Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[colins]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Hmm ... partially agree with you the reasons being is WL is not willingly to take hardships to work proper jobs and like to take shortcut to success.

Just my personal view... any girls who had pride & good upbringing will not attempt to earn money in such ways regardless of nationality.

As for paying for dates.. getting married paying for house, in this aspect I would view completely different from payment for services for WL or feeding KTV girls.

Well said bro, fully agree. When the girl's parents are also people looking for shortcuts and make their girls earn that kind of money for them, you have a double whammy effect on the girls. They have to become money grabbers and fully justified in doing so because their parents approved that for their own sake of security.

[manipulator]

Talking about their parents, some of them are really terrible, especially those with sons also. They will pester the daugthers for as much as possible and the son can stay at home cho bo .... (I heard this from a PRC ger)

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by manipulator

Talking about their parents, some of them are really terrible, especially those with sons also. They will pester the daugthers for as much as possible and the son can stay at home cho bo .... (I heard this from a PRC ger)

PRC family treat sons as very precious things..traditional chinese thinking

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Despite all of us will be getting older years after years.. no men want to marry WL as wife. So in search of true love or life partner never look for WL.

So far until now mi never seen a real life successful long term relationship with WL.

hehe longwinter..btw mi is not boss sammyboyfor. I had my own views.

l maybe crude in my words, and l do noe tat my words will be quite offensive to sum brothers here.

but to me, l feel tat we shld see it in this way, WL is jus for entertainment purposes and fulfilling the excitement. U want love or anything is a bit impossible la. Why do they wan to work in this line? For the sake of $$$ oso mahs.

And moreover, u really hav to tink properly, Finding love in WL. In the 1st place, working in this trade is already kinda complicating le. And there are alot of unknown secrets which u will never noe. As a guy, can u accept ur gal to keep all these dark and unknown secrets fro u? l dun noe abt u guys, but for me, l cant.

One WL even tell me "earn as much $$$ as possible, den u can come out play, if u hav $$$, there will be alot of gals entertaining u."

l have heard of successful stories wif thai gals and othe races la. But so far, l didnt heard of any successful ones wif PRC WL. Are we implying abt them, bro?

[Akina]

I think the distruct of WLs works both ways, thats why the failure rate for such relationship is high. The WLs also know we cheongster ... so dont expect much from us and also think we in it for short term (even if you want long term).

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by longwinter

l maybe crude in my words, and l do noe tat my words will be quite offensive to sum brothers here.

but to me, l feel tat we shld see it in this way, WL is jus for entertainment purposes and fulfilling the excitement. U want love or anything is a bit impossible la. Why do they wan to work in this line? For the sake of $$$ oso mahs.

And moreover, u really hav to tink properly, Finding love in WL. In the 1st place, working in this trade is already kinda complicating le. And there are alot of unknown secrets which u will never noe. As a guy, can u accept ur gal to keep all these dark and unknown secrets fro u? l dun noe abt u guys, but for me, l cant.

One WL even tell me "earn as much $$$ as possible, den u can come out play, if u hav $$$, there will be alot of gals entertaining u."

l have heard of successful stories wif thai gals and othe races la. But so far, l didnt heard of any successful ones wif PRC WL. Are we implying abt them, bro?

I agree this is true as cruel as it seems. Sometimes, both me and my girl know that it would be tough to last (Almost like a fling before you get hitched).. hardly any future unless u want to give up A LOT,

But love is love.. and it is between too people. WL or not.

All I ask for is that when we are together, both of us have good memories to keep for future and we cherish all our moments together.

I give wat I can and she accepts that. Afterall, I have seen her work and she can earn 3-4 times the amount I give during the period we spend together.

WL are human too. They need love and concern (Even when they seemed hardened by their profession). C'mon.. I put up a false front with my customers everyday too and put up with their nonsense and sometime *ahem* from the ladies.

Wat to do.

[ziyi]

I think there is a mandarin phrase for this .., something like

Bu Guan Tian Chang Di Jiu, Zhi Zai Hu Chen Jing Yong You

Something like that ... hope bros know what I saying ,....

[gniwgonwk]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

...
All I ask for is that when we are together, both of us have good memories to keep for future and we cherish all our moments together.
...
WL are human too. They need love and concern (Even when they seemed hardened by their profession). ...

Wat to do.

Well said! Main thing is to enjoy the limited time both persons have to spend together ... but parting is always so sad ...

BTW has XiaoPing gone back? I thought she was supposed to only go back in April?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by gniwgonwk

Well said! Main thing is to enjoy the limited time both persons have to spend together ... but parting is always so sad ...

BTW has XiaoPing gone back? I thought she was supposed to only go back in April?

Sent u a PM.. remember to keep it Shhsssh

[fiendish]

Wow, got secret pics ....

[shawn_mib]

Dear Bro,

Thanks you all so much for your care and concern, esp bro Sammyboy, your words are harse but i kod you mean well and do not want me to fall into such mistake again.

I learn the truth the hard way, and i know sumthing abt her past which sadden me too. But i getting used to it and trying to carry on my life as if nothing happen.

That guy have given her a lot of money and it a sum which would take me years to save. That the power of money, she return home becos she was getting prepared for marriage that for sure and all this while i'm kept in the dark.

She will return one day as another person wife, but i was warn forehand that she may be back in business soon as her habit of spending is not any normal men can take it. It just a matter of time and im just wondering by that time will she be coming back to look for me again, and will i be able to resist her.

But it showns me what the power of money can do to a person and currently i'm setting up a mini business to sell hp. Hope that bro here can support me, hope that one day i can make the mark and make her regret for not waiting for me.

But truth is i nv regret, the 3 months with her can be considered my happiest time in my life no gals have treated me so well not even my ex, i felt love and wanted by sum1, be it true or just lie, she done me no harm. Except for the final heartbreak she gave me. I still wan to thanks her for the time she spent with me, showering me with her love. i do wish her happiess and just hope that this would finally be the end of her WL road for her. Just hope that she knows how to treasure what she have found.

As for me, i'm quitting TN/HC/FL for the time being and concentrate on my career and new found business.

Hi bro shawn ... let it be memories, and good one at it. Everbody will experience something like that and when you are old, you can look back at all this fond memories. May you find someone better

[dap26]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

Dear Bro,

Thanks you all so much for your care and concern, esp bro Sammyboy, your words are harse but i kod you mean well and do not want me to fall into such mistake again.

Good for u,bro!Accepting and willing to face the truth....Move on,there r certainly better trees out there...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

As for me, i'm quitting TN/HC/FL for the time being and concentrate on my career and new found business.

Good for you bro Shawn..

Huat Huat for your HP business and if u r comfortable with letting us know where ur shop is. I am sure bros will help to support when possible..

Concentrate on your biz and wish her well... That's is what I will be doing after my girl goes back.. Will visit her in China whenever I can and I had told her that she will always have a friend in SG (ME).

Like Lu Dong Bin told He Xian Gu in the TCS eight immortals. Beside love (QING), there can also be Brother/Sisterhood (YI) between man and women

Love is not possession, it is being happy for each other and being there for each other whenever you can.

[Insider]

Bro Shawn, good for you, no point crying over spilled milk, life is full of lessons like this to be learnt and we will be stronger and more learned for that ..