Sorry everyone, was pretty caught up. Thanks for sharing and letting me know I’m not the only one. Regarding the most common questions, i do not upload my personal image and I also do not send them even after chatting. Well apparently it do works but you gotta sound confident. Tbh, I do work out and still pretty in shape so on this part I believe during meet up shouldn’t be a problem. But don’t get me wrong, I’m not some handsome chap. I’ll say mediocre?
I have spoken to some of my hookups that are married. It seems that it happens on the ladies side too. The recent one had almost similar feelings which I had. Hence we clicked from the start. No matter how much love for our partner, entering a new pussy/receiving a new dick is a hell lot of difference. The excitement of new exciting sex life. Of course, there are time we fuck up too. Meeting dead fish, that’s the time where it gets abit tiring with the training sessions.
Trying my best to curb, but this addiction just gets higher and higher. I try to keep all my hookups exclusive. Just chapters of life satisfying each other sexual desires within them.
keep them exclusive - means when you are with one, you don't hookup with others at the same time period? since youre married..do you use condoms with the rest?
Have been a silent reader for around 8 years. Not gonna lie, benefited a lot from here since my poly days. However, as I reached the age of settling down and getting married. I find myself cheating over and over again. If you ask me if I’m happy with my rs? Yes I am, just not sexually, over and over again I would have the urge to find another source to vent my sexual desires. The excitement of finding someone compatible on bed, the feeling of surprise everytime a new woman does something new to you.
Ngl, from tinder, tantan, wechat and platform like this. Idk if it’s pure luck but I met various woman. Yes I’m honest that I’m not single from start. Met young ladies, matured ladies, locals, PRC, Philippines , Thailand, Vietnam, single, attached, married. It’s been a wild ride and 8 years of sex. I’ve been extremely cautious btw, never once raw with anyone. If anyone were to experience this you would know, sex with someone out there is never the same as your own partner. It’s always more exciting not cause of cheating. But cause you can legit share your sexual desires with them. Like FFM, place to have sex etc. they wouldn’t judge your sexual desires unlike your own partner as close or loving, there’s still a part of your desires hidden deep within.
I’ve been really wanting to cut down and stopped FL and ML for 2 years. Once in awhile I’ll login to these platform to swipe or chat to kill boredom when I’m free. And ALWAYS, there’s always an opportunity to cheat. Curb myself a few times but that devil in me just couldn’t subside. Recently just matched a lady on tinder and she’s married. Share with her my thoughts. Next moment, we were at a dayuse hotel screwing the fuck out of our brains. There’s a part of me telling me to stop, another part in me telling me. YOLO. Just go. And yes, once again, I’m cheating with a lady whom is all ready to fulfill all my sexual desires.
What are your thoughts! Share and see if it’s just me alright.
Totally in the same shoes as TS, in a relationship for few years now and always looking out. Wondering how TS is getting the girls without face as well.. And not sure if I’m here to stop this addiction or to find out more ways to play better lol
Same as TS, i don't post any face pic of myself on the dating app. sometimes you get swiped right by women in similar situation (married but looking for fun). it's all boiled down to luck
Same as TS, i don't post any face pic of myself on the dating app. sometimes you get swiped right by women in similar situation (married but looking for fun). it's all boiled down to luck
What do you post then? Like back view or do you dont even post any pics of yourself?