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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
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Sister, your story has made me want to tell this situation of mine now... ....4 years ago I met a lady at my workplace who was almost in the same situtation with you... Her hubby simply bo chup, wants to be a metrosexual man and doesn't even want to make love with her at times... She almost divorce him until he said he willl repent... They never divorced.. and had 1 kid soon after... she told me he has changed for the better. But 4 years later now, she and I has developed an 'intimate' relationship... We love each other deep enough... But she can't divorce him for the sake of the kid... And we both can't be togerther permanently... She sort of regretted... And I told her, 'if only I had met her earlier....' It was heartaching... I guess, this is all but fate... |
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Bro, thanks for your well wishes.. Like what I have mentioned in other threads, I am currently nursing a bad heartbreak since last year.. my longtime gf who has been with me from the time I ORD, Uni, employed till self employed last year. I used to be a very big player, be it FLs, WLs or having lots of girls by myside.. But when I started my business and decided to settle down with her withthin the next 4 years. who knows 4 mths after starting business, she left cos a guy from her part time studies was going after her... It was really tough and difficult for me that time... Plus so many problems financially and from work issues..Cried so many times in office out of fear, desperation and heartaches.. At least now life is better.. Many times when problems arises from work, I still yearn for that particular someone whom I can relate to.. I don't.. But at least I can focus on working to solve it.. When there arer good news like company breaking even or even clinching some deals from big companies, I also would yearn to share these good news with that someone... But I don't.. And I start thinking of her again. So bros and sis, I may not be married nor attached... I may not be older than you all... But, I hope at least you look at my situation and think... At least you have someone.. He/She may not be perfect, but he/she can be there for you... Yiou are much better off than peolple like me.. And to sis, you know when your guy loves you.. No matter how bad he might be, he will still be with you... Just forgive him.. And as I am typing this, I had a tear dropping down my cheeks cos it made me think of her and my failed relationship... |
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4/7/12: Cleared my inbox. Can send me message again. Ran with hot pink FBT shorts, inner netting removed, can feel so many eyes ogling at my long fleshy legs. Selective lady who is nymphomaniac and like to wear sexy when clubbing. Message/Add me as contact to club together. |
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so many sad stories told her by bros and sis........
all of us are imperfect beings........ us and our mates........ so let try to love an imperfect person perfectly.......... good luck to us all......... |
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As our relationship progress, I realise that somehow she becomes a part of my life and vice versa. She becomes my helping hand, a partner to me though I am still the lone ranger and independent type and many things still keep from her. However, we took trains, buses together. When I change jobs, she was there for me. When I face challenges and difficulties, she gave her support to me. When I need someone to speak and think the same wavelength and frequency as me, she is the one. That is why I say she took care of me and I love her as a person. And today if I did not know her parents, I will still go after her. However, I still fear the institution of marriage. Human beings fail you someday. I have seen and heard from so many people that long long time ago, they used to love each other so much but today they are in court for divorce. Some of these common reasons and one of them which is the most common and yet most fearful is that they change hearts and no longer love you. Where is the security? Further, I fear her temperament. As some of you might agree, as a woman age and grows older, their temperament change if not for the worse. Esp when they are late 30s to 40s..... This is a factor we guys may have to face or have faced or facing. Finally, like I say in the initial posting, I still look and ogle at other women when I am with my gf. Despite how hard I try, I will still look at them and sometimes turn to HC and Geylang for release and excitement. Maybe I have a high sex drive...... Yah for your information, both of us do not believe in pre martial sex. |
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
just got into this thread..
actually quite depressing after readin the posts from the bros & sis exp.. myself attached to gf for 3 yrs.. view her as the potential 1.. but recently been frustrated over our r/s.. there's nothin wrong between us, but just feel it has reached a stage where there r less nice suprises etc.. feels mono.. & the mind starts to wonder around.. i know i'm stupid to have such tots when i got a caring gf that loves me.. but really dun wanna let her down either.. really hope to keep the fire goin..
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