Need advise - How to cum faster?

[Squeezy]

Bros,

Thank you for all the replies. I think I really DIY too much during 21 - 25yrs old. Too much porno also...
Damn lah..
I think I need to stop stroking my dick for a long time then try again..

Thank you all for reading my post!
Appreciate it!

[wiscom]

Maybe its better u see a doc checkup see got any prob got med prob better faster treat cannot wait 2 long

[Alantino]

how about masturbate before actual penetration?

you and your wife just give each other mutual masturbation. when you about to cum, insert to her and pump fast. this should work.

good luck~

[doglike]

As what most bro say, masturbate less then eventually you wlll be easier to cum the next time you make love to your wife.

Worst come to worst, imagine you are bonking some porn star to see if it makes you to cum easier

[larue]

Originally Posted by Squeezy

Thank you for all the replies. I think I really DIY too much during 21 - 25yrs old. Too much porno also...
Damn lah..
I think I need to stop stroking my dick for a long time then try again..

You how old now? Excessive pcc many years ago will have no effect on your ability to ejaculate now.

Try go one week, no release at all, then see can cum or not. Hope it works for you. Does nothing for me ha ha.

PCC I got no issue at all, even 3-4x a day. But sex, rod stays hard for damn long, but I never even get that close to release feeling.

wiscom: see doctor for what? Get some pills ah? He got no physical issues at all. It's all in the fucking head.

[pengembara]

Bro,
Have you tried asking your wife to talk dirty to you while making love? I had the same problem many years ago and this worked for me-she was reluctant at first but then actually enjoyed doing it. But this may not work for everyone. Another suggestion is to imagine that you're banging a FL or FB rather than your wife-this also works for me especially as I got older and 'chicken rice everyday' starts to taste bland and result in difficulty to discharge my ammo....

[larue]

Originally Posted by pengembara

Bro,
Have you tried asking your wife to talk dirty to you while making love? I had the same problem many years ago and this worked for me-she was reluctant at first but then actually enjoyed doing it. But this may not work for everyone. Another suggestion is to imagine that you're banging a FL or FB rather than your wife-this also works for me especially as I got older and 'chicken rice everyday' starts to taste bland and result in difficulty to discharge my ammo....

Replicating the ''slut'' effect! I should put more effect into creating it next time.

[amx13sm1]

Why can'y cum fast? The reasons are:

1. Tired of your wife and her 'parts' i.e. the same body and hole;

2. Try to cheong other girls to see whether it comes fast, if it does, then it is proven!!! Meaning need to constantly trying on new goods!!!

[nextnext]

Actually I had the same problem, still having it now, used to have sex.with my ex and.she is the only one can make me cum with her pussy, but what turns me on the most was her moan, the gl lady I tries has fake moan, that's a turn off, my suggestion is foreplay, set up the ambience get really horny first

[kgbkgb]

Originally Posted by Squeezy

Hi all bros,

Any ideas how to cum faster and ejaculate inside your wife or partner?

The issue with me is that i find it difficult for me to cum during love making. The dick is hard but still difficult to cum. When i DIY, it shoot very fast.

Any bros here face the same problem as me? I really want to have a baby with my wife and this disability of me to cum is really embrassing my wife. Everyone thought she's having problem but it is ME who has a problem...

It's stressful for me sometimes even when we make love...

Any bros here can offer me some good advise?

No offence, I suspect its too loose for you. Ask her to squeeze her cunt while u pump away

[Krazzie]

Bro, could be many different factors.

1. You squeeze hard with your fingers and go all out pumping mad to release, which is not really feasible with your wife as a woman's vagina cannot achieve the strength of your hands nor can you pump your wife at the speed your hand does.

Next time you masturbate try to grip it softer (don't use thumb and forefinger) and do it at a speed you and your wife usually have sex.

2. Do you watch real hard core stuff or fetish stuff when masturbating? If so then likely you made yourself into only able to release in such situation. Cut yourself off to such things too much porno really doesn't help at all.

3. End of the day its all in your head, you keep thinking about it you won't achieve it. Try spend a relaxing day lazing in bed with your wife.. Cuddling, chatting, watching tv, having sex a few times, massages ... blah blah blah.. Instead of "I wanna release I wanna release I wanna release"... that's not gonna work..

That's what I did to resolve my problem hope it helps

[mr nice guy]

Originally Posted by amx13sm1

Why can'y cum fast? The reasons are:

1. Tired of your wife and her 'parts' i.e. the same body and hole;

2. Try to cheong other girls to see whether it comes fast, if it does, then it is proven!!! Meaning need to constantly trying on new goods!!!

You are one home wrecker jabroni.. Here brother got problem, u suggest something tat can add to his current problem.. Pls dun take his advise..

Anyways, its all in ur head.. As for masturbating, who else knows our favorite strokes except for us.. So we knew when to slow down or quicken our stroke etc.. And also the position of our legs.. When we masterbate we are able to straighten and so-called flex our leg muscles to make us cum faster..

So to solve ur prob and as many bros here have given u.. U can try which suits u best.. Good luck!

[sleepy80]

Bro, good lar you.. Can make gals climax multiple time with ur Duracell Dickie.. Guys will like to take longer time to cum than premature ejaculation lor..

For your solution, like other bros have recommended. Masturbate first, when you are about to ejaculate then inside to ur wife..

[BacktoCheonging]

I had the same problem when I started chionging health-centres in my NS days. Sex, unlike masturbation, is more technical and more physical.

For masturbation, you just need to hold onto your penis and stroke continuously til climax. Whereas for sex, depending on the position, you need to adjust your body angle such that you can thrust back and forth without tiring yourself too much.
so my advice is that you practise having sex more often, either with your girlfriend/wife, or you can go petain road for WLs that charge comparatively cheaper than their counterparts in Geylang. There is separate thread concerning WLs in petain road, you can go check it out yourself. that was the technical part.

for the physical part, if you want to enjoy having sex more, you need to be fit. it's like playing any sport, if you are fit you will enjoy your game more. So, work on your cardiovascular endurance by running more and also do strength training for your entire body, yes vigorous sex is full body workout. learn about the human muscular-skeletal anatomy well, and train all muscle groups.

take care and God bless.

[Squeezy]

HI Brobacktocheong,

Thanks for the advice. Its true that i dont exercise that often...Maybe i really need to work out more..

I dont really want to try GL or FL....Guess, i need to stay away from SBF for a while now..