How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[vistaman]

Originally Posted by tanhockgin

Dear surf 888,

I understand what you are going thru. I have been married almost 7 years and I have sex with my wife 2x/year.

Like you, I'll be the gentleman. Do the romantic stuff. So far bought her tiffany ring 10K (engagement ring), watch (jaeger Le Coutre) 21K, Full diamond tennis bracelet (5K) for ther birthday.

Then if happen, instead of thanking me, I got criticised and nagged at. I lost it. I told her in her face that it was the last thing she will ever get from me. So far, I have not bought her a single thing. Not even a shoe-string.

She was stunned and kept thanking me and apologising after the incident. The feeling i have for her has past, I now live for the kids. So whose getting all the gifts, you say? Other women. Just bought my mistress/gf/fren a coach handbag.

Sigh.

i faced the same situation too. i bought my wife an Omega (birthday)and a LV bag (anniversary). She commented that it took so many years before i bought her. i was damn hurt man!!! its only the last few years that my career had gone on track and allowed me to buy things which i normally would not buy. What did she get me for my birthday or annivesary. Nothing! Zero! Kosong!!

Like u, i now spend on my kids and live for my kids. wish i had a GF though.

[vistaman]

Originally Posted by allyyong

Maybe for those out there, you can try talking to the women more often...tell them straight into their goddman faces that you are trying to spice up the relationship..if not move to a better gal..

Frankly, if I am a man, I would go round fucking gals than settling down....even then I probably would settle for a foreign wife..cos Sillypore ladies..are most of the times rather demanding...I for one can vouch for that.

i tried that. i told her i loved her. told her i wanted to spice things up like the courtship days. bought her things she likes which she cannot afford on her own. tolerated her behaviour like gambling at the country club's jackpot machine and late nights working and secret clubbing outings with girlfriends. tolerated her rude behaviour to my parents too. sigh! anyway, i have given up already. my kids comes firsts. Maybe i should take your advice and look for a nice foreign wife from malaysia or PRC. hee! hee! no ang moh for me.

[allyyong]

Originally Posted by vistaman

i tried that. i told her i loved her. told her i wanted to spice things up like the courtship days. bought her things she likes which she cannot afford on her own. tolerated her behaviour like gambling at the country club's jackpot machine and late nights working and secret clubbing outings with girlfriends. tolerated her rude behaviour to my parents too. sigh! anyway, i have given up already. my kids comes firsts. Maybe i should take your advice and look for a nice foreign wife from malaysia or PRC. hee! hee! no ang moh for me.

Well, wat can I say??? Sexually honry wife, fucking boring hubby. Horny hubbies, but have no sex drive wives....regarding your wife...all I can say is you choose her, nothing much can be done about it. You have got kids, tat is the tricky part. Stick by her, maybe she will change for the better.

As for sex, well...to be honest, if I were a man, I bloody hell go Geylang and have sex with the pros, wipe my mouth and then head home back to the kids.

Sometimes, I really find marriage life fucking boring....sigh!! Sex once a week....sigh!!!

[asdfghjkl]

hehe.. very long time liao lor ~ she a GP ler.. no choice..

[BustLover]

Originally Posted by vistaman

i faced the same situation too. i bought my wife an Omega (birthday)and a LV bag (anniversary). She commented that it took so many years before i bought her. i was damn hurt man!!! its only the last few years that my career had gone on track and allowed me to buy things which i normally would not buy. What did she get me for my birthday or annivesary. Nothing! Zero! Kosong!!

Fortunatly, mine was appreciative and advised me not to buy next time. She wants me to save for my children education. Quite thoughtful of her...

[jemz]

don't stereotype man...

personally, i got not much complains about my hubby except the sex part. not getting enough. in terms of spending, he splurges more than me. so end up i got to deal with the financial matters.

after marriage, things remain quite the same so far but he's abit less attentive now. both of us dont believe so much in gifts. unless it's something we really really like den we just let each other know what we want and work it out la. no surprises. i'm the one who normally pops up with surprises for him. i guess i like to pamper my man.

otherwise, i simply try my best to fulfill his needs(and mine), be his wife/gf, and hopefully that this will work out for the best. it's teamwork ba.

[jemz]

Originally Posted by allyyong

Well, wat can I say??? Sexually honry wife, fucking boring hubby. Horny hubbies, but have no sex drive wives....

Sometimes, I really find marriage life fucking boring....sigh!! Sex once a week....sigh!!!

i think it time for you to dress up and go party girl.

[asdfghjkl]

wife also cannot tahan must have forum release ler..

[powDerful]

For me, it is coming to almost 9 days. We are currenly staying togther. Initially when used to it it like 3 times per week, but now getting lesser and lesser. We are also worried about getting pregnant, so normally we do it after her period.

But cannot tahan liao, so long never release already

[big dick]

Originally Posted by ToxicQueen

wow... said like always gals's fault leh... both parties also need to bear some responsiblity lah. no all gals r like tat, sometimes is bcos guys cannot......

r u sure the guy cannot???? it is the gal that cannot arouse the guy desires..

[Rainman]

Originally Posted by big dick

r u sure the guy cannot???? it is the gal that cannot arouse the guy desires..

Well, true.... Some guys just lost interest too in their wife. Since she is not interested and we do not like to beg..... It's become the norm after a while that we each do what we like to do.... U watch your TV in your room and mine in the halll....

Sigh.....

Marriage life....

Cheers

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

wife also cannot tahan must have forum release ler..

we are human muh.... we hv our own needs. think this place is good for girls n boys to hear each other's opinions.. here we learn and improve...

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by powDerful

For me, it is coming to almost 9 days. We are currenly staying togther. Initially when used to it it like 3 times per week, but now getting lesser and lesser. We are also worried about getting pregnant, so normally we do it after her period.

But cannot tahan liao, so long never release already

the girl will not get pregnant if u dun shoot inside...me n bf has been having active bareback sex. and till now i m still fine. i guess if u can control and u know when it's cmg, it can be quite reliable...

i can understand that u can't tahan... stimes can be quite torturing when u ai, she mai....

[BustLover]

Originally Posted by mscucky

...i can understand that u can't tahan... stimes can be quite torturing when u ai, she mai....

Thank GOD that I started to PCC at the age of 12 years old. Those days, at as a teenager, I like to PCC when taking a shower. I will let the tap water splashing on my exposed cock to give a sensational feeling until I come. Of course the water bill was a big dent on my dad's pocket.

Slowly, I explored my little brother and know where the sensitive part to achieve my own high.

It is this PCC thing that I can always "LUN" whenever my OC denied me her sexual exchange.

So much for my sharing. Hope you enjoyed and UP me if you want to exhange points.

[doggifier]

Whoa so much had been said since I last visited here, Gift doesn't needs to be Expensive it is the tot that count...until U find Ur "tot" not being appreciated that really hurts. I used to buy gifts for my wify here and there, she really loves surprises until I discover she always throw the gifts around...heart ache man