Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

i see, shes seems like dun wan to accept any more of yr stuff, is she trying to deny feelings or trying to forget u, either way, seems like she needs some more time to think abt things bro.......xmas holis coming soon, sure a tough hard to swallow period for u....sighs

funny thing is tat when i pass the watch to her..i pass it with some other gifts i got for her when i went overseas with her recently..i noe it sound lame but i told her tat i promise to buy her something everytime i go overseas so even when i was overseas with her..i got her something..in the end..she only pass me back the watch n not the other stuff..

no matter how u look at it..i noe it dun mean well..but guess this is life..i can only keep this advice in mind.."whenever something bad happen to u..juz tell urself tat it happen to u n not other pple bcoz only u are strong enuf to handle such thing..the lesser beings wld b totally destroyed if it happen to them'

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by dirk_diggler

As Fate will have it, the day after I expressed my intentions for her, she had this huge quarrel with her bf. The thing is I am in the knowledge that this other colleague of mine has actually fallen for me, she is a nice lady, and would make a gd gf. I actually hate myself for even harbouring the thoughts that should I wait for the gal I like,or try my lot with this other colleague who has actually likings for me. Truth is, the clock is ticking and I am no longer that young to grapple with much heartache. Bros here, if you were me, what would u do?

bro..i luckier than u..i got gfs before

wat wld i do if i were u? Neva love the love that hurt and neva hurt the love that love..give urself a chance n the other a chance..i dun wan to say anythin bad abt the ger u like bcoz i only heard ur side of the story so its unfair to say anythin else

[dirtymonk82]

haiz...seems like there are quite a few samster who will be alone this festive season...im one of them also...

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

actually i feel tat if u keep listening to sad songs..there might be a possibility tat u make urself feel even worse on such ocassions..its one thing to be sad/lonely on such festive ocassions and its another thing to keep harpin on it..sometimes the best therapy is to face it face to face..instead of coopin urself at hm..go out even if its by urself..see pple on the streets and wish them merry xmas..at the end of the nite..u might even feel beta for makin someone else day

so instead of listening lonely xmas..try listenin to tanya chua's beautiful love

Bro, u r absolutely right. Sad songs make everything look 10 times wose, when thing is that situation may not be as bad.

Today is Saturday. Its supposed to be a day where everyone would be out merrying and enjoying the company of their close ones. When I was in the shopping center, that feeling of being alone is petrifying and seeing couples holding hands make it doubly worse too.

As for songs, I rather listen to some pop/ rock. Love/ sentimental songs are the worst songs to listen to, when you are down and out. Better zoom through the streets in the middle of the night and listen to some good rock and roll, while in a coupe watching the skies and enjoying the breeze.

Its x'mas soon. Better to have lived life happy than otherwise. No point feeling down, when everyone has a choice to just smile and be happy. Some people are luckier, while others not.

Point is that if we had never experienced all this bad times, would we appreciate the girl (if and when she comes along) in our life? I think many of the samsters would love their gf even more, when they find one, because of the fact that they know what the feeling of loss. Cheers to all for the day that made us cherish love (if and when we find it) even more.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by dirtymonk82

haiz...seems like there are quite a few samster who will be alone this festive season...im one of them also...

Well, there is Sat (today), Sun (tmr) and Mon. Still got time to go out with someone.

Or take this time to enjoy the warmth of being at home with our family.

[dirk_diggler]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

bro..i luckier than u..i got gfs before

wat wld i do if i were u? Neva love the love that hurt and neva hurt the love that love..give urself a chance n the other a chance..i dun wan to say anythin bad abt the ger u like bcoz i only heard ur side of the story so its unfair to say anythin else

Does that mean that I shld go and woo the other gal and see if I like her too? Actually she is quite a nice gal too, I got some gd feelings for her lah,but its like all quite confusing...she actually knows that I like the other colleague...shucks man I think I shld think for my future and go for the gal that likes me right? Rather than stick and wait with someone who has no ans for me. Bros here agree?

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

so instead of listening lonely xmas..try listenin to tanya chua's beautiful love

i liked tat song too haha

anyway thanx to the discussion, at least i realized i'm not alone in feeling this way. Festive seasons is jus round the corner, whether alone or not, i guess being happy is the most important.

Wish all fellow samsters here a merry xmas

[axeman24]

Hi guys allow me to give you all my 2cents worth advised. Never never listen to sad love songs when you are down it will not help you. What you need to do is to get out of the house go anywhere but stay home although you will see couples on the streets but you will also see ppl walking alone as well. Think for a moment that you can see you can walk you can talk. There are a lot of ppl whom can't do all these things that you can make full use of what has been given to you. You will feel a lot better. Having a sole mate is a matter of time that you will find it. Never try to look for it just let fate do the walking for you. Cheers to all Merry Christmas to you guys.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

i liked tat song too haha

anyway thanx to the discussion, at least i realized i'm not alone in feeling this way. Festive seasons is jus round the corner, whether alone or not, i guess being happy is the most important.

Wish all fellow samsters here a merry xmas

To be honest, i have been listen to this song since last christmas, the other recommended song is Tao Ze_Ji Mo De Ji Jie

[jinrenhe]

yes bro... and if u hear the 'live' version, u wld actually hear Tao ze saying how this song reflects his feeling over the past one year and the volin part is veri nice...

[Deztruct]

hmm...seem like there is a 2nd part to my story

Remember tat i gave the watch to her and she pass it back to me thru my frd? well when i pass her the watch, i did pass her a note also. In the note, it say tat my wish is that one day, i can see the watch moving again bcoz it is when i noe tat every moment is our happiest moment together

i finally got the watch back todae..and somehow not very surprising is tat the watch is moving..i dunno whether is it my frd who adjusted the watch or is it the ger who did it..somehow feel quite lost bcoz in my mind.i already hv given up but when i saw the watch moving again..i start to anyhow think again..haiz

[axeman24]

Just 1 phase for you guys to ponder on " Women you can't seems to live with them, neither can you live without them"

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

hmm...seem like there is a 2nd part to my story

Remember tat i gave the watch to her and she pass it back to me thru my frd? well when i pass her the watch, i did pass her a note also. In the note, it say tat my wish is that one day, i can see the watch moving again bcoz it is when i noe tat every moment is our happiest moment together

i finally got the watch back todae..and somehow not very surprising is tat the watch is moving..i dunno whether is it my frd who adjusted the watch or is it the ger who did it..somehow feel quite lost bcoz in my mind.i already hv given up but when i saw the watch moving again..i start to anyhow think again..haiz

bro, if trying to love this person is so god damn hard, i rather u foget her n move on manz.....throw away the watch n move on with your life......i think its better this way manz...forget the past, its over, cant predict the future also, might as well live for the present manz....cheers!

[Deztruct]

well...neva love the love that hurts and neva hurt the love tat loves..

actually..i guess that i noe wat to do...the times tat i tried to move on without her in my life..i was actually doin pretty ok...no matter wat..i shld b glad tat i met her once in her life and take it as a lesson learned

no matter wat..she once appeared in my life and left a very special mark in my heart..a mark tat will not disappear so easily..Met her..fell in love with her..fell out of love with her..got hurt..now its time to carry on my life without her

There are 2 ways to look at things

1. I was so hurt by her tat i wanted to take my revenge..the worst revenge i cld ever hv was to deprive her of my love..from now onwards..we wld be juz strangers on the road..the worst thing for her is to deprive her of the love from a man tat is the one tat love her the most

2. I cld be happy tat i once met her..tho from now on..our path shall neva crossed again..deep inside my heart..i will still say a prayer for her every nite..she was there when i needed someone the most..love is neva abt possessin the person..from now onwards, we are goin to go after our own happiness..by being happier than the other person..its the best parting gift we can ever give to each other..at least once i loved and try my best

which one will you choose and which one hv i chosen?

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

2. I cld be happy tat i once met her..tho from now on..our path shall neva crossed again..deep inside my heart..i will still say a prayer for her every nite..she was there when i needed someone the most..love is neva abt possessin the person..from now onwards, we are goin to go after our own happiness..by being happier than the other person..its the best parting gift we can ever give to each other..at least once i loved and try my best

which one will you choose and which one hv i chosen?

I was in a similar position with the one i love the most and took option 2 for her. Better to have loved once than not have loved at all. Be thankful for the good times and reflect on the good memories... afterall hardly anything lasts forever (except maybe tupperware).

I am just grateful to have been given the opportunity to have met her, known her (and bonk her).