Attracted to married ex-gf!

[Eastpipper]

hmm...I know is very tempting lah,but bro,ppl is happily married(I assume),better dun break up ppl family,(wondered they gt kids)if gt kids lagi worst,better dun lah,but its up to you,we got no say,we only can "talk cock'" herekekeke
decision up to u to choose,gonna be responsible to all good & bad consequences as well,good luck!

[Wins88]

Bro, dun touch other people's wife lah. They may actually have a happy home. Just remember - what goes around comes around. Some guy tried to screw with my marriage simply because I was too busy with my business to "take care" of my wife for a few months. Really pissed me off. Still haven decided what to do with the asshole yet! I
n fact, any bros want 2 recommend what to do with the offender? Any suggestions?

Don't live with your past, don't screw with your present as it will affect your future. Lessons learnt from past prevent you from repeating mistakes and better yourself for the future. Your Ex has moved on with her life with someone she loves. If you love her, treat her as a friend and wish her a wonderful life with her hubby. Nothing good will come out being the third party. In the end, someone will suffer the accusation, shame and pain, not you but your Ex.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by Wins88

Still haven decided what to do with the asshole yet!

i wouldnt be surprised if its another samster here.. possible?

[HauntedSex]

Originally Posted by tanalfred

Dear fellow samsters,
Some advice would help. Thanks!

Bro Tanalfred,

Long time neder hear from u... seem like u not too good these days...

Bro, from all your posting, I can see that u r an emotional person, Fell in love in a double quick time. Unable to hold your feeling is your main weakness.I used to have this too until I been "kena" Left, right and centre... Become wiser now these days.

Do u really think that she is the right 'one' for u? or is just the past feeling came back and just want to rekindle those feeling?very difficult for me to judge as only u will know the answer.

Does she feel the same for u too? How's her feeling towards this relationship?
what is the reason behind the last breakoff btwn both of you? Has this problem solved? how's her feeling towards her husband? good or bad? you better hint her these questions before any further development of this relationship. Maybe it's just one-sided love(that's you). This will ensure u will not be 'hurt' again.

If everything turns out that both of u are falling in love again, and very very in love. My advise to u: Ask her to leave her husband and to be with u again. I maybe offended some bros here.(if yes,sorry) But still, True Love is difficult to find, and it's unlikely that it will come twice. and also, Love is selfish. rather wish her to be happy with someone else, I give her more happiness and love that 'someone' could gave. It maybe wrong to 'snatch' someone's wife but it is wrong to fight for your true love?? We are now living in a new era - no perm job,no more money-making lobangs,no long lasting, happy-ever-after kind of bullshit!!

Just sharing my 2 cents' worth of advice, peace...
HauntedSex

[OceanEleven]

It's the human nature, the grass on the other side is always greener. Memories are best kept remembered, not relive it again.

[t123]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

It's the human nature, the grass on the other side is always greener. Memories are best kept remembered, not relive it again.

I second your thoughts but I can't up your rep now.

[kukujiao]

yeah man, imagine ur wife having sex with another man every night. Do you want that to happen? dunbe selffish lah, think for others

[cashlove]

Originally Posted by wankmehappy

at that point of time...i know i did the right thing...we didnt carry on...i don't have that sense of guitiness in me...im happy that i can look straight at her hubby & baby....im happy to see that they are so happy with the new born....

Clap Clap, Bravo!!!

[wankmehappy]

Originally Posted by cashlove

Clap Clap, Bravo!!!

kekeke...10Q bro love...just sharing experience...this is what the forum about....happy bonking......
happyme

[BigGuy]

OK me sure kana hatam by this posting.....

my thoughts differ from many of you guys......it takes to hands to clap b it the person u screw is a bf/gf to someone or even husband/wife too.....the fact lust lies in us and we can say wrong to do this n that.....

Allow me to put some scenarios:

1) you happen to meet a er while clubbing.....went to bed and after awhile u learnt she had a bf.....wud u still continue to screw her if she wants? wud u do it w an xcus like well she is not married?

2) you happen to bump onto a lonely ger/wife w unsatisfied sex life.....wud u do it?

3) u have a gf.....not sure if u wud marry her.....wud u refrain from screwing her? wud u do it simply u think u have the rite as a bf/gf?????

Flame as mush as we want....but the logically we won't be able to say right or wrong.....if it happens it happens lor.....BE IT A GER OR WIFE!!!!!!

[lawry]

Originally Posted by BigGuy

OK me sure kana hatam by this posting.....

well, in this world.. things really "what goes around, comes around"

if u dont know.. fine... if u know.. better reframe urself..

chinese says (bu zhi zhe wu zhui)

BG, if u have a very chio gf... vivian hsu lookalike... but her ex is ur good friend.. and one day ur good friend told u, hey.. ur gal and i slept... cause i can satisfy her better, and we miss our old time very much... u ok with it?

confirm u wont hantam ur good friend?? and u will say.. this kind of things i understand.. cause i sleep with other ppl's gf or wife before.. i forgive u..

[BigGuy]

Originally Posted by lawry

well, in this world.. things really "what goes around, comes around"

if u dont know.. fine... if u know.. better reframe urself..

chinese says (bu zhi zhe wu zhui)

BG, if u have a very chio gf... vivian hsu lookalike... but her ex is ur good friend.. and one day ur good friend told u, hey.. ur gal and i slept... cause i can satisfy her better, and we miss our old time very much... u ok with it?

confirm u wont hantam ur good friend?? and u will say.. this kind of things i understand.. cause i sleep with other ppl's gf or wife before.. i forgive u..

agree w u bro.......but then in real life do u really bother......i for 1 wun bother so much lor.....so as u read my post.....we can talk about morality.....but unless my practise is only bonking by paid sex then i rest my case if not to each his her own lor.......Fair?

[lawry]

Originally Posted by BigGuy

agree w u bro.......but then in real life do u really bother......i for 1 wun bother so much lor.....so as u read my post.....we can talk about morality.....but unless my practise is only bonking by paid sex then i rest my case if not to each his her own lor.......Fair?

true lah brudder, (first to note.. only discussion hor.. not picking on u or watever.... peace.. talk talk only... stress first)

morality.. hmm a difficult and tuff word..

i am saying.. of course if u cheong.. DB/MS/CB.. u get to know this gal.. have fun sleep.. fine.. status dont know its ok.. its like wat i mention (if u dont know, u are not to blame) but if there is this gal u already know is married, would u? just like, if u have a gf, and i secretly go behind ur back and screw ur gal.. or if i have a gf.. u secretly go behind my back and screw her. both of us wont be happy. cause the fact is we know..

but if my gal or ur gal go clubbing.. and if you or me so happen to hook her up and if we happen to sleep either one of them.. without knowing that they are attached/married.. its fine..

[BigGuy]

Originally Posted by lawry

true lah brudder, (first to note.. only discussion hor.. not picking on u or watever.... peace.. talk talk only... stress first)

morality.. hmm a difficult and tuff word..

i am saying.. of course if u cheong.. DB/MS/CB.. u get to know this gal.. have fun sleep.. fine.. status dont know its ok.. its like wat i mention (if u dont know, u are not to blame) but if there is this gal u already know is married, would u? just like, if u have a gf, and i secretly go behind ur back and screw ur gal.. or if i have a gf.. u secretly go behind my back and screw her. both of us wont be happy. cause the fact is we know..

but if my gal or ur gal go clubbing.. and if you or me so happen to hook her up and if we happen to sleep either one of them.. without knowing that they are attached/married.. its fine..

hey seasoned ppl like us talk w peace okie

i dun refute what u had say.....now say if u know n she chose to screw wud u pull back? there's a unwritten rule then we should not.....but again bro......in reality who cares......it has happen and will never stop to happen......

hahahaha....think a couple of buddies we know including me has gone thru this situation.....worst is the ppl screwing r not just from somewhere outside but w a few from the forum lor.....

Case close shall we????