Sex with other people gf/wife

[lollipopgal]

Originally Posted by Drakko74

Ah I see.

If I were to tweak your question and asked you...

Let's imagine you met a guy.. and you didn't ask for his status (ie, married, single or attached).

And both of you had great sex. Would you be more likely to meet him again if his status meet your requirements? And vice versa - would you decide not to have sex with him again (even though the first time was great) because his status did not meet what you prefer?

Just for fun lah.. I am having a slow day. 😅

Nice, never thought of it in that perspective.

If we had great sex and I am in my current status, I will most likely just not ask anything and let the relationship flow on its own.

[jdoe]

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Just let nature follow its course. Don’t need to plan anything in advance. You never know right? Both may click so well then one thing just come after the other. Well, that’s one night stand right? I never had such encounter before. But my bestie always have such encounters. Usually just started off with a chat then can continue if both sides have good impression of one another. Sometimes may immediately progress to sex and game over. At times she continues because she just like the guy. She told me it progresses to those kind of romantic evenings. Haha! Maybe she just love to be courted

100% sis! keep our minds open, be aware of the flow & go with it when conditions r right

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by Xes2013

Bro, patience and cast more, you will, soon.
Always be on the look out, open your eyes big big. But, be a gentleman, always. Thats what attracts them.

Bro, any advices how? Can guide me this 小弟please?

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Why need to treat? Nothing wrong with women treating men. Personal vehicle will be nice but doesn’t mean women don’t have personal vehicle.

Sis, how I wish I have the honour to date such women like you.😊

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by lollipopgal

I am genuinely curious about a guy's perspective

If 3 exactly the same girls, however 1 is Single, 1 is attached and 1 is married.

Which one is the most appealing leh ?

Sis, for me, is the married or attached. Single girls mostly expectations very high.

[jonawm]

Originally Posted by scuderia88

Bro, any advices how? Can guide me this 小弟please?

are you the kind who can handle ONS or pure FWB no emotions kind first? you sound like a decent guy leh.

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by jonawm

are you the kind who can handle ONS or pure FWB no emotions kind first? you sound like a decent guy leh.

Yes bro, I'm a decent guy. Wanted to try fwb but to no avail, because I'm not handsome and rich guy.

Bro, I don't mind fwb with emotions. Bro, what does ONs mean?

Bro, do you have any recommendations to share or advice please?

[jonawm]

Originally Posted by scuderia88

Yes bro, I'm a decent guy. Wanted to try fwb but to no avail, because I'm not handsome and rich guy.

Bro, I don't mind fwb with emotions. Bro, what does ONs mean?

Bro, do you have any recommendations to share or advice please?

ONS = one night stand...

I tried with colleague, FWB..... I thought I could handle, in the end, emotional wreck. work affected also, still suffering from some consequences now.

worth it? I really don't know. really could have handled it better.

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by lollipopgal

I am genuinely curious about a guy's perspective

If 3 exactly the same girls, however 1 is Single, 1 is attached and 1 is married.

Which one is the most appealing leh ?

The most appealing one is the one who brings sanity and well-being to our mind, body and soul. Go for the single one particularly when the stars are aligned.

Attached is attached and married is married for a reason. Leave them alone.

That's just my perspective.

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by jonawm

ONS = one night stand...

I tried with colleague, FWB..... I thought I could handle, in the end, emotional wreck. work affected also, still suffering from some consequences now.

worth it? I really don't know. really could have handled it better.

Bro, mind share what happened? I can lend you my listening ear.
Bro, my workplace only guys and butch, can't even find ONs or FWBs, sad to say. Wanted to have 1, also difficult. Tried wechat at my neighbourhood, also can't find any luck.

[jonawm]

Originally Posted by scuderia88

Bro, mind share what happened? I can lend you my listening ear.
Bro, my workplace only guys and butch, can't even find ONs or FWBs, sad to say. Wanted to have 1, also difficult. Tried wechat at my neighbourhood, also can't find any luck.

even if she's willing party, the husband allows, in the end, it's just not worth it even if you are 25 years old. may just end up wasting 2-3 years of your live away. even though the sex can be daily, exciting, mind blowing and life time experience.

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by jonawm

even if she's willing party, the husband allows, in the end, it's just not worth it even if you are 25 years old. may just end up wasting 2-3 years of your live away. even though the sex can be daily, exciting, mind blowing and life time experience.

True bro if you wish to settle down, wishing to have a long term relationship which can lead into marriage. Fwb will never get into that roar.

Bro, i wish to have a fwb, is because I'm craving for a lady who can give her love and satisfy our sexual needs when we feel the needs or emotional. Bro, sorry for being honest of my thinkings.

[Bigbluebird]

Originally Posted by lollipopgal

I am genuinely curious about a guy's perspective

If 3 exactly the same girls, however 1 is Single, 1 is attached and 1 is married.

Which one is the most appealing leh ?

Everyone has differing standards and measurements for appealing women.

Some go by figures, some by looks, some by thrills, some by personality, some by how they click, some by their fetish (if any). Some by their morals, single ok, attached and married no. There is simply no answer to your question.

[jonawm]

Originally Posted by candle2000

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thanks bro. appreciate it

[Souledge]

Originally Posted by lollipopgal

I am genuinely curious about a guy's perspective

If 3 exactly the same girls, however 1 is Single, 1 is attached and 1 is married.

Which one is the most appealing leh ?

Sometimes it's not really about girls.. Its the vibes or feeling.. For me that is..