Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

...Good things is that all human beings will adapt...

Sure bro...but try to do that a little faster.

[XiaoChang]

Bro, I think for his case, better let him take his time .... else he might regret it in future of any hasty decisions made ... this seems like a question of his future happiness, ie tens of years to come

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

Sure bro...but try to do that a little faster.

Trying.. juz got back from meeting her for a session. She shld be going hm by next Monday or Tuesday.. then we can talk about future when she is more like herself at home. Now, we are probationary BF-GF.

CD broke during session and I din realise till a while later when she told me.. (She tot I knew and was deliberately doing it RAW with her).. When she realised I was not pretending, she smiled and became warmer again as she now knew that I am not the sort to play games juz to get RAW,

Anyway. Like Pete advise, I have calmed down and had told her that we will wait till then to see if there is a future for us 'coz in SG, she also dunno how true whatever she says it.

All I can do is to tell her that I will always be a pillar of strength for her when she needs it, quietly waiting by her side to catch her if she does fall.

Like rest of bros says, it takes 2 hands to clap. Now it is up to fate. I will neither resist nor question it.

I am satisfied that she told me that she appreciates whatever I have done for her and feels happy when I pamper her whims and whams. So long I see her happy, I oso contented liao

True Love does exisit but it may take time to develop.

[colins]

Glad you finally had your dose of morphine.

Monday or Tuesday is fast, brace for it man.

Take care

[aczeta76]

Ya.. I think I will cry when i send her off at airport.

[Lao Ban]

No problem bro ... you can see how it goes from there ... I think it is better that way .

[Mean Boy]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. I think I will cry when i send her off at airport.

Wish you all the best

I've personally encountered on separate occassions SG, M'sia, Indon,PRC gf before and I know how you feel.. these gals were long gone and each time the bad news of breaking up comes, my heart will rain with tears and felt cheated, the most hurting is the last gf which is a PRC... ( reason for breaking up is $$$ ).
I got drunk almost every other night and feel depressed, almost felt like drowning myself.. until this Thai puying comes into my life..
Now I am in a new chapter of my life with my new found tirak

So brother aczeta76.
If she is only after the $$$, time will tell.
If its truth love, go for it and love her with all your heart

Cheers Bro, Good Luck.

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. I think I will cry when i send her off at airport.

The morning I sent my ex off, I came back home and sat on my bed. Around me, everything reminded me of her. Her used cleanser, books, towel, clothes, hair on my bed...it was suffocating and I need to leave.

I waited for her to reach her home, pack my bag and take a bus to KL. After I reached my apartment, settled down to a new routine and get to work. Even went and buy a new pet hamster. I think it is still there in the bathtub now.

That week was tough cos we used to stay together. It's hard if you stay alone, after she leaves its even worse. Friends help a lot though. Try not to drink too much, my experience is it doesnt really help. Only time will help.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

The morning I sent my ex off, I came back home and sat on my bed. Around me, everything reminded me of her. Her used cleanser, books, towel, clothes, hair on my bed...it was suffocating and I need to leave.

I waited for her to reach her home, pack my bag and take a bus to KL. After I reached my apartment, settled down to a new routine and get to work. Even went and buy a new pet hamster. I think it is still there in the bathtub now.

That week was tough cos we used to stay together. It's hard if you stay alone, after she leaves its even worse. Friends help a lot though. Try not to drink too much, my experience is it doesnt really help. Only time will help.

Thanks Colins, meanboy

Me not a boozer so quite okie.. may drink a little more wine but shld remain sober minded.

If she is after $$, it makes it easier for me to let go since she does not deserve my love.

Hopefully it is not, You Yuan Wu Fen type where we need to break up for reasons other than love... then I will crumple as I feel I have let her down

[tigerprawn]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Thanks Colins, meanboy

Me not a boozer so quite okie.. may drink a little more wine but shld remain sober minded.

If she is after $$, it makes it easier for me to let go since she does not deserve my love.

Hopefully it is not, You Yuan Wu Fen type where we need to break up for reasons other than love... then I will crumple as I feel I have let her down

TAKE HEART!! Life really works in mysterious ways and you never know what is on the next page until you turn it. Yes, there are stereotypes and norms for everything (eg. china girls only after money) BUT fact that there are stereotypes and norms means that there are always exceptions to the general rule. Just a question of how rare and how lucky one is to chance upon the exception.

Bro, there is no worse pain in life than separation and parting with someone you love. Whether she really loves you or not etc is irrelevant in this instance, what matters most now is at this moment how your heart feels for her. Your pain will correspond with how deep your feelings are and is a measure of how much kam cheng you have already put in.

Good luck Bro!!! Dont ever dispair or give up. Have faith and follow your heart. There is nothing wrong with pursuing what your heart yearns. Mistakes doesnt mean that the pursuit is wrong. That is just part and parcel of life. This moment, bro, although there is much pain, may be the moment that you will feel most alive in your entire life.

Take care! Sincerely.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by tigerprawn

Good luck Bro!!! Dont ever dispair or give up. Have faith and follow your heart. There is nothing wrong with pursuing what your heart yearns. Mistakes doesnt mean that the pursuit is wrong. That is just part and parcel of life. This moment, bro, although there is much pain, may be the moment that you will feel most alive in your entire life.

Take care! Sincerely.

Yes.. my heart is beating with anticipation, fear, love and many more feelings rolled into one.

All the best to all of us

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. I think I will cry when i send her off at airport.

mi ever had that feeling too

[gniwgonwk]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Yes.. my heart is beating with anticipation, fear, love and many more feelings rolled into one.

All the best to all of us

Sometimes I wonder whether we lovers are really losers ... but in affairs of the heart we really cannot cannot control.

So I always still believe that one should at least have tried to work things out and maybe fail - rather than never have tried at all and wonder what might have been.

ALL THE BEST TO YOU and your GF Bro!

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by gniwgonwk

Sometimes I wonder whether we lovers are really losers ... but in affairs of the heart we really cannot cannot control.

So I always still believe that one should at least have tried to work things out and maybe fail - rather than never have tried at all and wonder what might have been.

ALL THE BEST TO YOU and your GF Bro!

I think we are fools gladly... few more days to go..

[dirtyhairy]

Ok, listen up bros all...
Uncle Laobaby aka DirtyHairy here has been enthralled
that despite all the cheongings, two-timings and galavantings
I am actually quite moved by so many bros and their postings,
thru them, we can see the humane side, the "real feelings"
so remember, it's not the end whatever the outcome after all
for it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all