How I got cheated by KTV girl

[banana]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

Gal: i'm sorry. gotta go?
Guy: Y so early?
Gal: Someone waiting for me.
Guy: Who? Ur sisters?
Gal: No, my bf. he's waiting for me downstair...

the gal knew tat she might lost a potential customer (usually customer hear the gal got bf, he will sian half liao), but she jus tell the guy no and goes back to her bf...

though it is a small gesture, it means a lot....

wah! so touching! will add this to my script for my next movie.

[banana]

Originally Posted by senso88

in 2 mths i with mine (ktv girl)
is also enough for any kind of paid fuck with many girls
what more? i never TOUCH my girl.
am i stuipd dumb ass?

we sound like in the same boat. but i m not a stupid dumb ass.

i also never "touch" the girl i like. i think this is wat i call respect. we respect our girl that y we dont autoroam them.





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[banana]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

to all 'sleepless bros' here,

my advise is simple and hopefully logigal.. in the r/s wif these KTV gals.. the gal and i r trying to pull ourselves towards this common destination called 'LIFETIME RERLATIONSHIPS'... i will b travel from the west and she will travle away from east (all her vice activities) to meet each other at the mid pts (lifetime relationship). if u keep moving and she keep moving and we finally both meet at the mid pt.. good for both of us.. but if u keep moving and she will wan to stay where she is (vice activities).. i tink there will never b a lifetime relationships and it spells the end for both...

hope my logic is comprehensive...

agree agree, again.

[banana]

Originally Posted by senso88

but if you really like the girl?
leave her is the best answer?

i dont think this is a good or best answer. if i really like the girl, i will in my power, counsel her to leave the job or change for a better life. leaving her to rot is not the right answer.

[cbjuiceyumseng]

A most memorable China MM KTV kumcheng Dao-tao is from the old Apollo KTV.

Absolutely kumcheng and loving to me. Very juicy too. Best and most incredible thing is she bought me shirt, pants and ties on her 2nd visit to Singapore. I bought her some fragance and makeup only.

Her name = Chien Ling from Sichuan.

[K9696]

Originally Posted by banana

i dont think this is a good or best answer. if i really like the girl, i will in my power, counsel her to leave the job or change for a better life. leaving her to rot is not the right answer.

Certainly agreed w your points... Do what a man's got to Do....

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

huh?? i and u sama sama.. well bro, it feels terrible for me.. i give her money oso. but she still wan to work at the same time, feeling uneasy i ended my r/s wif her after 1 yr together...

bro, u referring to your mg gf? or your present gf?

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by senso88

in 2 mths i with mine (ktv girl)
is also enough for any kind of paid fuck with many girls
what more? i never TOUCH my girl.
am i stuipd dumb ass?

No bro.. you are not a dumb ass.

Jus hang tough...

When ur heartstrings are pulled then all logic goes out the window.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by sadfa

bro, u referring to your mg gf? or your present gf?

my former MG gf lah.. ex-gf wat......

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by banana

wah! so touching! will add this to my script for my next movie.

really meh??? this is really wat i saw and heard....

[Optimus_Prime]

Even though you know by heart all the tricks that these gals pull to get you "hooked" on them. No matter how careful or "hard hearted" you are you might still get sucked in. I have had a few encounters with WL as "part-time" galfriends b4 and therefore was quite cautious of their tricks.

For me, I am currently seeing a PRC student who works as a TN. Our first meeting was an accident as I was not looking for a rub but the toilet. Could not find it but bounced into her at her TN. Saw she was abit diff from the reg PRC (u noe the type... boobs exposed...short skirts) who works at TN. she was actually in her Tee and jeans. Went in and had a nice session but she did not offer any extras even though I hinted.

After that saw her a couple of times and dunno when our sessions became a full make-out sessions. Kissing, petting and frenching but no bj or fj. and she is always dressed the most conservative. At first it was jus a physical attraction (I a sucker for gd kissing) but slowly we began to see each other after her classes too. (she's a student at those english sch that nobody heard of) Then one day jus b4 an overseas trip, we DID IT at a hotel (1st time w her). Most of the time before that we just chat, eat or see movie. (heh..heh... gd place to make out...like when i was a teenager sia) All these times i do sometimes goes to her work place to find her. she always says that she is comfortable being with me and time pass quite slowly when we r together.

I know that she might just be treating me as a good regular customer but eventually I (to my own dismay) began to develop feelings for her. Dat is when I began to notice that I may not be the only one who gets the "special treatment" from her. She shld have several gd "regulars" to support her as I have not spent much on her. Or else she would be one poor TN gal.

When ur heart starts to talk feelings that is when the game began to get personal. U get jealous when u noe one of her regulars find her. What can they be doing ? U start to think of her quite often. U start to question whether there may be hope in a long term relationship.

I have already "zhong du" and I have to decide now whether to amputate when I still can. I can feel that she's starting to feel something for me too but i must ask myself is it even possible for a normal gf/bf btw us.

So to all bros.... play if u want but try not to develop feelings for them... they live in a different world from ours and most guys will not be able to take the strain of such a "roller-coaster" relationships.

to all bros in similar situation.....HANG TOUGH..... and GOOD LUCK ( i noe I sure as hell need it)

[bhoven]

[QUOTE=Angel_Zen] i told her dat we can b honest wif each other, n i like her for bein frank. if got customers tapao her she will also tell me, sometimes describing wat they did.
startin i was happy that she was frank wif me, i also say i will not object or force her not to go out wif them as long as she dun do raw, wich she olso nvr did wif me.i told her i no $$ to giv her but lots of care&concern so i cant object wat she wanna do.she said as long as we r happy wen we together can oreadi, dun talk bout $$
but for the past couple of times she go out ON wif others, my head hurts n my heart wrenches and cant sleep.
even though i do not noe if her feelins 4 me is true (we did ever discuss about our future but did not commit anything as we do not want to give each other false hopes) so dis morning i came to my decision & told her i will not call her or meet her anymore,unless in emergencies such as kena raid, i told her dat my heart bleeds wenever i c her so tired aft a hard days work, and dat i feel so helpless cos i cant help her, n dat if we continue any longer, we will b in deep shit wen the time cums 4 us to part!! so i told her to concentrate her work n 4get bout me.......... she jus kept quiet n did not say anything.
nw i feel sooo sad and m at a lost
did i do the rite move or will i regret
feeling damn jialat nw!!
some may say dat i should continue gettin the free F###s til she go bac, but the more i F her the more i feel for her!!
but nw i feel kind of better aft lettin out my thoughts.

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U hv reached the stage when its no longer a commercial transaction n u hv feelings of a bf for her. Dats why u start to feel sad/confused ( since u initially accepted this as she is here to earn money) when she sleeps with other men. If u still think u love her enuff to make her your gf, maybe what u can do is to tell her to what extent u can support her but on condition that she stops sleeping with other men n see her reaction. Dis presumes dat u can trust her not to go OB i.e. only just chitchat with custy etc. We do not know enuff about her so it will be your judgment but u can always get a good friend to test her out to make sure she walks the talk.

My experience is somewhat similar n i think she was true to me but it couldn't work out as i am not single. In the end we agreed that her fiuture is best with someone else. So she is married now but we r still friends...

[soul_man]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

Even though you know by heart all the tricks that these gals pull to get you "hooked" on them. No ( i noe I sure as hell need it)

Let us start with an action by defining "how much is fair market rate to support a PRC girl here ?" so we would not get brun too badly

[ballzballz]

Hi all,

came to this thread cos of Bro Angel zen. Been there and seen how things were going on between him and his ger. Some might say his ger might be playing smart or money face to still go "run table" even thou she got a bf sitting there just waiting for her. I seen how she is even thou bro angel zen is not there. can tell, she is one of the very rare gems i have seen in my cheonging days who is really a good catch. But I guess fate plays tricks on everyone, maybe right ger, right time but wrong situation. Seems like life has too many what ifs, She may be the perfect ger, you might ask what if I knew her on her first day at work, before she started in this line or what if you actually saw her in China when she was still a innocent ger and you would have an easier decision to see if you can carry on with her.

I guess reality is that, she is here for money, theres alot of complications even before you started and that you are not staying here for long either. I guess you made the right decision to "stop the cancer" from spreading further. I figure that she should be expecting that as well. Lets just hope you wun be making it even harder by popping by just to see her, it doesn't ease the pain, it just prolongs the pain. All you can do is probably let time heal the pain, dilute the memories and crave in the lessons learnt, that its not a matter of the wrong person or wrong place or wrong timing, but just that its not fated.

I might learn from this thread and call off my trip to HB. knowing all too well that the results will be the same as all the bros here. Maybe its just either a moment too soon, moment too late to do anything now.

BUT,

Fear not, for I'm always a call away to (bing jian zhuo zhan) and conquer new conquests, for they are EVERYWHERE.

[TheSting]

Hey bro Zen. Saw your SMS, but didn't know so serious.

Actually was with bro zen when we met that gal for the 1st time. Like bro ballz here, found her to be really nice. Can sense that she was both "tan3 bai2" and "shuang3 kuai4" (basically frank and straightforward), as well as having as being pretty mature lah (not those ditsy dainty type u find quite often). Wasn't too hard to see how easily things progressed from there.

My thoughts? Bro Zen, some guys can take that, but most guys (including my humble self) can't. U and me got a bit of similarity lah, in wanting that little bit of gfe (don't we all?). But as most bros here have pointed out before, the gals here are for one reason only. $$. Maybe got 3 types. Some just needa little cash, earn enough and go back for good to set up own stuffs. 2nd type come here repeatedly to earn as much as they can before luck or time runs out. 3rd... here to hook big fish lah.

Some bros have also pointed out to convince her (or more accurately, their own girls in general) to stop this line of work. Now, this gals have sacrificed quite abit to come here (everything from $$, and maybe a little bit of their self-respect). I do believe that the decision does not come easy, even given the various possible reasons (bf/dad gamble $$ all away.. parents sick.. etc)How can we expect them to NOT work, unless we are able to guarentee a future together?
I, for one, am in absolutely no position to provide that.

Bro Zen, only you can know/judge what's the best course of action. We as friends can only offer different perspectives based on what you've told us.
If you ask me, I say that you're making the right decision, even though she's such a nice lady.

Anyway, as you said, you'll be making a fresh new start in life not long from now. Perhaps, things might change for the better when that time comes!

Drop me a SMS anytime u free to meet up for drinks or whatever lah. Bro ballz too