Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[dystopia]

how i hope i have read this earlier ..

bro u really motivated me in this posting. kinda in a similar situation and now i think i shld work harder to get girls i wan , hope u are doing so too

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by covenn

i neva had such altruistic beliefs. u r a gd guy n u'll get the gd girl u deserve.

haa..i dun think i really tat altruist at all..a true altruist is happy as long as the ger is happy but then sometimes i am not happy also..i will feel pity for myself sometimes also

beside..gers always like the bad guy..so if u say i am a gd guy then i wun get any ger liao lor

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by ZzDeadzZ

i feel that .. when a gal likes some other guy .. no matter how much u do .. how good ur to the gal .. how nice u treat her .. she still wont get touched .. lol .. this is from my point of view ba .. xD .. wasted about a year +++ just to get this gal .. who's deeply in love wif this other guy ... well .. failed .. so .. just to share my point of view ba . Lesson Learnt ?? .. don't treat a gal too good .. cuz .. u will get nth back in return ..

love is neva abt gettin anythin in return but giving everythin u hv in return

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by dominion

actually I believe that most things to happen to us as adults are a consequence of our actions. so I dont blame anyone for anything bad that has happened to me, or anything good that has not happened to me. Perhaps there is an important trait that is lacking in us, or some skill that we have not mastered that lands us in this predicament. It does not mean that we're lousier or less catch-worthy but maybe we just have much more to learn.

wat will come will come..in the meanwhile we juz to prepare ourselves so tat when it finally come..we are gd enuf for it

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by surfer888

That's the trouble... by my own cursed experience, I find that women never stick to the man who loves them the most.

sometimes i feel tat we always think tat we r the one who love the woman most..but then how sure can we be tat there are no other man who love her more than us? love is somethin tat cannot be measured..sometimes the one who love her the most is the one who always stay by her side and neva say anything..tats y we dunno if such a person exist anot

beside..i sure woman will be wondering the same ques also..why dun man stay with the woman tat love him the most? i m certain of this bcoz twice 2 woman had loved me alot but in the end i left them

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by surfer888

If everyone loves the person who loves them (the most) the same amount back, it could actually be creepy. Like Disneyland, a fairy tale or even worse... Stepford Wives!

I won't even try to figure women out... I have enough trouble figuring myself out sometimes.

we are all actors in this stage of life with our own predefined scripts and actions...no need to figure out who we are for wat we are is actually predetermined liao

[no_faith]

no, not for me

[dominion]

Originally Posted by no_faith

no, not for me

wa just so concise one word answer ar

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

beside..i sure woman will be wondering the same ques also..why dun man stay with the woman tat love him the most? i m certain of this bcoz twice 2 woman had loved me alot but in the end i left them

sometimes i also wonder if the loneliness i'm experiencing now is a "punishment" for me, for giving up too easily a beautiful relationship i once had.
at that time, i tod i could easily meet another one who's jus as good.... only after losing her that i realized i had lost possibly the best gal i ever had...

i'm back from visting my grandparents in the morning.. seeing my cousins all attached, i feel so shit sitting alone there.
Thought of absenting myself from the dinner tonite, but decided after a long struggle that i should go for 3 reasons 1) see my grandparents cos they are old alredy 2) collect more money from my relatives hahaha 3)the feast of good food

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by =WK=

hmmm... because women think with their heart?

bro, I have no idea. Have given up trying to understand some things a long time ago.

恭喜发财 新年快乐！

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by dominion

its a link to a flash show about a lonely on valentine's day. anyone else cant see it too?

always click alredy but nothin appear ... keen to see it leh

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

i'm back from visting my grandparents in the morning.. seeing my cousins all attached, i feel so shit sitting alone there.
Thought of absenting myself from the dinner tonite, but decided after a long struggle that i should go for 3 reasons 1) see my grandparents cos they are old alredy 2) collect more money from my relatives hahaha 3)the feast of good food

Did your grandparents and relatives ask you whether you have a girlfriend? I was always asked this question over the years. It is in fact quite painfully when being asked. I used to give them proper answer that "I'm still finding". Now I just tell them cheekily that "I'm gay". Of course this is meant to be a joke.

[dominion]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

always click alredy but nothin appear ... keen to see it leh

hmm how about this
pconline.com.cn/pcedu/carton/showgood/10208/other/0817xiaobing.swf

add www. in front of it

which web browser you using bro?

[dominion]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Did your grandparents and relatives ask you whether you have a girlfriend? I was always asked this question over the years. It is in fact quite painfully when being asked.

When ppl ask I just say I'm S.A.D
Single
Available and
Desperate

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

I was always asked this question over the years. It is in fact quite painfully when being asked. I used to give them proper answer that "I'm still finding". Now I just tell them cheekily that "I'm gay". Of course this is meant to be a joke.

haha..same for me also..i tell my relatives tat i am a gay..or for those older pple..i wld tell them tat i wld not give up a forest for a tree..seem tat they happy with tis ans..mayb it make them feel beta tat i am still choosin ard instead of being left on the shelf