ShangHai Recommendation!

[shengge]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only.

I hope I can enlarge my circle of friends in SHA if I want to continue to stay in SHA. I am currently temporary housed in one of her gf empty appt. If I can overcome my fears of living alone in SHA (fear in terms of boredom and loniness), I may have to look for a nice appt to rent and stay.

Hi there,
Well, HSL and MTL!
Looking at your post, I am sure many bros admire you very much, especially to me in Shanghai and be the way you are.

You see, many bros have posted lots of infor, in both Shanghai recommendation and Shanghai in conversation. There are plenty of thing to look for.

Like TQY, TRY, NHH, TSRJ, JBHH sort of leisure places and nice makan places, it would have help you very much. On the other hand, with the empty room you had, forget abt the housefly, you can have double fly and .........
As many have said, Shanghai is a IN place, so ....
Hoh Sei Liao and Mai Tu Liao.

[shengge]

Originally Posted by nongho

If you are really facing problem with your gf. Talk to her. Communication is an important aspect in a relationship. What do u guys want to achieve out of this relationship??...Try to solve the problem and not shy away from it.

U r staying alone and not paying rent...what more you want to ask??....This is Shanghai...there are many girls out there for you to choose from...

ok ok i better stop...if i keep going on bro shengge will ask me how come I not doing work...hahahahaha..

Bro nongho,
Well said, teach me leh. You look like veteran to me, must been here very long.
You are right, I am paying very high $ for the place I am staying, anyway don't need your recommendation on that.......but what you mean by many girls to choose from............got recommendation?
Last one was badly said and wronged, you don work for me.
Hahaha!

[nongho]

Originally Posted by shengge

Bro nongho,
Well said, teach me leh. You look like veteran to me, must been here very long.
You are right, I am paying very high $ for the place I am staying, anyway don't need your recommendation on that.......but what you mean by many girls to choose from............got recommendation?
Last one was badly said and wronged, you don work for me.
Hahaha!

Bro shengge,

paiseh paiseh lah.....ya i dun work for you....just joking lah....dun angry lah..

Me no veteran in shanghai lah....been here less than 1 year in total....

As for a relationship, I guess everywhere is the same. All relationships will have problems....its just how you are able to solve it....it takes 2 hands to clap.....

Shanghai is so big and the ratio of girls to guy is like 3:2......girls to choose from depends on where you are looking for them lor....Net friends? Friend's friend? Girls at pubs or discos? Salesgirl at shopping centre?? May even bump into one on the street??....

But me no energy to go and sian....go HC or barbershop settle can liao...hahaha

when can have kopi with you bro?

cheers
nongho

[cateyes1001]

Hi nongho,
Ya, I am kind of lost in SHA. Extremely newbie in the living environment in SHA. I guess you are right that I have to adapt to the living environment.

It is really an eye opener when I live in SHA. It is so difference when I just visit SHA as a tourist.

I have tried talking to my gf about the problems and I told her becoz of cultural differences, communication is important. However, many a time, she just refuses to open up and talk until matter blows out of proportion. Wat I am looking for in a relationship is a companionship cum wife in a long term. Up to now, I am still undecided whether to root myself in SHA or not and I know no one can help me in this area.

I am paying rent. Paying rent for my gf "HDB" appt and also paying rent to her gf so that she would keep that empty private appt for me and not rent it out to others. You are right, staying alone allows alot of flexibility in bringing different girls home every nite but that is not what I am actually looking for. This is becoz the more gf you have, the more headache it would be.

When I back in SHA next week, can I network with your group? At least this is where I can start to build a close circle of firends in SHA.

Cateyes1001

[cateyes1001]

Hi Shengge,

Nice nickname and seems like a "dai-lo" type of nick ... hehehe.

No need to admire or envy lah. Each job has a price to pay and it is always you see me good and I see you good.

I know there are many cheoging places in SHA (although I do not know the loactions) but cheoging alone is no fun leh.

I never had "double flies" in any room before ....

I hope I can meet up with your group next week when I am in SHA. Care to PM me your china mobile?

Cateyes1001

[shengge]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

Nice nickname and seems like a "dai-lo" type of nick ... hehehe.
I know there are many cheoging places in SHA (although I do not know the loactions) but cheoging alone is no fun leh.
I never had "double flies" in any room before ....
I hope I can meet up with your group next week when I am in SHA. Care to PM me your china mobile?

Hi,
Thanks for the compliment. Unfortunately, I am not "dai-lo", there are many big bros around, I am just a "small fly" in town, cannot and never be one.
I hardly meet up with any bros in town, nor there is a group that hang out together that I know of. Sorry!

If you cannot change the environment to suit you, I think only thing you can is to change yourself.

Afterall, nobody can help to solve your family problem, cos I don even know how to resolve mine.

you know that..家家有本难念的经。

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shengge

Hi,
Thanks for the compliment. Unfortunately, I am not "dai-lo", there are many big bros around, I am just a "small fly" in town, cannot and never be one.
I hardly meet up with any bros in town, nor there is a group that hang out together that I know of. Sorry!

Hi Dai-Lo Sheng,

How come you are so humble? You are the recognised Lao Da in Shanghai, you have helped me many times when I got lost in the streets of Shanghai. Hahaha....

Please kindly help newbies like us lah... we are submitting ourselves to your guiding light. Hahaha...

See you soon.

Ugly, Fat and Old PuTonRen

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Hi Dai-Lo Sheng,
you have helped me many times when I got lost in the streets of Shanghai.
See you soon.

Bro PTR,
You are right, I am dai-lo but in Chinese, （带路）, haha, another word would be （跑腿）.
When I can see your SC MM leh?

hey guys, what a great read this thread is. only half way thru it but should be done by xmas

got a question...I came across a few pairs of working ladies in different establishments in shanghai who claimed they were sisters, yet look nothing like each other.

does "sister" also mean a "good friend" in china, like "bro" does in many other places?

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shengge

Bro PTR,
You are right, I am dai-lo but in Chinese, （带路）, haha, another word would be （跑腿）.
When I can see your SC MM leh?

Haha, Bro Shengge,

You Dai-lo? You are the de-facto chief and know-all of Shanghai.

You want to see my SC Meimei? Soon! be patient, your curiousity will be quenched.

Regards

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

You Dai-lo? You are the de-facto chief and know-all of Shanghai.

Dear Bro PTR,
Don't suan me leh!
You know that, there is an ambassador here in Shanghai and all bros known very well. As for myself, being here long enough but don know the place better than you do lah.

Rgds,
SG

[nongho]

Originally Posted by audiaz

does "sister" also mean a "good friend" in china, like "bro" does in many other places?

Hi there,

"Sister" can also means their cousins or good friends. As China has only a 1 child policy. But I think currently Shanghai now is promoting 2 kids in a family and it only applies to Shanghai and not any other provinces.

cheers
nongho

[van aken]

Originally Posted by ZhongGuoRen69

and now for my contributions...

TRY HC

#31 Dan Dan
face: 6.5 cute cute type
body: 7 nice soft "zhong zhi"
BBBJ: 7
FJ: 7
attitude: 8 keep on saying she want some more and ask for round 2. i worry need pay extra for 2nd time and so didnt try.

in summary, TRY is a very safe place, so bros no worry, just go and enjoy, they wont even ask for extra tip 580net (oh and no need to sign anything too..haha)


sin huai hai HC

#99 dunno whats her name but from yangzhou
face: 8 very pretty
body: 7.5 tall slim and nice but fake "zhong zhi"
bbbj: 6.5
FJ: 6 standard
attitude: 6.5
place quite run down, and under renovation, almost couldnt find it. job was SOP but girls are quite generally quite chio. total paid 568 including 20 tip for girl.

All bros have a great "duan wu jie", and remember to eat more delicious zhong zhi..

cheers!

Dear SH Gurus,

Have been in SH a few times on business, been to a few KTV with collegues then. But this time will be alone there for a training , care to give the address/directions/ tel num for the few better HCs / or Room service ?

Thanks in advance.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by van aken

Dear SH Gurus,

Have been in SH a few times on business, been to a few KTV with collegues then. But this time will be alone there for a training , care to give the address/directions/ tel num for the few better HCs / or Room service ?

Thanks in advance.

Tong Ren Yuan HC
Location: On No. 78, Dong Zhu An Bang Road, junction of Jiang Su Road. Diagonally opposite Metropole Service Apts to the right when back facing Metropole) By the main road of Dong Zhu An Bang road.
Rates: RMB 580.00 nett (all BBBJ, FJ included)
Biz hours : 0900hrs - 0200hrs

New Huai Hai HC (2nd Level)
Location: On Fuxing Zhong, junction of Shun Cang road.
Rates: RMB 550.00 nett (all BBBJ, FJ included)
Biz hours : same as above

Enjoy bro!
Regards.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Enjoy bro!
Regards.

Dear Bro,

It is always a pleasure to see you appearing in this thread sharing information with others, despite of the fact that many information can in fact be gathered if they care to browse through the thread.

I sincerely hope that you are okay now with your new endeavour. I was unable to meet you last trip due to works. I might be in Shanghai soon, and would definitely call you up for a short chat.

Take care and keep up the Shanghai Brother Spirit, like always.

Regarsd

PTR