Qi Nian Zhi Yang (7 Yrs Itchy)

[ajlover]

I have the same problem bro.. since my wife gave birth,we hardly have sex. its been almost 3yrs since we last have sex. Instead of fucking, we are fighting more often... its so tiring in such relationship.

Furthermore, I was entangled with my ex whom I know for almost 20yrs... unfortunately she left me during NS for a rich man... although now she is div, I am married... dunno if its fated or I am lucky... last few years, I was doing well in my career that I wanted to div my wife and go with my ex, but everytime i see how sweet my son will run to me and hug me when I return home, I start to think twice... If it worth it to div and make my son feel sad?.... finally the wake up call comes... my career goes downhill, all back to square one. no longer have the finanical means to spend with my ex. she only goes restaurant and enjoy fine dinning (expected if she make 250K a yr right?) I could no longer afford the $300/meal life style.. so I started to stay away from her and spend more time with family.
take it easier, fighting stops or at least less frequent with wife, son is happy with me around for him...

Bro, having fun for a while is rather harmless if you knows the limit. No point doing anything that put your family at risk, especially your kids. I have fb that I can get bj or fuck but am trying to strop it with fb so that marriage sex life will be back to normal... remember the wedding vow that we made?

[Owen35]

Everyone have the same problem. Just take it slowly, keep the family but still eat outside sometimes.

cheers.

[talismann]

If you really desire some variety, its best to pay for it and bring home no baggage. Humping your colleague is a big no-no.

For many of us, wife-not-interested-anymore is quite a normal occurrence...so, get a Plan B ready. Hehe...

[Subaru75]

Originally Posted by B52bomber

I been married for 21 yrs...still itchy and need to fuck someone else..

Bro all man is the same kind (which cat don't eat fish)but after eating remember to wipe your mouth and also try not to shit in place u eat else u
Getting yourself into deep shit.
I think what you and your wife need us to go for a short trip just two of u
Leave your kid at your Parent or in law house it will help even just for 3-4 day
And have the honeymoon feeling back you will feel the big diff in you and your
Wife try to pat and sayang her like how you use to

[BODO]

Thanx all brother for ur advise

[mentosmint]

Originally Posted by BODO

I'm married for almmost 7 yrs and my child is 2 yrs old now. But my relation with my wife, a full time house wife, is drifting farther and farther apart. Maybe is this caused by the constant nagging and house chores she forcing me to do even after work. From my wife's pregency till my child 2 yrs old now, we only had sex twice. It is like 2 times in 3 yrs. She is just not interested at all.

Recently, I get to know a gal from work. She is cute, she is cheerful, abit chubby. She was quite surprised that I was married with a child when I first got to know her.

Though not as pretty as my wife, but I'm quite attracted by her after months of working together. I often look towards her direction, I often walk in front of her desk hope she would notice me. Although I dunno what she thinks about me, but she started to notice the attention I have for her. I felt my action was like courting girls when I was still single.

BUT! I must stop all this. Although my feeling for my wife have faded, but I love my son. I dun wanna part with my son because I have an affair or for whatever reason.

I am abit confused now, lack of abit of determination. Any advise from brothers?

Hi TS,

U love your son, and so, u need to buck up and work on your marriage.

What u need is to romances your wife and make her feel loved.
both of u are tired, and lack of romancing each other. that is why u felt the itch. Stay at home mom is no easy job. U try one week, u take over the job, and let her 'go on leave' and u see if u know the bah woo anot.

try bring her out, spend some time with her, quality time. Do make it a point not to talk work or family issues. Think back of what u 2 did together when partor time, and 2 of u go partor la... Ask ur parent/in law to help u babysit ur son if u need to.

As for your female colleague, i would suggest you keep your distances and not make any foolish act now. U are a married man with a son. She might be single or married, I dunno.

Seriously, i was in the same situation as u previously, except i am the wife who lacks the attention, no sex, kana nagged at all sorts of things. Things very complicated for me now. lol...

Dun complicate things, work on ur marriage first.
Good Luck to you.