Sexually frustrated guy

[leakypipes]

TS, listen to bradplay and devil666. Both make solid points.

When I was in NS, i was curious how all my buddies like got lots of money go clubbing so often. Spend time talking to them, and realise that they don't always spend a lot. They're not rich. But they also smart enough to know cannot rely on ns money only. So some will do "alternative" businesses which aren't exactly allowed in ns.

The other thing I realise is the girls they are with at that time also don't expect them to spend a lot. It's like everyone is struggling so they kind of seek comfort in one another.

Of course I had the other type of NS friends with parental finance. Higher spending power. Attract a different kind of girl.

I was somewhere in middle. I wasn't rich. I also introverted. I went out with them sometimes. Learnt how to make my money last and yield good benefit in clubs.

most of all, I didn't think so much about the sex. If I really horny, there is porn and my hands.

You're still young. Don't think of sex as the goal. Sex should be for fun not source of stress. Focus on developing yourself.

[ddog]

Of course, the guilt parody stems from society, culture and religion. Scratch it off, then there won't be any

Ddog from beri conservative family. Then moved out house 16 to study, stepped out comfort zone, become popular slowly by challenging norms.

[TheGreatOne]

Originally Posted by Thenotoman

Honestly I feel like I'm capable but through experience or maybe bad experience with girls, I'm starting to believe that I'm a loser

Don't worry bro, your time will come

I suggest you go work these few areas to increase your chances of getting hitched, in your case, with a nymphomaniac.

1st. Have confidence in yourself.
People get hitched all the time, sometimes with pretty partners. So why can't you?

2nd. Go work out or something. No gym at least do some push ups and stuffs. Aiya you know the drill. Outer appearance is important. A good, healthy and fit outlook will win you some turning heads, guaranteed! And will also subconsciously improve your self confidence.

3rd. Be hygienic. Stay fresh always. No girls would want to be near someone who looks like he hasn't been taking a shower since who knows when. Shaved or well kept is your choice, as long you look good. Clean clothes at least, branded or not is not so essential.

4th. Be relatively knowledgeable, so that you can keep up on casual topics. Hmm OK thats not too important but at least don't just talk about sex sex sex... The key is don't make the date boring. Zodiac signs reading is a pretty good topic to know more about her.

5th. Be attentive. Scrolling endlessly on your phone during first date is a big no no. Be attentive when she talks and be a good listener, that's a plus.

6th. Be humorous. No girls would want to date a poker face on first date. Keep those sex related jokes for other events.

7th. Be open, OK reasonably. Meaning ie. If your date ask you about your life. Don't give her that 'you guess?' answer. Of course also no need to tell everything in details from 3 years old till now la. By the way, if they cared ask, it only means you might get lucky.

8th. They First, Then You.
Should you really get lucky. Don't go straight into humping to get your release. If you're as bloody horny as you claimed. Just keep your Willy hard and strong, always, is good enough. OK this takes some times to gain experience but the idea is to please in order to be pleased. Take this as your job interview, present yourself well and hope you get the job. (what job? Of course bf, fb etc) Fuck it up, you repeat the same process again. Mutual respect goes a long way.

9th. Lastly, be responsible.
Don't resort to violence to get your way.
Don't shoot and run, make sure you got some birth control stuffs ie. Condoms, pills whatever.

Good luck!

[dazze]

if you're talking about purely being in NS as a barrier then dont worry about it. my wife had a fb fling with an NSF in the past when she was young. if talking about $$$ or looks then I cant confirm if your chances will be hit on getting a fb lol.

[bradplay2018]

Originally Posted by thedevil666

I never say is u hor. Those who are rich and acting rich has nothing wrong with it. Those who work their way up career properly is also good.

There are many superficial people out there who are attracted to/only apply impressionalism.

That’s what I’m referring to.

Pai seh bro, cheers I agree with what you say. A lot superficial people are attracted to impressionalism. This is very true, I also have many friends near me that are not yet make it but wear more impressive than me but bank empty haha..

[dodo654321]

KNS. Bro. Just concentrate on your study, get good job and all will be well. Now your hormone raging lah.

After NS in working circle, see if you will complain or not. Wait got money to spare (To spare and not splurge hor) see if got time to spend.

Relax.. enjoy your current moment.

[bradplay2018]

Originally Posted by leakypipes

TS, listen to bradplay and devil666. Both make solid points.

When I was in NS, i was curious how all my buddies like got lots of money go clubbing so often. Spend time talking to them, and realise that they don't always spend a lot. They're not rich. But they also smart enough to know cannot rely on ns money only. So some will do "alternative" businesses which aren't exactly allowed in ns.

The other thing I realise is the girls they are with at that time also don't expect them to spend a lot. It's like everyone is struggling so they kind of seek comfort in one another.

Of course I had the other type of NS friends with parental finance. Higher spending power. Attract a different kind of girl.

I was somewhere in middle. I wasn't rich. I also introverted. I went out with them sometimes. Learnt how to make my money last and yield good benefit in clubs.

most of all, I didn't think so much about the sex. If I really horny, there is porn and my hands.

You're still young. Don't think of sex as the goal. Sex should be for fun not source of stress. Focus on developing yourself.

Yes correct some are preparing for life after Ns such as alternative business or knowledge while yes clubbing can spend a lot money especially hang flower joint, one table 4 to 5 ladies all play dices expect you hang on them cause they got sales quota to met. But the earning they earn varies on countries, in the foreign country I at now is 2 to 3k sing approx. But in Singapore some hang flower joint goes a 80:20 distribution which 15k can yield about 12k less rental less permit and agent fee about at least still more than 6k that’s also why attract the ladies to come here to work.

But Just imagine if no hit sales they need fill up the void themself and also the feel of drinking Everyday , ever wonder how whiskey or beer or bomb taste like. After vomit still need drink sibei shag one, if kana suck cock customer more worst that’s why this ladies are easily bait by impressionalism or so call seems to be rich guys to want to ease their life.

* earning refer to monthly earning

[Idunno1]

Jus put your money on top of your head

Think of who u will pay with the amount of money on your head then pcc away

[tsc2828]

Try to work as volunteer.....

Then some gals will approach you

[Thenotoman]

I really appreciate all the comments and advices from everyone. A friend of my invited me to go club this Fri cause he see me so stress in camp and he say he'll even invite ladies over to wing for me. Thing is I've never been to a club and I don't drink so it's going to be very awkward for me as I'm an introvert by nature but able to be seen as an extrovert.

I'm very nervous to meet new people and make small talks. I find it very trivial and tiresome. Although it's a prerequisite to continue on with the conversation, I still hate the fact that I have to chat with people in a loud conducive environment.

But you know what, I'll live in the moment and just enjoy myself this Friday night. Although it's against my beliefs and morals to drink and club, once in a while wouldn't hurt. But I'm still not drinking hahah

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by dodo654321

KNS. Bro. Just concentrate on your study, get good job and all will be well. Now your hormone raging lah.

After NS in working circle, see if you will complain or not. Wait got money to spare (To spare and not splurge hor) see if got time to spend.

Relax.. enjoy your current moment.

Yes very good and valid advice here.

[Sheenymilano]

All u need to fucking do is up your game by opening your mouth and ask
Deal with rejections
Women are not as materialistic as u think they r
U will hunt some down
trust me

[twinresist2]

Bro, I think there are too much for you to learn so i suggest you focus on this one important skill.

Warren Buffett shared, The one easy way to become worth 50 percent more than you are now at least is to hone your communication skills--both written and verbal. If you can't communicate, it's like winking at a girl in the dark--nothing happens. You can have all the brainpower in the world but you have to be able to transmit it. And the transmission is communication.

Simple answer to your problem: Be a master of communication

Invest in yourself by reading books/watching videos then practice, practice and practice till you perfect it.
Your action today determines your potential in the future.. if you dont invest now, you will continue to be in this sorry state.

Good Luck

[Jay Chou]

Originally Posted by leakypipes

TS, listen to bradplay and devil666. Both make solid points.

When I was in NS, i was curious how all my buddies like got lots of money go clubbing so often. Spend time talking to them, and realise that they don't always spend a lot. They're not rich. But they also smart enough to know cannot rely on ns money only. So some will do "alternative" businesses which aren't exactly allowed in ns.

The other thing I realise is the girls they are with at that time also don't expect them to spend a lot. It's like everyone is struggling so they kind of seek comfort in one another.

Of course I had the other type of NS friends with parental finance. Higher spending power. Attract a different kind of girl.

I was somewhere in middle. I wasn't rich. I also introverted. I went out with them sometimes. Learnt how to make my money last and yield good benefit in clubs.

most of all, I didn't think so much about the sex. If I really horny, there is porn and my hands.

You're still young. Don't think of sex as the goal. Sex should be for fun not source of stress. Focus on developing yourself.

Up u bro. 😊

[Jay Chou]

Originally Posted by dodo654321

KNS. Bro. Just concentrate on your study, get good job and all will be well. Now your hormone raging lah.

After NS in working circle, see if you will complain or not. Wait got money to spare (To spare and not splurge hor) see if got time to spend.

Relax.. enjoy your current moment.

Up u bro. 😊