Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i suppose Dr Chee wife is someone willing to tolerate all his "nonsense"?

Very highly possible that it is true love.

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by jintulan

I hope you are not trying to figure how the female brain works. Please,... don't!

tats one of the greatest wonders of the world...and greatest mystery of the century....

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

bro wassup... u seems to becoming our regular agony uncle... hehehe...R-E-S-P-E-C-T .....


this thread is still going strong...........cos many people are still searching for it "true love" ..........

tough......tough.......

haha..sometimes helpin others can be the best way to help urself..mayb in real life, i juz a loser...being able to help pple in the virtual world wld at least make my life tat little more worthwhile

i always feel tat in the virtual world..u can be anyone who u wan to be..and i juz wan to help pple feel alittle beta..let them b happy for being happy is not always wat i am in real life

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jintulan

I hope you are not trying to figure how the female brain works. Please,... don't!

haha..if i can figure out wat a woman think and write a book abt it..it will be the best seller ever!

but seriously to understand a woman..its not tat hard i feel..only thing is tat u hv to devoid urself of any feelings..tats when u can b objective..its always woman tat u love tat u can neva understand...feelings cloud 1 mind

to be with a woman..u juz need to love her alot and understand her a little..to be with a man..u need to understand him alot and love him alittle

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by luvpaper

i agree but the sad thing is in order to bring more happiness u need less feelings for too intense a feeling will only bring about hurt for love is a double edged sword.

之古多情终于恒，此恒绵绵无绝肖

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

i can understand how u feel... it's like how can 2 person who have gotten along so well suddenly become strangers jus like that? if there was a fight,or some obvious mistakes u make, at least her reaction is understandable right?

.

sometimes there is really a fight but when both parties look back..both realise that its juz over some petty thing but coz of pride and other reasons..end up the frdship is gone forever

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

haha..sometimes helpin others can be the best way to help urself..mayb in real life, i juz a loser...being able to help pple in the virtual world wld at least make my life tat little more worthwhile

i always feel tat in the virtual world..u can be anyone who u wan to be..and i juz wan to help pple feel alittle beta..let them b happy for being happy is not always wat i am in real life

but in the real world you too can help others, not necessary u acn only do it only in the virtual world bro.....

but i do understand where u are standing at to make this statement

[spidey69]

[QUOTE=Dedgen;1839884]Hi..
I'm a new guy here.. Just stumble across this forum here.. and decide to post something here which i'm going thru lately. By the way.. Before i carry on.. I've never fallen in love before and never had a GF till today.. But i had seen relationship come and go.. So more or less i picked up some lessons from friends as well.. As for age wise.. I'm into my 1st quarter if the century..

Hey bro dedgen :

true love exists of cos. just go to any hospital and see the patients lying on the bed, with their love ones ( be it husband & wife, mum & son, bf & gf etc ) taking care of them. If that is not true love then what is

BTW u r only 25 years old. how old r u expecting to live? say 75.. that means now u r not even at halftime!! It aint't over til the fat lady sings.. show some fighting spirit, if not how to win the match??

Bro, too early to give up..

[slyer]

i understand some of the bros feelings who went thru all these. the girls i like i dun dare to woo cos scare of rejection as they are pretty n got many suitors... haiz....see those guys woooin those pretty babes make lack of confidence to compete with them... quite sad world is so realistic. i tink most girls go for money or looks. though i heard girls go for character n personality but i tink it aplies to minority. somemroe v day is coming... haiz.... everytime see couples my heart feels empty like why some guys no money no looks but can be so lucky with girls like those guys i saw in my school they are nt rich or handsome but somehow they are always surrounded by girls... world so unfair...

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by slyer

i understand some of the bros feelings who went thru all these. the girls i like i dun dare to woo cos scare of rejection as they are pretty n got many suitors... haiz....see those guys woooin those pretty babes make lack of confidence to compete with them... quite sad world is so realistic. i tink most girls go for money or looks. though i heard girls go for character n personality but i tink it aplies to minority. somemroe v day is coming... haiz.... everytime see couples my heart feels empty like why some guys no money no looks but can be so lucky with girls like those guys i saw in my school they are nt rich or handsome but somehow they are always surrounded by girls... world so unfair...

You're not doing too bad yourself with Geraldine, Nicole, etc. what?

[slyer]

Originally Posted by surfer888

You're not doing too bad yourself with Geraldine, Nicole, etc. what?

tat story is durin sec sch days ma.... now old liao very hard to prey on girls leh ... nowadays competition is so stiff sia... the girls i like i can't get

[dominion]

wa my sech sch days so far cry from this. no wonder have to cheong now to make up for it.

look on the bright side you were lucky to have such a memorable experience from a young age that you'll remember till you're old. maybe you can even relate it to your future grandchildren.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by slyer

my heart feels empty like why some guys no money no looks but can be so lucky with girls like those guys i saw in my school they are nt rich or handsome but somehow they are always surrounded by girls... world so unfair...

do u really think tat the world is unfair? i can admit tat while at work..i wld seem to be popular with gers..always hving lunch with diff gers..BUT none of these gers are those tat i like..to me..i dun wan to hv lunch with so many gers..i juz wan to lunch with tat special someone everyday

to others..they wld feel tat i am lucky..but to me i feel tat fate is playin tricks on me..i can be close to any gers but yet i can neva find a ger to settle down with..imagine tat u hv the world finest delicacies ard u but u are a vegeterian so cant eat any of the food beside u!

[slyer]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

do u really think tat the world is unfair? i can admit tat while at work..i wld seem to be popular with gers..always hving lunch with diff gers..BUT none of these gers are those tat i like..to me..i dun wan to hv lunch with so many gers..i juz wan to lunch with tat special someone everyday

to others..they wld feel tat i am lucky..but to me i feel tat fate is playin tricks on me..i can be close to any gers but yet i can neva find a ger to settle down with..imagine tat u hv the world finest delicacies ard u but u are a vegeterian so cant eat any of the food beside u!

bro i envy u leh can haf lunch with diff girls everyday. my sec sch days are fun but then now i want to find a proper gf like quite hard imo due to my lack of confidence haiz... dunno y after ord my confidence in wooing girls drop...usually guys popular with girls have high chance of finding gf from one of them ma compare to guys who are nt popular with girls. actually to me now i dun dare to dream so far. jus wan to widen my social circle n know more female frens ba...also the female frens of mine only treat me like buddy buddy kind le though they gt things they will confide in me etc... haiz... n the girl i like she dunno i like her and she treat me as her good jie mei

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

do u really think tat the world is unfair? i can admit tat while at work..i wld seem to be popular with gers..always hving lunch with diff gers..BUT none of these gers are those tat i like..to me..i dun wan to hv lunch with so many gers..i juz wan to lunch with tat special someone everyday

to others..they wld feel tat i am lucky..but to me i feel tat fate is playin tricks on me..i can be close to any gers but yet i can neva find a ger to settle down with..imagine tat u hv the world finest delicacies ard u but u are a vegeterian so cant eat any of the food beside u!

The world is indeed unfair. I seem to have everything I want except to be together with the love of my life. I have been married with someone else for >7yrs and have been pining for the love of my life for >10 yrs.

Again... maybe the world is fair but we just have this knack of turning the tables against ourselves.