly unethical. I am very wary of these people. 
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15-09-2014, 07:03 AM
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 I heard its more than $100 now...
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Notice they are fast learner especially on method of making money.
They will go all out, and even VB vs VB also don't give face. Money first; all other thing come second. Maybe they gone thru hardship back home; and when opportunity come to get a better life with better earning; they become very resourceful. The word "ethical" is never in their dictionary. First word in their dictionary is "MONEY". Quote:
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15-09-2014, 06:11 PM
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16-09-2014, 05:42 AM
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16-09-2014, 11:13 AM
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Hi bros, it has been good load of 8 years since i started patronising places like my favorite Tiger Pub(got second floor, small place, got dance floor last time at the area near the joo chiat 24 hours Giant supermarket last time).
I also was always an awesome fan of watching sinkies bros picking up viet chickens like macdonald express delivery as the crowd and selection at the streets of joo chiat and the tons of hotel 81 popping up for transit usage. However now the fun is diminishing now and it is getting boring. Needless to say, i was a bonker for this 8 years as you can see my profile and contributions on pattaya and so on lol.... But now, i stop bonking, rather pcc more thanks to certain events in my life. As you can see, i always follow this thread but i dont post here until my recent events in my life till this hour now as i am wechating my 'baxa' via audio voice as she waits for her flight back to vietnam after working for a good month in johor. I met her back yestarday night as i went across the border to find her. Ok let me say more about my profile first before i start. Very short in point format. I can write essay(i love to lol) but bros here may kpkb lol..... 5 POINTS about i, me and myself. 1) I am a fat arse with specs, 30 year old now. Starting chionging when i was 22 years old. I always live in the comfort of my well-to-do family till today. I would say i am an immature, gutless big size 'boy boy' with no confidence who do not know how to stop spending on xxx and beer until this 2 years lately. 2) I became more of a budget chiongster lately cuz sianz abit of the years of xxx and beers also. Sometimes, now i even drink kopi at GL 13 can dont hug VB lol(becuz of my way of mongering, alot of sinkie bros i know kind of avoid me and tok crap behind my back previously so i always chiong alone or with my best bro).... So you can say i am not rich but just comfortable in my life thanks to my family 3) i would say i am a LOSER now becuz i am jobless. However, after meeting my 'Baxa', i believe i wont be one damn joker in a year or two as i now dabble more into jobs search, entreprenuership and investing.... 4) I am skeptical of falling in love with any working girl, any nationality. I have seen how sinkies bro become cai tow(carrot head) becuz they think it is love. Most of the time, i still think we have all to lose the moment we succumb to their grandmother stories as they weep like a drama queen. However, i met my current baxa and i insist that she is my first real love(i dun have gf before, i chiong at the start cuz i cant xian girls also, introvert lah). I will elaborate my story later. 5) I am not dumb neither i am the smartest here. I know how to identify the viet working girl's patterns and sob stories and see if this girl is 'real of fake' when some of my close bro ask me for advice(if you chiong before from tiger pub to blue lagoon to jazzy 51 to mask 51, u more or less learn alot like me lol). I analyse things alot and overthink them becuz i am wary. However, this led to me losing contact with my current baxa for over a year becuz of stupid miscommunications. Shall elaborate on story below. =============================================== OK i laid the intro liao so here comes the plot /story of my life. I hope bros here dont stereotype her too much and give me some advice. i will post my story on a new post as it is lengthy, i will split into 3 parts coz kinda long. OK NEXT POST my story PART 1 . PS: terribly sorry my story very hard to cut short hope u all read if not NVM, i just post post loh....
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16-09-2014, 11:16 AM
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OK NOW here PART 1 of my story:
After morphing into a budget chiongster since the may or june of 2013, i frequent joo chiat kopitiam and GL Lor 13 alot. In one week, i can be there 5 days a week as i rot my life with my so called 'uncle friends or senior' drinking kopi and tok crap stories about the days of our lives. Call me nuts, i can go there 5 days a week and i can hug maybe only one girl in 1 of the day. I like to chill i guess and i choose my girl carefully. Long story short, went thru months of no bonking and hugging all kinds of viet girls , old and young i also take lol. Come August close to Sep 2013, i met my current 'baxa' as she approached me and sat down and hug me tightly, we chatted for over an hour or so, and i had to leave as my uncle friends wanted to go the usual ECP route , makan macdonalds and serenade their so called viet girlfriends(LOL contradicting right we enjoyed doing this during this time.) I forgot to give her tips and she never ask also, so i went to the back alley of somewhere and found her and gave me a decent tip. She very happy, took my number but din call me that night. SO i was thinking: ''aiya she look kinda lao chiao but kinda of attractive, but fuck it lah, another girl searching for the ah pek cai tow!'' so i bo chup also. Days past by at my fav kopitiam and ECP as we chill until 4-5am almost everyday like army duty like that LOL, she always find me, sit with me, found out she lao chiao, work long long time. However, she very sweet to me, feed me eat the green mango, my mouth just open i laid back on the laoya kopitiam seat with my fat bulging stomach. Sometimes i go mac with her at ECP and she feed me fries and chicken burger lol..( OK i thinking, lao chiao playing mind games and kc trap with me). Hey wait, surprisingly we were frank with each other, she hugged me and told me she got 1 daughter, and about her family blah blah blah. And i told her i super low income and she can see for herself also as i wear my singlet and slipper and lousy shorts at times. As you guys know i am budget, so after 3 times of meeting up, i told her go find other customers coz apparently alot of customer young or old like her lol.... told her go make money, i already hint her dun come to me, i feel bad also as i know she come earn money(but i wont give her more or wad cuz i still dont trust myself and her). Nontheless, she still sit with me, feed me eat someitmes lol, after more than 8 meetings i think, i only brought her to makan vietnam food nia and she never ask a single cent from me. I was thinking , what KC trap she is doing to me? why like she got nothing to gain one. Real love? i dunno. OK end of Part 1 of my story, writing and editing my part 2 now, will post later...
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16-09-2014, 12:07 PM
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OK NOW here PART 2 of my story:
OK at night went back, think alot, wondering this one what cai tow pattern/ stunt she pulling on me? how come i got all to gain and nothing to lose one, how she benefit sia? LOL..... Next, 2 incidents came along that make my heart soften and melt abit. First, I jio her go makan viet food at joo chiat as she live there. When makan finish liao, she say she want go shopping, buy things for her family. (ok my antenna signal come liao, SO she want to buy alot alot then i pay all right? Cai tow move? probably. Never mind, i follow suit, later i buy liao, we go lam tinh to get back my ROI hee hee.) Just nice lah, as i pay the bill for the makan, my wallet bo cash liao, she happen to see it. i told myself and i also indicate to her i need to go ATM draw some money first bah. Next thing, she say dont go shopping liao, send her to her work place bah... Oh ya, she did also ask me to buy her iphone, i say cannot i not enuff money to buy, she say can get her second hand one? she want facetime with me when she go back vietnam. At the end i never buy her also. Second, this is the second time i do this action as i quite poor tt time. It was around 3am tt time in GL after our makan and tok cock session. Only me and my 'baxa', no transport help from my uncle frens or wad. I passed her ten dollar red note, ask her go off first take cab home. My plan was after she go off, i go lanshop chill abit then take bus home since i stay near GL. She told me, why not you walk me back home to joo chiat since its near(From lor 8 GL to JC near? are you siao already ? LOL). I said ok and she seemed happy holding hand with a poor mother fucker like me(bizarre and nuts right)? WTH, i cant believe this sight, we took almost 45 to an hour to reach Joo Chiat i think. Along the route, i did ask her we go lam tinh, she said( Once again another answer i neber hear before, HUH?). we cannot go hotel, not good. If you want go sleep, you bring me go back see your PAPA and MAMA, then i sleep in your room loh. I sweating sia when i heard this at tt time.... I am thinking if she want to earn money from me, why need to go this length? you are working girl leh, just take my cab fare and maybe i give u lam tinh fee abit lah, then later i fuck you liao i can forget, i can move on also. Why make my heart melt and give me insomnia almost every day for almost a year till this current day? i dunno man still at tt time. Becuz of this 2 incidents, we become very close to the stage where i bailed from her for a good period of weeks as i dunno what is going on and i started to really like her abit but i starting to lose faith in myself being a poor fat arse. But she persist and persist on seeing me and i push away her again and again. Also, i went to pattaya for holiday at tt time, i dont want to settle at this time also, sex more important than love leh i feel. Scully when i came back to singapore, i discovered that she called more than 20 times, 4-5 times a day i guess. But then from tt 20 missed calls spell, no trace of her again, she disappeared from my life completely. this time massive tinge of regretfulness sunk into my thoughts, every night for almost a year i will hang out in GL and JC, hoping she will turn up and i can say i am sorry, i want to go back to how we are in the past.( OMG why i feel like crying as i write this segment, stop being a wussy me shite, i am a big boy for goodness sake.). Hey wait why i dont call her dumbass? for some reason she deleted me from viber as i assumed that she found herself a new life liao with new ongxa haizzzz........sighing with pittifulness probably in the worst phase of my damn fucking life.... She never appeared for a year, never ever. I tried asking my uncle frens and some of the viet working girls, she did not appear. My mental state worsened to a state where i sometimes will dream of her face and i cant sleep OMFG, whats going on? God tell me! OK end of Part 2 of my story, writing and editing my part 3 now, will post later...
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16-09-2014, 12:40 PM
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OK NOW here PART 3. FINALE of my story:
Come after CNY 2014, God still never tell me or even give me a second chance to find out how she really feel about me. I sibei sad, always putting a strong face in front of friends, but i got no aim liao, fuck my life, life is short, i dun care liao rot lah for fuck sake.... I still wanted to go pub drink beer and hug girl on a budget lvl so i always cross over the border to chill with my best bro on weekends. for a good spell of 4 months till day, i always at Johor drink cheap good beer hugging viet girls during weekends. Once again, hug and hug and hug, occassionally think of my 'baxa' who went MIA. Thank god and my luck that just 4 days ago, i finally MET her at the JB pub i always go. She look way prettier in a reveling black dress OMG! I dun dare to look at her eyes becuz i still think that she will hate me for being an arsehole with no damn balls as i pushed her away previously without accounting for anything..... Instead, she was sad and happy to see me, mixed emotions for both of us, she sat with me for a while, she told mine best bro in front of me that she like me not cuz i have money or what, its the heart that counts. She seen so many chee hong men that are so fake and not real and not nice ppl, she dont like. She seen rich guys, young ones but why she want to be one of their girlfriends? I just love her even more and kiss her on the cheek as she has ethics and principals unlike unfortunately most viet working girls who will think material first. As usual she got alot of customer, so as she left my table, i was tearing a little but i wipe my tears away quickly and went 'stoned' for a good 30 mins before i came back to reality. She test me, ask me what is her name? i straight away say her name, and show her the vietnam hp no she gave me, she quite happy lol.. of cos i pass the test... I lost touch with her once, cannot afford to lose again liao. For the past 3 days until she is leaving for Vietnam this afternoon, every afternoon i go through custom in the afternoon, just to go see her for 3-4 hours then i take bus then midnight cab home. Last night was the best closing, i went to watsons in the afternoon, bought the 1 carton 24ml eagle medicated oil( she want me to buy for her family), and cross border to give her. There was raid so i only meet her in JB 1030pm after drinking beer at pub since 8pm. Damn long wait but worth it, kiss her goodnight, huggies. She was really down when she go back, she miss me alot, she strong will person, tear in front of me, i tell her cannot cry. I know in a r/s one person must stay strong one, if not the r/s will habis(Finish liao). I told her you must be positive and I will too( i mean it i guess after this long dramafied story of mine). If i still dont wake up my idea,i should bang my head on the wall liao for sure... Kiss goodnite, huggies, sweet talks, makan blah blah blah, and hail a cab like a despo fuck with my best bro to rush for sbs bus at custom checkpoint at 12 midnight, both me and 'baxa' had a good sleep after a lenghty wechat session at 2.30 to 3.30am lol... now again wechat, like cannot stop, fucking happy. In life, there are second chances sometimes, and i guess i have to seal this one man. Fuck care all the negative stories liao samsters are saying here liao. If i still don't believer her and this r/s we are having after so much that we went thru together, things wont work and be better for the long term. I must admit i am a lucky loser but time to be a lucky winner by earning strides in life in small steps. PS: One thing, it is really a vicious peer influence thingy when it comes to vietnam girls and their so called working 'sisters or friends'. My 'baxa' is a lao jiao sister leader at 25 yrs old but she always lead her sisters or friends well when they come to work. They really live like family, care for each other. Especially in JB where KTV is not recommended becuz drugs on the go and girls take them and msians bastard bros go raw on them and make them pregnate. Super bastards. So morale of the story, always find out who are the friends your girl is mixing with if you really want to further a proper r/s with her, is she the leader sister or she the KA Kia(follower lol). Is she guillible or smart in her own ways? LOL. I have seen so many vietnam sister leader who teach her followers or xin jiao sisters or probably ur girl(it could happen i guess) who teach them to open leg at all cost, hang for the richer fish, whip out sob stories to get what want, rinse and repeat, good 'business' methods i guess? LOL.... Ok lah end of my long rant, time to move forward in my life, never give up or let up, chiong smart live smart cheers....
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