GF asks for breakup. What should I do? [Chase her back or turn her to FkBuddy?] - Page 2

DotaEr · #16 13-05-2012, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by popi824

It hurts alot n for us who had experienced it before will know. in my opinion you seems like a young guy, if you are still studying do concentrate on your studies first. if you cant even feed yourself don't think of being in a relationship.. it wont last long.. there is a real world out there where u need to face.. On the other note... if you have done what u can, maybe u need to let go... it is not easy, but all i can say to encourage u is that its her lost. just keep on improving yrself to be a better man..

i am going to be 26 this year. and i have one more semester before i graduate from my accountancy course in a local uni. i should be working by late december or early jan next year.

but to say the truth bro, i find that i am already an old man. i am afraid that no girls would want to date with me.. or i am unable to find another gf. and people are like getting married at 28? and i am 26 but still single.

DotaEr · #17 13-05-2012, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by packardbell

Hi DotaEr bro,
I think she is tired of you liao. It is not you yourself at fault. Saying goes; When she does not likes you, she give you a thousand of reasons. If she like you, she only give you one. Hence, do not take her comments so serious. Dump her, make the decision now that you do not need to worry later, rather than to keep a time bomb.

hi bro,

she already dumped me already. i actually asked this at flowerpod too and the girls also said that if a girl who wants to leave me, will have 1000s of excuse to leave. but if she wants to stay, she have 1000s reasons to stay on with you.

alvinskoh · #18 13-05-2012, 04:02 PM

Bro,

Girl always like to act. Maybe is real, give her your blessing.

Try one month later and drop a hello to her.

If her reply, ask for drink and see if you can into her pant. But never force or you be in trouble.

You should change routine, go gym,swim ,upgrade study religion(read osho)...... make you mind & body strong.

If you do above,in one month miracle will happen. You mind should focus on above not her.

All the best

Cheers

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Originally Posted by DotaEr

but during our r/s.. there were times when she was horny and she asked for sex.

when is a good time to contact her again? we last spoke on the 9th may. i checked her facebook, her postings seems cheerful and normal. as if she had move on already.

alvinskoh · #19 13-05-2012, 04:08 PM

Bro, how old are you?

I feels you are young and mind are not strong, let go while you can.
You achieved what guy wanted so what else you want. She ready to drop you and you still hold on. I believe she is stepping on a few boat when she with you. Now she finalize a candidate that fill her need so she drop you. I not surprise many girls and guys do that.

Cheers

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Originally Posted by DotaEr

hi bro,

she already dumped me already. i actually asked this at flowerpod too and the girls also said that if a girl who wants to leave me, will have 1000s of excuse to leave. but if she wants to stay, she have 1000s reasons to stay on with you.

DotaEr · #20 13-05-2012, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by alvinskoh

Bro,

Girl always like to act. Maybe is real, give her your blessing.

Try one month later and drop a hello to her.

If her reply, ask for drink and see if you can into her pant. But never force or you be in trouble.

You should change routine, go gym,swim ,upgrade study religion(read osho)...... make you mind & body strong.

If you do above,in one month miracle will happen. You mind should focus on above not her.

All the best

Cheers

bro, really one month later then contact? i am actually missing her and i would like to message her sometime next week.. is it too fast? [we broke up on 9th may].

so in this one month.. totally no contact at all?

ya i plan to ask her out for dinner after her work..see how she feels for me.. if she still dont want to get back together.. maybe can ask her if she wants to be my fb?

popi824 · #21 13-05-2012, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by DotaEr

i am going to be 26 this year. and i have one more semester before i graduate from my accountancy course in a local uni. i should be working by late december or early jan next year.

but to say the truth bro, i find that i am already an old man. i am afraid that no girls would want to date with me.. or i am unable to find another gf. and people are like getting married at 28? and i am 26 but still single.

You are still young... bright future ahead...there are lots of gd spore gals... dont worry unnecessarily... gt yr degree n find a gd job.. eventually e right woman will appear.. To me age is nt a big deal.. bt more of r u able to provide e woman u love with a basic living.. ie.. a house? nt bungalow or condo.. bt a decent hdb flat? if you r nt there yt.. nvm.. just work yr way there when u graduate.. alot of spore woman is waiting.. love without bread all will die.. thats my view... build yrself up first... for one, u oni knw her for 5 mths, next she break off with u n u wan to turn her into fb.. something is wrong here..

DotaEr · #22 13-05-2012, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by alvinskoh

Bro, how old are you?

I feels you are young and mind are not strong, let go while you can.
You achieved what guy wanted so what else you want. She ready to drop you and you still hold on. I believe she is stepping on a few boat when she with you. Now she finalize a candidate that fill her need so she drop you. I not surprise many girls and guys do that.

Cheers

i am going to be 26 this year. i am not sure if she was dating other guys (she said no).. but to say the truth.. she is plump.. so i am not sure if many guys would chase her. to me she looks pretty, but to my guy friends, they disagree

DotaEr · #23 13-05-2012, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by popi824

You are still young... bright future ahead...there are lots of gd spore gals... dont worry unnecessarily... gt yr degree n find a gd job.. eventually e right woman will appear.. To me age is nt a big deal.. bt more of r u able to provide e woman u love with a basic living.. ie.. a house? nt bungalow or condo.. bt a decent hdb flat? if you r nt there yt.. nvm.. just work yr way there when u graduate.. alot of spore woman is waiting.. love without bread all will die.. thats my view... build yrself up first... for one, u oni knw her for 5 mths, next she break off with u n u wan to turn her into fb.. something is wrong here..

i have my sexual needs too.

i prefer to have her as a gf of course.. but if she really dont want.. then i guess its better to go for the next best choice, fb.

alvinskoh · #24 13-05-2012, 04:20 PM

Bro,

You are asking for trouble if you contact so soon.

I think you miss her pussy.......

Try other dish.......so many FL.

Cheers

QUOTE=DotaEr;7212328]bro, really one month later then contact? i am actually missing her and i would like to message her sometime next week.. is it too fast? [we broke up on 9th may].

so in this one month.. totally no contact at all?

ya i plan to ask her out for dinner after her work..see how she feels for me.. if she still dont want to get back together.. maybe can ask her if she wants to be my fb?[/QUOTE]

DotaEr · #25 13-05-2012, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by alvinskoh

Bro,

You are asking for trouble if you contact so soon.

I think you miss her pussy.......

Try other dish.......so many FL.

Cheers

QUOTE=DotaEr;7212328]bro, really one month later then contact? i am actually missing her and i would like to message her sometime next week.. is it too fast? [we broke up on 9th may].

so in this one month.. totally no contact at all?

ya i plan to ask her out for dinner after her work..see how she feels for me.. if she still dont want to get back together.. maybe can ask her if she wants to be my fb?

[/QUOTE]

but you know what i am afraid is that if i wait for one month later.. maybe by then it will be too late..

and she would have sort of forgotten about me and move on well with life.

Familiar · #26 13-05-2012, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DotaEr

i asked her if there was another guy.. she said no.. i guess i should give her the benefit of the doubt?

Try to ask yourself , what would cause you to give up a stable relationship ? The first thing that goes to your mind is ; third party .

PunjabiPlayboy · #27 13-05-2012, 04:46 PM

You're only 26. Still young. Go out and meet people. Socialize. She's not the only girl in the world. And 5 months relationship only - just move on and make new friends. One day, the right one will come along.

Ni ming bai mah?

yang punk · #28 13-05-2012, 04:55 PM

TS.
You are already 26 and about to graduate. Don't be a disgraceful wimp and bring shame to the male sex!

Concentrate on your studies and when you graduate and become a successful accountant there will be lots of pussies for you to choose from.

She is obviously eyeing a longer dick than yours!

DotaEr · #29 13-05-2012, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Familiar

Try to ask yourself , what would cause you to give up a stable relationship ? The first thing that goes to your mind is ; third party .

thats what i thought too and thats what many people also said. but i asked her and she denied..

but there were some occasions.. where she met up with guys online on a 1-1 basis. there was once when i met her for dinner and then she brought along a guy friend.. and i didnt know that she brought along someone.

there is also another guy she met online and the guy is asking her out for meals etc.

so third party is a possibility.

DotaEr · #30 13-05-2012, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by yang punk

TS.
You are already 26 and about to graduate. Don't be a disgraceful wimp and bring shame to the male sex!

Concentrate on your studies and when you graduate and become a successful accountant there will be lots of pussies for you to choose from.

She is obviously eyeing a longer dick than yours!

what do you mean by eyeing for a longer dick than mine? actually when we broke up she said that she is no longer wants to be in anymore r/s to avoid all the problems like this. and she say we are young and she just wants to concentrate on matters on her hand such as her studies.