Is there true love between us and PRC WL - Page 20

Maccord · #**286** 29-03-2008, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

the worst is still to come, i sms her old number and her bro replied asking who ami i, i called and a guy pick up and from him i know that she is in beijing right now and she was not married according to her bro....

i went to brought a top up card and called her beijing no, it got thru and she pick up. told her who i am, and ask her how she was doing after the word she is doing fine, she hang up the phone....

wat did i do wrong????

bro, i can feel how you feel and seriously, we can console, discuss till cow come home and ultimately, its still you youself that can overcome this.
come' on, theres still alot of flowers in the forest, you will meet a better 1.

bomarr · #**287** 29-03-2008, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

the worst is still to come, i sms her old number and her bro replied asking who ami i, i called and a guy pick up and from him i know that she is in beijing right now and she was not married according to her bro....

Sorry to sound a bit harsh. Don't tell me you still hope to get something out of this relationship? Bro shawn wake up from your stupid idea lah. Even though she's not married. But did she tell her yourself? NO! Which mean she rather do her own stuff den just a simple sms to tell you how she getting along.

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

i went to brought a top up card and called her beijing no, it got thru and she pick up. told her who i am, and ask her how she was doing after the word she is doing fine, she hang up the phone....

I'm starting to admire your EX girl! At least she know where she stand. Till now you still don't understand her intention for doing it? She drawing a line which you will never be able to cross her path anymore. For goodness sake what the hell in you for buying a top up card & called her? I know as you do not have a single clue of her. It a painful road to keep thinking of what she doing now, who she meet & what really happen to your relationship with her. But what you are thinking in your mind doesn't mean she doing the same too.

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

wat did i do wrong????

Bro Shawn u didn't do any wrong. In relationship there is no right or wrong. Except u invest in a wrong relationship & the only right thing to do right now is "letting her go" den you will find back yourself!

aczeta76 · #**288** 29-03-2008, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

the worst is still to come, i sms her old number and her bro replied asking who ami i, i called and a guy pick up and from him i know that she is in beijing right now and she was not married according to her bro....

i went to brought a top up card and called her beijing no, it got thru and she pick up. told her who i am, and ask her how she was doing after the word she is doing fine, she hang up the phone....

wat did i do wrong????

U did nothing wrong.. she has her reasons to move on in her life and apparently, u are not part of it so respect her decision.

Afterall, u know she is fine. Isn't that enuff that she is able to live normally without you?

SexKing972 · #**289** 29-03-2008, 09:29 AM

Yes , if you money power can fullfil their dream forever

Heart Break Kid · #**290** 29-03-2008, 12:01 PM

bro shawn.. as I told you before, you should concentrate building up your wealth & career first. Then girls will automatically come to you.

In general girls will still choose financial security over the man she truly like..of course a decade ago some S'pore & Msia girls do choose to marry a poor man because love. Unlikely to seen this on PRC girls coming to S'pore

On today society.. regardless of nationality, girls choose men who can provide her financial security in long term.

Trust mi .. forget her

benben888 · #**291** 29-03-2008, 12:16 PM

There is a saying, no money=no honey, no honey=no horny.

Uncle Dilbert · #**292** 29-03-2008, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by benben888

There is a saying, no money=no honey, no honey=no horny.

Agreed, i beileve there will be true love with them.

aczeta76 · #**293** 31-03-2008, 11:25 AM

I have said it before. Like the sages use to say in the past

Pin Jian Fu Qi Bai Ri Ai (loosely translated: Poor couples will always live in misery)

Whoever it is you are talking about and regardless if they stay by U, the fact is without money.. they can be very little happiness.

I qualify this by saying that there can be happiness but whenever the bills comes, there are bound to be friction and sadness esp when u cannot afford to pay them

So moral is " Dun be lazy, want honey.. work like donkey"

colins · #**294** 31-03-2008, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

So moral is " Dun be lazy, want honey.. work like donkey"

hahaha...

I think I deserve some honey now since I've been working non-stop from last night 9pm till now...

aczeta76 · #**295** 31-03-2008, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by colins

hahaha...

I think I deserve some honey now since I've been working non-stop from last night 9pm till now...

haha.. No bro.. U need Sleep...

"sweet dreams, not wet dreams"

colins · #**296** 31-03-2008, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

haha.. No bro.. U need Sleep...

"sweet dreams, not wet dreams"

hahaha...thanks man, humour keeps me awake!

Hope bro shawn reply soon, dunnoe what has become of him.

Heart Break Kid · #**297** 31-03-2008, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

I have said it before. Like the sages use to say in the past

Pin Jian Fu Qi Bai Ri Ai (loosely translated: Poor couples will always live in misery)

Whoever it is you are talking about and regardless if they stay by U, the fact is without money.. they can be very little happiness.

I qualify this by saying that there can be happiness but whenever the bills comes, there are bound to be friction and sadness esp when u cannot afford to pay them

So moral is " Dun be lazy, want honey.. work like donkey"

In present society.. money is very important not just short run but long term too

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Originally Posted by colins

hahaha...

I think I deserve some honey now since I've been working non-stop from last night 9pm till now...

hahaha.. take one day MC lah & spend a day in Hotel 81 having her honey

clan004 · #**298** 31-03-2008, 03:16 PM

Bro colins, last nite till now still working .... wah lau eh, if I am employer I sure hire you ...

Its time you go for a tiger ...

colins · #**299** 31-03-2008, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by clan004

Bro colins, last nite till now still working .... wah lau eh, if I am employer I sure hire you ...

Its time you go for a tiger ...

If I can finish tonight, I'll go for a tigeress. If I have an employer, I would have have fired him. haha...

Have been working like till 5-6am every morning for last 2 weeks, I just broke up with my shenyang gf. I think among my ex, I like her most, but I cannot stand long distance. Thru bloody 4 years in China I dun believe in trust anymore. Sometimes I feel that it is more painful to initial a breakup than to receive it. But you just couldn't ask yourself why you do that, at every corner of your life. Its for the better, has to be.

Thanks all the bros, aczeta, HBK, clan. You guys'll never have any idea how your posts are helping me right now. And really hope shawn is alright.

longwinter · #**300** 31-03-2008, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by colins

If I can finish tonight, I'll go for a tigeress. If I have an employer, I would have have fired him. haha...

Have been working like till 5-6am every morning for last 2 weeks, I just broke up with my shenyang gf. I think among my ex, I like her most, but I cannot stand long distance. Thru bloody 4 years in China I dun believe in trust anymore. Sometimes I feel that it is more painful to initial a breakup than to receive it. But you just couldn't ask yourself why you do that, at every corner of your life. Its for the better, has to be.

Thanks all the bros, aczeta, HBK, clan. You guys'll never have any idea how your posts are helping me right now. And really hope shawn is alright.

l agree wif u on this part. Initiatin a breakup is really much more painful than receiving it. l too face the same situation before. l initiated the breakup to my gf, not becos l dun like her. l love her, but it pains me seeing tat she is unhappy in the r/s and l could see no future in draggin it on. l cried for almost 2 weeks in my room, jus dun feel like doing anything and wan to keep sleeping to forget the pain in my heart.

tinking back still send me shiver sia, tat kind of feeling when the heart is shattered. It is the worst type of pain l ever encountered, much worst than physical pain inflicted on me.