Does the so call " true love " still exist??? - Page 16

covenn · #**226** 21-12-2006, 12:48 AM

bro vesfreq, so u found a gf aredy? ha thats a gd news n also an excellent encouragement for bros here. best wishes man....

axeman24 · #**227** 21-12-2006, 10:32 AM

Well guys, don't be worried about getting 30 soon. Hey I am 31 turning 32 next month and I don't even have a gf yet or still in the process of finding my soul mate. My friend is 35 he too is still cheonging. Frankly, speaking I have my fair share dating girls from dating websites and thur friends and I am still searching for the right one. To find someone you like to be your gf and ulitmately to be your wife does required effort in a way you need to talk to her find out more about her etc. You won't able able to find one just by sitting at home and think about how miserable you are. If you like a girl and have been going out for quite sometime and you would want her to be your gf you need to make the first move. Ask her and see whats her response if she accept good for you and if she reject you, you can choose to try again or move on. I remember a phase which my boss told me " Rather be a fool for the moment then be a fool for life"

Well just my 2 cents worth on true love.

randyboy73 · #**228** 21-12-2006, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by axeman24

Well guys, don't be worried about getting 30 soon...... I remember a phase which my boss told me " Rather be a fool for the moment then be a fool for life"

Well just my 2 cents worth on true love.

The irony in life... love is a many splendoured thing that can lead to limitless happiness, but also untold suffering if you choose to love the wrong person.... and the right one comes along....

People will never be contented with what they have.. they may own a merc but tell them that they can own a ferrari instead, all will say yes, just for the thrill and prestige...even for a fleeting moment.

A good mentality would always be to make do with what one has on hand and also make the best out of every situation.. if you think you have done your best, then do not regret your actions or lament your predicament.. life will eventually become a zero sum game where the minuses and the pluses will eventually square up..

cheer up and be merry in the festive period.. to all the married and attached brothers in SBF - merry christmas and may your relationships stay strong and horny... to the unattached and naughty bros..... go party and wish all of you a great happy cheonging festive holiday...

LengKia · #**229** 21-12-2006, 11:23 AM

was having a conversation with a female friend who is single n searching for her soul mate. She agreed and share the mindset that her future husband will not be someone she love most but as long he can take good care and love her. .In fact,she tell me most of her female friends do have such mindsets.

"Love" is not bread to them

Know_yr_role · #**230** 21-12-2006, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

i for one think the same as you also..i guess there is only 2 choice..either u feel tat there is really The One for you or you think there is not..

If I think tat there is..at least I have hopes, I noe tat with hopes comes disappointment..but at tis pt of my life..hope might be the only thing i hv now..if i dun even hv hope now..i am juz a nothing..a little dot in the sea of pple

i feel u manz, hows yr prob so far man??

bombersg · #**231** 21-12-2006, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by randyboy73

strong and horny... to the unattached and naughty bros..... go party and wish all of you a great happy cheonging festive holiday...

bro you forgot to add those not are not strong there is always the little blue pills or green pills that ppl can take to make then stand talk for the eve and christmas too hahahaha. MERRY CHRISTMAS to all SAMSTERS and may all your bonking wishes come true

Deztruct · #**232** 21-12-2006, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

i feel u manz, hows yr prob so far man??

bad..pass her the watch..for the few weeks after tat..din contact each other at all..then out of a sudden..she ask a frd to pass the watch back to me..i told my frd tat i wld not take it back..n i sms her n tell her to stop all these nonsense..stop the side show of gettin frds ard us to b involved in our problem..stop lyin to me...till now..we neva contact each other..see each other also pretend to look away...

it hurts..but at least i noe its the best way for both of us..to juz stop contacting each other for awhile

tellmiwhy · #**233** 21-12-2006, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

bad..pass her the watch..for the few weeks after tat..din contact each other at all..then out of a sudden..she ask a frd to pass the watch back to me..i told my frd tat i wld not take it back..n i sms her n tell her to stop all these nonsense..stop the side show of gettin frds ard us to b involved in our problem..stop lyin to me...till now..we neva contact each other..see each other also pretend to look away...

it hurts..but at least i noe its the best way for both of us..to juz stop contacting each other for awhile

dun worry bro...it happened to me nt long back...something similar...then my solution was like urs. It reali sucks..but after that i realised its stil the best rather than to carry on wif the situation. Cheer upz bro.

tellmiwhy

tellmiwhy · #**234** 21-12-2006, 10:20 PM

sorry..dbl post.

lawrence86 · #**235** 21-12-2006, 10:26 PM

this may seem out of the topic

but do anyone or did anyone write poems for their girlfriends?? or ex girlfriends??

yes, i used to write them too... sadly..

Deztruct · #**236** 21-12-2006, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

dun worry bro...it happened to me nt long back...something similar...then my solution was like urs. It reali sucks..but after that i realised its stil the best rather than to carry on wif the situation. Cheer upz bro.

tellmiwhy

yeah..agree with u...rather b hurt now than to keep draggin on the thing with no clear happy ending in sight..we all did wat we tot were rite at tat pt of time..now tat its no longer correct..time to move on

Deztruct · #**237** 21-12-2006, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lawrence86

this may seem out of the topic

but do anyone or did anyone write poems for their girlfriends?? or ex girlfriends??

yes, i used to write them too... sadly..

wrote alot but in the end neva show them..haha

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #**238** 21-12-2006, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

wrote alot but in the end neva show them..haha

well bro u nv know when u will need them in the future.

jinrenhe · #**239** 21-12-2006, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

bad..pass her the watch..for the few weeks after tat..din contact each other at all..then out of a sudden..she ask a frd to pass the watch back to me..i told my frd tat i wld not take it back..n i sms her n tell her to stop all these nonsense..stop the side show of gettin frds ard us to b involved in our problem..stop lyin to me...till now..we neva contact each other..see each other also pretend to look away...

it hurts..but at least i noe its the best way for both of us..to juz stop contacting each other for awhile

i understand how it feels...

After my recent screw-up, sometimes i ponder, if only i didn't express my feelings for her & seek a conclusive answer, maybe we could've still remained as frens.
My heart felt a peculiar ache when one of my buddy told me they went out for dinner recently (both of them are frens also). He did ask me along, but i didn't want to go cos i felt it would be awkward seeing her again.

However, i wouldn't want to live my life in regret, wondering about the "what ifs" if i didn't ask. Thou the outcome is not what i wanted, i guess i did all that i reasonably could... it's jus too bad she doesn't feel the same for me..

Bro, i'm glad that u took that important step & got ur answer... at least u wouldn't be guessing the "what ifs" anymore. Take all the time u nd to reflect & recover... u will just move on in time, jus like what i did..

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #**240** 21-12-2006, 10:54 PM

Well..life is not always about what we wish to get,most of the time is what we try to get and sad to say also most of the time we failed to get what we want.