am i cuckholded

[LovePotion]

Yes, find reason to break with her and get some fresh air outside.

No point keeping a person when u lose the trust or doubt her

[KingEros]

Originally Posted by joncheong

bros....is she having an affair with my buddy behind my back or is it that she has some fantasy about my buddy...perhaps my buddy has a very good bod and i am only average but skills wise i might be more experienced...any advise ?

One thing is for sure ... you wun get the truth out of her.
What you can do though, is approach your buddy ... & invite him for a threesome with your girl - his reaction will tell you everything you ever wanted to know.

[muscleboi]

Since you confronted her already, see whether if she let you bonk again. if so, then like what the bro said, call out your buddy gf's name.

[alan0338]

since its ur buddy, then just ask him straight in the face... if its true, then just break off with her la ..

and remember to teach ur buddy a lesson by telling him to go for a hiv checkup

[Iemanishere]

Bro, with my age, I would say see be sleeping with ur buddy, just tell ur buddy u was doing it with her last week and now u don't feel well below... And see his face....

[kiddy_tub]

She'll be on her guard now ... Swallow the humble pie & quietly observe ... You can always give her the benefit of a doubt & learn to trust her again. Talk to her nicely & be confrontational. Listen and dun lose yr cool.

Only if she starts acting up then maybe u can Check the usual SMS, call & email trail ... Follow her when u r "out of town for business or Army".

But be prepared to back down if there's nothing or to cry yr heart out if there's anything ... Wish you luck & best outcome

[cktfrancis]

my advice to u, keep banging her till u r sian or find a new one, make sure u try all ur desire position while it last....had the experience back twenty years ago

[hokkien]

let me reply u with your 1st question.....its under matters of heart

[chinchiasong]

TS, as an experienced cuckholded, I can tell u tt she & ur frn betrayed ur trust. . trust me.
I was in tt state some 14yrs bk when my daughter was jus few months old. My ex worked in a new company & things starts happening.
Moaning out someone's name is unforgivable. u can try moaning some other gal's name & let's see ur GF reactions.
TS, if I'm in ur shoe nw, I will kick the hell out of ur frn before kicking ur GF out of the nest.

[Guardsmanwarrio]

bro ur ego is being attcked ... just let it go

[Stimsia]

I dont understand the hooha
TS just act blur about whole thing and continue to fark her la
What have you got to lose?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by joncheong

3 months ago she joined a new company which happened to be the company my good buddy is working in...so the three of us sometimes go for drinks after work....

as i have my own tiny apartment....S moved in with me about 2 weeks ago and we began to have sex regularly.....she is one girl i really have the intention of settling down with eventually....until last night...

bros....is she having an affair with my buddy behind my back or is it that she has some fantasy about my buddy...perhaps my buddy has a very good bod and i am only average but skills wise i might be more experienced...any advise ?

She might just be having a fantasy on your friend with a good bod. What's wrong with girls lusting for guys with good bod? Will you look at your gf's girl friends with good bodies? Don't confront your good friend for betraying your friendship just because your gf admires his body. It looks silly. Plus if it's just a fantasy, you basically didn't give your gf a chance to move on with grace. How do you expect her to continue to be with you and face your guy friend in future? Try a test. Let her know you are displeased she moaned his name. Ask her if she will consider quitting that company so as to reduce seeing that guy friend of yours.

It takes a lot for a girl to move in with you. Imagine how our society views co-habitation. Guys don't care how others think but girls risk looking 'cheap' by moving in with a guy before marriage. She moved in 2 weeks ago with you and yet cheats on you? I think quite unlikely. If she doesn't value the relationship, if she hopes to be with your guy friend, she won't be moving in with you. It makes it harder for your guy friend to accept her in future if she is indeed hoping to be with him in future.

Don't be rash. No one knows the situation better than you yourself. Hope you didn't read the previous responses and use it to justify dumping her. No relationship is perfect and everyone will make mistakes in a relationship. You know her better than us. Is it in her character to cheat on you?

[jolenekoh]

women NEVER have any fantasies abt men they, they usually fantasize abt film stars, celebrities, etc. men is opposite.

Hence, she's fucking other man.

[Sirrus]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

She might just be having a fantasy on your friend with a good bod. What's wrong with girls lusting for guys with good bod? Will you look at your gf's girl friends with good bodies? Don't confront your good friend for betraying your friendship just because your gf admires his body. It looks silly. Plus if it's just a fantasy, you basically didn't give your gf a chance to move on with grace. How do you expect her to continue to be with you and face your guy friend in future? Try a test. Let her know you are displeased she moaned his name. Ask her if she will consider quitting that company so as to reduce seeing that guy friend of yours.

It takes a lot for a girl to move in with you. Imagine how our society views co-habitation. Guys don't care how others think but girls risk looking 'cheap' by moving in with a guy before marriage. She moved in 2 weeks ago with you and yet cheats on you? I think quite unlikely. If she doesn't value the relationship, if she hopes to be with your guy friend, she won't be moving in with you. It makes it harder for your guy friend to accept her in future if she is indeed hoping to be with him in future.

Don't be rash. No one knows the situation better than you yourself. Hope you didn't read the previous responses and use it to justify dumping her. No relationship is perfect and everyone will make mistakes in a relationship. You know her better than us. Is it in her character to cheat on you?

sometimes its hard to tell since his part of the situation. he needs our comments so we give him ours.

I know girls who are super bad nature, they can do anything and everything they like. U cannot rule out the fact that there are some people in this world that is rotten to the core.

So what if she move in with you, old fashion thinking. In fact it is a good thing for couples to live together before getting married. This way can see both the good and ugly sides and see compatibly.

Moaning another person name when screwing? thats just plain wrong, many guys here all got play girls and watch porn. How come when fucking never shout out Maria Ozawa and other Hot pretty girls name?

It isnt about the chances that she cheat you or not. Its about her calling another person's name. Clearly she lacks respect and today its name calling, who knows what will happen tomorrow. Would u rather spend the rest of your life worry or brush her off and find a better girl who respect you?

If girls find it offensive that we moan another name, it should works the same for us. The fact she get angry even more dulan, if she really value you. She will be damn scared and say sorry to you and explain. She has no respect for you. I dont see why u confront her is wrong, who wont?

u try to moan someone's else name see the girl face black anot.

Next time be careful of who u call friends and who you call GF.
end of the day the only thing u can trust is money

[Stimsia]

Originally Posted by Sirrus

sometimes its ..

Moaning another person name when screwing? thats just plain wrong, many guys here all got play girls and watch porn. How come when fucking never shout out Maria Ozawa and other Hot pretty girls name?

It isnt about the chances that she cheat you or not. Its about her calling another person's name. Clearly she lacks respect and today its name calling, who knows what will happen tomorrow. Would u rather spend the rest of your life worry or brush her off and find a better girl who ...

Next time be careful of who u call friends and who you call GF.
end of the day the only thing u can trust is money

And who you call "buddy"

Respect from fb?
Who giv a hoot, just continue the sex while it last...