SD/SB rants

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by real_king

let's try whether ur theory works.

of cos it works!

you put place!

i put time!

[real_king]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

of cos it works!

you put place!

i put time!

Mid-nite jungle warfare the best. U like indian themes?

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by real_king

Mid-nite jungle warfare the best. U like indian themes?

oh yah! u closet indian!

[real_king]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

oh yah! u closet indian!

Sheesh. Yellow on the outside, black on the inside
U like coconut trees or banana trees? Your choice.

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by real_king

Sheesh. Yellow on the outside, black on the inside
U like coconut trees or banana trees? Your choice.

u watch too much bollywood movies eh?!

[TheIdesOfMarch]

For SD/SB only thing I can reasonably say is willing buyer, assertive seller.

For every sugardaddy there is a price he's willing to pay. And he's not just paying for the looks. He's paying for the "exclusive?" sex, he's paying for her companionship. It's like using money to lock a girlfriend to you. Purely a business transaction.

And for every sugarbaby there's a price she's willing to accept on her own head. Sure you will always get those who ask for ridiculous prices and hope that some sucker will bite the hook laid out for them. But as Darwin's Theory Of Evolution goes, such people will be weeded out sooner or later. Because there aren't enough stupid people to go around. And even desperation has a limit for guys as well.

If I have to spend more than 5K per month on a SB that I'll meet for say three or four times a week and have sex with for two times each week we meet, wouldn't it make better sense for me to put that money into finding a local FL and book a few hours with her to my heart's content?

Then again, if she's going to be with me 6 days out of 7 a week and we're making out like Energizer bunnies in bed 4 times out of 6 days, then of course I'd say that such a price is worth it. Because hell, a woman might not necessarily look like Jessica Alba, but you'd rather have a normal woman who can be a great companion as well as a great sex partner in bed than just have a drop-dead gorgeous porcelain flowerpot on your arm who's a dead fish/cannot click in bed.

The trick to being a sugardaddy is never to lose sense of what your final goal is. If sex is all you want, you're better off just looking up a regular local FL or whoever you desire. If companionship is what you want, then decide for yourself if you're willing to put a price on a girl that's high not just because of her looks, but because you and her can really get along? If you know you have the money and the discerning attitude needed to find someone of your taste, then you jolly well better act like it. Don't drive too steep a bargain, but don't let your desperate lust and hunger for a companion overtake your common sense. Keep your goals in sight, never lose them even to fickle things like becoming really genuine good friends with your SB. At the end of the day it's still a money-motivated business contract after all, and it's when emotions interfere with your thinking that's where you get stupid stories about people with too much money to throw around paying stupid amounts of money for people who clearly are not worth that much.

Just my two cents.

[real_king]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

u watch too much bollywood movies eh?!

Real "Neh" rajah is my other name.
I'm an indian @ heart

[TheStig]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

For SD/SB only thing I can reasonably say is willing buyer, assertive seller.

For every sugardaddy there is a price he's willing to pay. And he's not just paying for the looks. He's paying for the "exclusive?" sex, he's paying for her companionship. It's like using money to lock a girlfriend to you. Purely a business transaction.

And for every sugarbaby there's a price she's willing to accept on her own head. Sure you will always get those who ask for ridiculous prices and hope that some sucker will bite the hook laid out for them. But as Darwin's Theory Of Evolution goes, such people will be weeded out sooner or later. Because there aren't enough stupid people to go around. And even desperation has a limit for guys as well.

If I have to spend more than 5K per month on a SB that I'll meet for say three or four times a week and have sex with for two times each week we meet, wouldn't it make better sense for me to put that money into finding a local FL and book a few hours with her to my heart's content?

Then again, if she's going to be with me 6 days out of 7 a week and we're making out like Energizer bunnies in bed 4 times out of 6 days, then of course I'd say that such a price is worth it. Because hell, a woman might not necessarily look like Jessica Alba, but you'd rather have a normal woman who can be a great companion as well as a great sex partner in bed than just have a drop-dead gorgeous porcelain flowerpot on your arm who's a dead fish/cannot click in bed.

The trick to being a sugardaddy is never to lose sense of what your final goal is. If sex is all you want, you're better off just looking up a regular local FL or whoever you desire. If companionship is what you want, then decide for yourself if you're willing to put a price on a girl that's high not just because of her looks, but because you and her can really get along? If you know you have the money and the discerning attitude needed to find someone of your taste, then you jolly well better act like it. Don't drive too steep a bargain, but don't let your desperate lust and hunger for a companion overtake your common sense. Keep your goals in sight, never lose them even to fickle things like becoming really genuine good friends with your SB. At the end of the day it's still a money-motivated business contract after all, and it's when emotions interfere with your thinking that's where you get stupid stories about people with too much money to throw around paying stupid amounts of money for people who clearly are not worth that much.

Just my two cents.

Well said...can't agree with you more my friend....

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

For SD/SB only thing I can reasonably say is willing buyer, assertive seller.

For every sugardaddy there is a price he's willing to pay. And he's not just paying for the looks. He's paying for the "exclusive?" sex, he's paying for her companionship. It's like using money to lock a girlfriend to you. Purely a business transaction.

And for every sugarbaby there's a price she's willing to accept on her own head. Sure you will always get those who ask for ridiculous prices and hope that some sucker will bite the hook laid out for them. But as Darwin's Theory Of Evolution goes, such people will be weeded out sooner or later. Because there aren't enough stupid people to go around. And even desperation has a limit for guys as well.

If I have to spend more than 5K per month on a SB that I'll meet for say three or four times a week and have sex with for two times each week we meet, wouldn't it make better sense for me to put that money into finding a local FL and book a few hours with her to my heart's content?

Then again, if she's going to be with me 6 days out of 7 a week and we're making out like Energizer bunnies in bed 4 times out of 6 days, then of course I'd say that such a price is worth it. Because hell, a woman might not necessarily look like Jessica Alba, but you'd rather have a normal woman who can be a great companion as well as a great sex partner in bed than just have a drop-dead gorgeous porcelain flowerpot on your arm who's a dead fish/cannot click in bed.

The trick to being a sugardaddy is never to lose sense of what your final goal is. If sex is all you want, you're better off just looking up a regular local FL or whoever you desire. If companionship is what you want, then decide for yourself if you're willing to put a price on a girl that's high not just because of her looks, but because you and her can really get along? If you know you have the money and the discerning attitude needed to find someone of your taste, then you jolly well better act like it. Don't drive too steep a bargain, but don't let your desperate lust and hunger for a companion overtake your common sense. Keep your goals in sight, never lose them even to fickle things like becoming really genuine good friends with your SB. At the end of the day it's still a money-motivated business contract after all, and it's when emotions interfere with your thinking that's where you get stupid stories about people with too much money to throw around paying stupid amounts of money for people who clearly are not worth that much.

Just my two cents.

Originally Posted by TheStig

Well said...can't agree with you more my friend....

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[nachos84]

Although a late post, I cant help but agree with the bros here. Some ladies are perhaps expecting a little too high in terms of monetary returns from this business of sugaring. It's not uncommon to be asked for 3-10K per months. And also meeting like 4-6 times a month. that would work out to cost more than some local FL or Koreans FL working here.

Frankly if a guy need to pay that much, i'm sure he would like to have tons of variety in terms of new looks, bods etc. Ie, not stay with just one girl.

A recent correspondent with someone that I asked about her search and she said too many guys are simply just going for a single session of paid trial and disappearing after. And she was asking 5-8k to meet 4-6 times a month. Each 1-2 hrs. Basically means about 1.2 k per bonk session. I could not help but laugh at this situation. Unless one is super chio or hot and has superb connection with the sugar dad, but seriously most guys would just go for local escort and hell we can be doing many many different great looking local girls. To pay for so much simply do not make sense - unless the emotional connection with each other is so hard to come by ( which will not happen since no right minded guy would begin that to start with )

Although I can understand inflation has set in ( yes even for sugaring ) and new graduates are asking for 3k per month starting pay, but this is no guideline for someone who basically dont need to work hard at all or have any responsibility in the deal. It just do not make sense

[Gambol]

Originally Posted by nachos84

Although a late post, I cant help but agree with the bros here. Some ladies are perhaps expecting a little too high in terms of monetary returns from this business of sugaring. It's not uncommon to be asked for 3-10K per months. And also meeting like 4-6 times a month. that would work out to cost more than some local FL or Koreans FL working here.

Frankly if a guy need to pay that much, i'm sure he would like to have tons of variety in terms of new looks, bods etc. Ie, not stay with just one girl.

A recent correspondent with someone that I asked about her search and she said too many guys are simply just going for a single session of paid trial and disappearing after. And she was asking 5-8k to meet 4-6 times a month. Each 1-2 hrs. Basically means about 1.2 k per bonk session. I could not help but laugh at this situation. Unless one is super chio or hot and has superb connection with the sugar dad, but seriously most guys would just go for local escort and hell we can be doing many many different great looking local girls. To pay for so much simply do not make sense - unless the emotional connection with each other is so hard to come by ( which will not happen since no right minded guy would begin that to start with )

Although I can understand inflation has set in ( yes even for sugaring ) and new graduates are asking for 3k per month starting pay, but this is no guideline for someone who basically dont need to work hard at all or have any responsibility in the deal. It just do not make sense

True to that, bro.

[nachos84]

Just out of curiosity, I do see a lot of advertisements from ladies who ask that they be pampered and spoiled by their SD. Some even ask their SD to be good looking, young and rich. I'm sure there are some very rich men out there who would just thrown tons of money and gifts for SYTs out there. But in general, unless one is really very good looking and seriously making the uncle happy in bed or in emotional needs, i'm sure there are not that many rich suckers around. As we all know, the richer you are, the more 'giam siap' you are. Or perhaps a better phrase would be 'more careful with your money'.

Two questions that always cross my mind

1) If the SD is such an attractive individual, why does he need to use money to pay for a lady's companionship? I'm sure tons of very attractive girls will be jumping to get to know him. It's probably time that he can't afford to spare to be with a girl and sugaring is surely not on top of his priority.

2) Why does the SD need to be the one pampering and making the SB happy? Since the SD is the one paying for the service, then surely the reverse should be true instead? Unless pampering simply just mean giving lots of money and gifts and bringing her on expensive holidays and meals ( read : purely material stuff ) , but I dont see why SD should be the entertainer that makes the girl happy instead of the opposite.

Just some random thoughts here.

[real_king]

Chut Lui.

Chut Lak

Chut Siao.

Si buay bo hua.

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by real_king

Chut Lui.

Chut Lak

Chut Siao.

Si buay bo hua.

Haha.. I would not say it's totally bo hua. As this is still a willing buyer and willing seller kind of arrangement. But the deal has got to be in the favour of the SD. Just because the girl is willing to spread her legs dont mean the guy got to do all the work