Bro wb strategy is very different frm mine. He purely use money to buy a relationship to bao a girl. But his method attract all kind of wrong girls.
I recently meet up one of my fans，slowly into another gf. i focus on personal grooming，self image and the dark traits of a badboy without any sign of money involved. We had a great time together over at gz. Expenses on mine，but i dont bao her. we have a normal relationship like normal couples do. That i score better than your badass gentleman theory.
If you insist on buying on a relationship，that not my style. You can beat me slightly more in pussies with instant cash but you cant beat me in owning women hearts once rs start to develop gradually. Sparks start to shine and fly over money.
bro, I really pity ur gal being sexposed by u here just to prove urself so hard. now I know to use a woman like a tool is part of normal relationship
A lot of factors will boost one's self-confidence. EG, good looking. Youth. Wealth. And even education. However, how you use that to your advantage only you wield that power. No one can do it for you.
Self-confidence places a part even in the workplace. You don't get promoted because of your technical skills. You get promoted because you may be able to project a good image that you will be able to perform a job. This is certainly true at board levels. If you are talking about managerial levels, yes you are using your technical expertise but further up the ladder, your social skills plays a huge part. And a good part is self-confidence.
Hi sir,
I do not know anything about your background and life experience, but seriously, what do you think is the one and dominant tipping factor can build up your guts and self confidence level??? Do you think is youth, good look, education or wealth?
As for your views on corporate world, I beg to differ from you. Most of the time, people get promoted because they get and deliver results. It is irrelevant whether you are self confident or not. But delivering results does make one feel good and confident about oneself.
The higher you climb, the game of promotion will be more complex than what you can imagine. Not as simple and straight forward, like social skill etc etc
Hi sir,
I do not know anything about your background and life experience, but seriously, what do you think is the one and dominant tipping factor can build up your guts and self confidence level??? Do you think is youth, good look, education or wealth?
As for your views on corporate world, I beg to differ from you. Most of the time, people get promoted because they get and deliver results. It is irrelevant whether you are self confident or not. But delivering results does make one feel good and confident about oneself.
The higher you climb, the game of promotion will be more complex than what you can imagine. Not as simple and straight forward, like social skill etc etc
In the corporate world that results are NOT everything. You can meet KPIs and get your bonus. That is what you are paid to do.
Companies pay you for results, not for efforts put in!
You are always expected to meet your position goals (which I always think is not an impossible task).
Now, getting ahead requires more than just hard work, it also depends on how you network, how you relate to both below you and those above you. How you look also does matter, whether you like it or not. And being confident and how you poise yourself all play a part. This is also called your image right? I mean do you walk into a corporate meeting in bermudas and slippers? If you do that and deliver results do you expected to be promoted? I think not.
So in a nutshell, it all boils down to attitude and how you play the game. And to me, that is what warbird is doing. He is advocating play the game with the rules already sketched out for you.
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If you want to screw another man's wife, take a look at the consequences!
Very, very well written! You have clearly analyzed the game very well and I really must offer you my kudos. I think I myself can learn a lot from your attitude and also insights. Kudos bro.
Thanks.
I have to play the longer game and with patience simply because I know myself, i.e. has limited means. It is also to leverage the inefficient market to our advantage, as the girl has many best friends who will share and tell her things her entire waking hours while we are busy with our work and then only have a few hours to interact with her.
The moment she asks you for gift you have to really evaluate. Buy a small one and if she treasures it then you know she likes you. If she asks for more expensive gifts that is a month of your salary then my advice is change target. And the excuse of someone sick, needs help back home are also signs.
Oh by the way, if whom you want is young and restless age, than you will have to consider dumping her after a while because your liking of the girl drops once she gets more and more dependent on you for even how to travel from one place to another (within SG).
I just answered a bro's questions on BY-ing girls.
Bro,
It varies, from 6K to 15K a month if the girl doesn't work at the night scene n doesn't see any other men. She must be at my beck and call. She is a full time mistress.
The damage doesn't include rental of master bedroom/studio, visa fees, school tuition, meals and gifts (optional).
The lower range is generally for girls whom I import directly from China. They hv much lower expectations and often dare not come unless they come in pairs. Of course, more experienced and professional ones may ask for more. But everything is subject to negotiation.
In the last 7 yrs, I hv caught sight of only one girl KP in SG who is worth more than 15K a month in SG. I met her early last yr when I went to lease a master bedroom for my Fujian lao po WX at City Square, who was due to return to SG in 2 days. KP was kept by a man at the time n was going to leave SG in 10 days. WX had to stay in a junior master for a wk first. So they did meet. This is what WX said abt KP: 年轻漂亮， 高挑，很白。他男朋友大约40 岁。Never met her man. She had natural looks w/ no make up n no facial surgery. If I ever see KP or someone equally attractive, anywhere in the world, I'll make an offer she can't refuse. BTW, rental for the master rm was 2,400 a month.
There is something else I like to add. KP looked fantastic in part because I saw her only briefly n in part because she was beyond my reach. She may not look so attractive if I see her again.
If a girl continues to work in the night scene, a part time mistress, you should offer only half the full time rates. This doesn't work for me as it's very difficult to monitor her activities. And don't ever buy such a part time mistress any gifts. For me, it's all or nothing. A girl is either exclusively mine or she is not mine. Doing ST is better than having a part time mistress.
Cheers!
Bro
I think in a bidding war, I will throw in the towel if I know you are my competitor. Cannot outbid you at all.
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If you want to screw another man's wife, take a look at the consequences!
I'm overseas n has been very busy, sorry for the late replies.
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Originally Posted by Nato17
There always will be emotional consequences in this time of arrangement. And I really like the way you put it. It is like marriage but without the financial consequences after you part ways.
Bro Nato17,
Yes, after 6-12 months of full time BY, there will be some emotional attachment. Your mission, as a MAN, is to get her emotionally n sexually addicted to you. The person who cares the least, controls the relationship. And, if you're not the one in control, the gal will leave you.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by Nato17
"Punch above his weight". Very good food for thought and insights. I must keep learning from the masters here.
Yes, by punching above your weight, you can get the prettiest gal of your type.
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Originally Posted by Nato17
Very, very well written! You have clearly analyzed the game very well and I really must offer you my kudos. I think I myself can learn a lot from your attitude and also insights. Kudos bro.
Bro NotMyRealName is very experienced.
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Originally Posted by Nato17
I think you are missing the point. I would say in Singapore, a lot of guys are totally clueless with regards to the opposite sex. How many guys just wish they had the guts to walk up to a woman and say hi, can I have your number?
Don't say that women aren't drawn to people who are confident people?
Bro,
Most men in Sg are too timid. They are not comfortable in their own skin.
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Originally Posted by Nato17
Sorry, what is CVO? I blur sotong.
CVO = Copulatory Vaginal Orgasm
The most addictive form of orgasm
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Originally Posted by Nato17
The rates are now super strange. The last girl quoted me $20k, but she slashed. I think I need to do go MIA for a while....lol.
Bro Nato 17,
That is a very old post! I met KK in 2009. She was gorgeous n very sexy. A bro said she was the best looking gal I ever had. I replied: One of the best looking gals.
The damage for BY has gone up since.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nato17
A lot of factors will boost one's self-confidence. EG, good looking. Youth. Wealth. And even education. However, how you use that to your advantage only you wield that power. No one can do it for you.
Self-confidence places a part even in the workplace. You don't get promoted because of your technical skills. You get promoted because you may be able to project a good image that you will be able to perform a job. This is certainly true at board levels. If you are talking about managerial levels, yes you are using your technical expertise but further up the ladder, your social skills plays a huge part. And a good part is self-confidence.
Bro, I couldn't agree w/ u more.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nato17
I don't think there is anything wrong with using money to buy a relationship. It is just like us guys going to GL and paying for sex.
Having mojo and using it to one's advantage is not a crime. Business use their financial might to gain the unfair advantage. Just because you may have a lack of it doesn't mean that someone using it to their advantage should play by the same rules as you. To me, at least, you seem to be sour grapes.
Bro Nato 17,
You're spot on!
I know the bro you're replying to. I was never able to meet him, despite offering to pay for all expenses for him at a high end KTV. He was in my wechat grp that had over 35 like-minded bros. No one was able to meet him in person. So they forced me to kick him out.
BTW, they also found out that this particular bro made certain claim who was verified to be false. I'll leave it at that. I hv nothing against him n I do wish him well.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nato17
This is coming from a guy who has been accused by others of whack WLs? Wow, seriously?
Go figure.
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Originally Posted by korean
bro, I really pity ur gal being sexposed by u here just to prove urself so hard. now I know to use a woman like a tool is part of normal relationship
Bro Korean,
IMHO, showing off is a sign of insecurity, low self confidence n neediness. Such a person craves constant attention n validation.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by besafe
BY = having the whore all to yourself (while the money last), without going to the whore house and share with the rest.
Just my view only. Cheers.
Bro besafe,
You're right. Need to get the whore addicted to you emotionally n sexually asap.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nato17
In the corporate world that results are NOT everything. You can meet KPIs and get your bonus. That is what you are paid to do.
Companies pay you for results, not for efforts put in!
You are always expected to meet your position goals (which I always think is not an impossible task).
Now, getting ahead requires more than just hard work, it also depends on how you network, how you relate to both below you and those above you. How you look also does matter, whether you like it or not. And being confident and how you poise yourself all play a part. This is also called your image right? I mean do you walk into a corporate meeting in bermudas and slippers? If you do that and deliver results do you expected to be promoted? I think not.
So in a nutshell, it all boils down to attitude and how you play the game. And to me, that is what warbird is doing. He is advocating play the game with the rules already sketched out for you.
Well said.
Quote:
Originally Posted by NotMyRealName
Thanks.
I have to play the longer game and with patience simply because I know myself, i.e. has limited means. It is also to leverage the inefficient market to our advantage, as the girl has many best friends who will share and tell her things her entire waking hours while we are busy with our work and then only have a few hours to interact with her.
The moment she asks you for gift you have to really evaluate. Buy a small one and if she treasures it then you know she likes you. If she asks for more expensive gifts that is a month of your salary then my advice is change target. And the excuse of someone sick, needs help back home are also signs.
Oh by the way, if whom you want is young and restless age, than you will have to consider dumping her after a while because your liking of the girl drops once she gets more and more dependent on you for even how to travel from one place to another (within SG).
Bro,
You're welcome. Thanks for sharing your insights n strategies.
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Originally Posted by aczeta
Good to see this thread is still active after so long
Bro,
I hv learned so much by sharing. Still improving slowly...no one can hv too much emotional mastery n self mastery.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nato17
I think in a bidding war, I will throw in the towel if I know you are my competitor. Cannot outbid you at all.
Bro Nato 17,
Not true. You can punch above your weight n knock me out!
This doll KP is exceptionally pretty n sexy. I'm trying to get her wechat from the real estate agent.
Not true. You can punch above your weight n knock me out!
This doll KP is exceptionally pretty n sexy. I'm trying to get her wechat from the real estate agent.
Cheers!
Bro WB
lol. The student surpass mentor? Sounds like Star Wars. The issue is punching above your weight requires substantial financial backing. I am only a poor OKT in L69H69. Actually, financial backing is the easy part to clear. The harder part is still punching above one's weight, especially when Chinese is not my first language. I mean I can flirt a lot in Chinese; but to flirt like how one would flirt in English to another, I think that requires another level of skill really.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Yes, after 6-12 months of full time BY, there will be some emotional attachment. Your mission, as a MAN, is to get her emotionally n sexually addicted to you. The person who cares the least, controls the relationship. And, if you're not the one in control, the gal will leave you.
It is human nature to have emotional attachments after a while, especially if you are the provider. The Baoer maybe ugly like fuck but still there will be emotions especially if you are together for some time. Been there and done that.
__________________
If you want to screw another man's wife, take a look at the consequences!
I'm overseas n has been very busy, sorry for the late replies.
Bro Nato17,
Yes, after 6-12 months of full time BY, there will be some emotional attachment. Your mission, as a MAN, is to get her emotionally n sexually addicted to you. The person who cares the least, controls the relationship. And, if you're not the one in control, the gal will leave you.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Yes, by punching above your weight, you can get the prettiest gal of your type.
Bro NotMyRealName is very experienced.
Bro,
Most men in Sg are too timid. They are not comfortable in their own skin.
CVO = Copulatory Vaginal Orgasm
The most addictive form of orgasm
Bro Nato 17,
That is a very old post! I met KK in 2009. She was gorgeous n very sexy. A bro said she was the best looking gal I ever had. I replied: One of the best looking gals.
The damage for BY has gone up since.
Bro, I couldn't agree w/ u more.
Bro Nato 17,
You're spot on!
I know the bro you're replying to. I was never able to meet him, despite offering to pay for all expenses for him at a high end KTV. He was in my wechat grp that had over 35 like-minded bros. No one was able to meet him in person. So they forced me to kick him out.
BTW, they also found out that this particular bro made certain claim who was verified to be false. I'll leave it at that. I hv nothing against him n I do wish him well.
Cheers!
Go figure.
Bro Korean,
IMHO, showing off is a sign of insecurity, low self confidence n neediness. Such a person craves constant attention n validation.
Cheers!
Bro besafe,
You're right. Need to get the whore addicted to you emotionally n sexually asap.
Well said.
Bro,
You're welcome. Thanks for sharing your insights n strategies.
Bro,
I hv learned so much by sharing. Still improving slowly...no one can hv too much emotional mastery n self mastery.
Bro Nato 17,
Not true. You can punch above your weight n knock me out!
This doll KP is exceptionally pretty n sexy. I'm trying to get her wechat from the real estate agent.
Cheers!
Bro WB
No one can force u do anything unless u r emotionally weak and unstable. What there to compare ur 35 grp vs my 1000 plus strong grp of syts fans. U wanted to meet but can't afford my Aimee what there talk abt.
Every night ur grp keep trying to bed ktv girls but failure after failure. that the difference between a true grandmaster and a wannabe wb.
__________________ One mountain always higher than another
青外青山，楼外有楼，一山更比一山高
Talk cock and fart all come through the same breath. TCSS and be Happy!
说话和放屁都是一样的，一口气而以，开心就好！
Don't talk to me abt love, dreams, i don't need these in my life
别跟我谈理想，戒了，本少爷DJ想干嘛就干嘛去。。
No one can force u do anything unless u r emotionally weak and unstable. What there to compare ur 35 grp vs my 1000 plus strong grp of syts fans. U wanted to meet but can't afford my Aimee what there talk abt.
Every night ur grp keep trying to bed ktv girls but failure after failure. that the difference between a true grandmaster and a wannabe wb.
You are so full of crock. Seriously. When I smell shit, there is shit around. And you, sir, are full of it! If you have nothing to say, then just fricking go get a life. I think a lot of people here bed more girls than you bedding your imaginary women who you bonked and basically can assault and claim that is it because of your bad boy behavior that gets you into their pants. If that is the way you get into their pants, donkeys can fly. Whoops. You are that donkey aren't you?
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If you want to screw another man's wife, take a look at the consequences!
You are so full of crock. Seriously. When I smell shit, there is shit around. And you, sir, are full of it! If you have nothing to say, then just fricking go get a life. I think a lot of people here bed more girls than you bedding your imaginary women who you bonked and basically can assault and claim that is it because of your bad boy behavior that gets you into their pants. If that is the way you get into their pants, donkeys can fly. Whoops. You are that donkey aren't you?
Well I still got the Wechat logs and photos of whoever that crying all night long in the grp. Even wb I do have his photo with his ak 47. I do public relations very well with that crying that disturb my sleep. It kind of irritating.
__________________ One mountain always higher than another
青外青山，楼外有楼，一山更比一山高
Talk cock and fart all come through the same breath. TCSS and be Happy!
说话和放屁都是一样的，一口气而以，开心就好！
Don't talk to me abt love, dreams, i don't need these in my life
别跟我谈理想，戒了，本少爷DJ想干嘛就干嘛去。。
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