The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

i bought one Sovil et Titus for my 1st love too. its very "in" at that time.
but only got 1 pc. coz 1 pcs is already 100 plus & its considered expensive to me at that time. its during my bday. i think i got nothing, but stupid enough not to feel anything abt it.

Think back, those were the "blind" days..

ya man tell me abt it, i saved up to get a pair even....those marketing techniques to trick us youngester back then to get a gift...a meaingful gift AT THAT PT IN TIME i should add...hahaha

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

That's what i think now also... since no one ever cares for me, i've nothing much to lose anyway. As the old sayig goes, it's better to have tried and failed, than regret for not having make the attempt.

Actually from what u described, things does not seem so hopeless. u mentioned tat both of u finally quarrelled for the first time. A gal would only display her emotion (e.g. quarrel, affected by what u say/do) when she has some feelings for the guy--- i'm not saying it's definitely love, but at least it shows u mean somethk to her. Particularly if she's the usually easy-going & sweet sweet type of gal. Such gals are normally friendly but quite nonchalent to most of their normal friends.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

wat if , wat if i would have done things differently...............

That will always be the million dollar question...

JWNY

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Same here bro.. my 1st love invited me to her wedding next mth & i decline politely. My thoughts is, i do not want to show up as the loser, feeling stupid
to turn up as a ex-bf. wtf..

i wont say its being stupid,i dont knw abt u but for my case it's just too much to bear,the feeling when u know u shld be the guy marrying her and not the one sitting frm far wishing her well instead.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Same here bro.. my 1st love invited me to her wedding next mth & i decline politely. My thoughts is, i do not want to show up as the loser, feeling stupid
to turn up as a ex-bf. wtf..

i wont say its being stupid,i dont knw abt u but for my case it's just too much to bear,the feeling when u know u shld be the guy marrying her and not the one sitting frm far wishing her well instead.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

i guess its the most ironical situation for all guys..to b invited to ex gf wedding..if she dun invite u..u feel upset..if she invite u..u dunno whether to go anot..we juz cant win either way

haha in this scenrio its a lose-lose situation i guess so we got to live with it and there is no way escaping this fact isn't it?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

to others..it wld seem dumb..buy a $300 watch juz to stop the watch..

why cares what other ppl think?i am sure this is what's on ur mind when u do it.i will do the same if i were u i presume.