Why I go to FL and Ladyboy?

[analog]

Hey Labbit:

If you are getting 4-5 times a week from your CO you are in heaven man! Your problem is, you don't understand that you're in heaven.

Ask around, many bros here, me included, haven't had sex with the CO for more than a year. Its not for lack of asking....yours it seems fucks you all the time. You lucky bastard! The fact that she fucks you often means you could get her to try anything if you put your mind to it.

Core dumping like you did must be a cry for help, so here it is:
I chong because I don't get any sex at home, period. My wife was into everything before the kids, now nothing. Don't laugh or "tut-tut" me either, this situation is regretably not as unique as it sounds...I'm not proud of it, its just the mess I'm in.

You chong because well.....I don't understand why you chong. Fuck your wife, massage her, lick her enjoy her, Why? BECAUSE SHE LETS YOU!!! You'd be surprised to hear how many COs don't.

You lucky bastard.

Jim

[AngusYoung]

I am not sure but maybe is questioning himself, sort of a self reflection on why despite having everything, he still wants to cheong.

I have also asked myself that question. Of course some bros will simply say men need sex. But in TS' case, he does have sex. So sex perse is not an issue. Hence I guess he could be confused. I think we should let him continue and not discourage him.

For myself, I know I go for WLs for the following reasons:

- all the sexy chio bus I see around me everyday.
- the forums I read in SBF
- the horny pics I see in SBF picture gallery

Honestly, if I am on leave at home and if I dont surf SBF, I can do without WLs.

I believe many bros are also in one way or another influenced by one or more of the 3 factors above. This applies to married bros only as I guess when you are single, its a totally different ball game.

What do the bros out there think?

[Cao_pi]

Kekeke, its times like this i'm happy to be a single. I mean i can try to understand the joy of having a family as well, kids and all. Also the loneliness at times makes me want to cry mama

But seriously we shouldn't contemplate too much on our cheonging acts. Its just wrong in woman's perspective.

My answer to it "Don't Get Caught!" which includes the following, regular check ups for STD, get over the guilt trips fast and be the good man and father when required.

[tanhockgin]

Hey Labbit,

I understand what you are going thru' and I am in the same situation if not worse. Like what Analog said, you are heaven; you just dun know. Cos' there is not comparison or benchmark.

I dun have sex with my wife as often as you; 1x 6 months and that is with persistency. She is immature in bed, does not like to suck (tiring), does not swallow(puke), does not like anal, does not like to be on top and does not like to be licked(ticklish and giggle). Yes, I might as well be fucking a doll or statue.

Like you I have sex outside to complement married life. Not the best solution but it beats jerking off. All you have done I have too and some other perverted stuff that I am not proud off. Also, had a mistress 2 yrs (millf) it served both our needs.

Thanks for putting up this thread. Nice to let off steam once in a while.

[HonestCrook]

Originally Posted by analog

Hey Labbit:

If you are getting 4-5 times a week from your CO you are in heaven man! Your problem is, you don't understand that you're in heaven.

Ask around, many bros here, me included, haven't had sex with the CO for more than a year. Its not for lack of asking....yours it seems fucks you all the time. You lucky bastard! The fact that she fucks you often means you could get her to try anything if you put your mind to it.

Core dumping like you did must be a cry for help, so here it is:
I chong because I don't get any sex at home, period. My wife was into everything before the kids, now nothing. Don't laugh or "tut-tut" me either, this situation is regretably not as unique as it sounds...I'm not proud of it, its just the mess I'm in.

You chong because well.....I don't understand why you chong. Fuck your wife, massage her, lick her enjoy her, Why? BECAUSE SHE LETS YOU!!! You'd be surprised to hear how many COs don't.

You lucky bastard.

Jim

Bro Jim,

I think your are mistaken liao, TS said 4-5 times a Month and not a week. Anyway, 4-5 times a month is very normal for me. Me old liao, low libedo. Sometimes, even less than twice a month.

[TheLabbit]

Thanks for the many responses, appreciate those who read this thread and shared that they too understand.
For others who read and feel that they need to 'correct or condemn my actions or thoughts', i guess you have every freedom to do so and i respect that.
I agreed with some brothers that i should not have revealed too much about myself. But what has been written cannot be withdrawn; i will stop doing that from now on.
There is this resounding statement about 'cannot compare wife with FL' which i agreed with most of what you brothers pointed out. It has never been my intention for this thread to compare wife vs FLs, but in writing what the 'Professional FLs' can do better inevitably put the wife in bad light. If any comparison is to be done, it will be purely on the aspect of sexual satisfaction.

Reason #2: varieties.
i have a wide range of choice :
a. Age - from 18 to 30plus.
b. Race & Nationality- chinese, malay, thai, viet, PRC, Pinoy, korean, taiwanese...
c. Body type - Big boobs, baa-baa, fair, elephant, shaved, neatly trimmed, bush.
d. Type of Services : Fj, bj, aj, hj, massage, outdoor, staircase, in car, tarma, gangbang,

[HonestCrook]

Originally Posted by TheLabbit

Thanks for the many responses, appreciate those who read this thread and shared that they too understand.
For others who read and feel that they need to 'correct or condemn my actions or thoughts', i guess you have every freedom to do so and i respect that.
I agreed with some brothers that i should not have revealed too much about myself. But what has been written cannot be withdrawn; i will stop doing that from now on.
There is this resounding statement about 'cannot compare wife with FL' which i agreed with most of what you brothers pointed out. It has never been my intention for this thread to compare wife vs FLs, but in writing what the 'Professional FLs' can do better inevitably put the wife in bad light. If any comparison is to be done, it will be purely on the aspect of sexual satisfaction.

Reason #2: varieties.
i have a wide range of choice :
a. Age - from 18 to 30plus.
b. Race & Nationality- chinese, malay, thai, viet, PRC, Pinoy, korean, taiwanese...
c. Body type - Big boobs, baa-baa, fair, elephant, shaved, neatly trimmed, bush.
d. Type of Services : Fj, bj, aj, hj, massage, outdoor, staircase, in car, tarma, gangbang,

Dear TS;

Then why get married in the first place?

IMHO - You sound like you regret marrying into this life. Once married, you should have some if not, more responsibility towards your child and spouse. I think you are not in a delimma. To put it simply - It's Lust and Perversion you should be worried about. All you want is to satisfy your Fantasy.

Just my "Newbie" 2 cents worth!

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by HonestCrook

Dear TS;

Then why get married in the first place?

IMHO - You sound like you regret marrying into this life. Once married, you should have some if not, more responsibility towards your child and spouse. I think you are not in a delimma. To put it simply - It's Lust and Perversion you should be worried about. All you want is to satisfy your Fantasy.

Just my "Newbie" 2 cents worth!

Hullo dun get moral in this place.....this is the last place to come to find any moralities...everyone come in here basically for one thing and that is to look for the next sex lead..

[HonestCrook]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Hullo dun get moral in this place.....this is the last place to come to find any moralities...everyone come in here basically for one thing and that is to look for the next sex lead..

Hello Frankietine;

Good morning. Sorry if I sounded like a priest. My arguement is, the TS started to make comparison. His wife to a FL. He is confused. On one side he seems like a family man (aren't we all) and on the other, he still wants to screw around and he is very dissatisfied with his sex from his beloved wife.

He is like Mr. Hyde and Dr. Jackel. He is having an attact of "guilty conscience" or just guilt ridden when he go looking for paid bonk. You and I should be more or less the same. We are happily married but still sow our wild oats. Just make sure to better to our family after sowing the oats. Anyway, that's me.