How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf? - Page 29

hi5550 · #**421** 20-10-2006, 03:13 PM

sometimes i betray my wife and feel sorry for my children when i go to tuina and ask the PRC to shake for me. I really cannot tahan when i saw big and fair boobs in my office casue my wife boobs was really small and i am a bit sian to touch it anymore.

I always saw my office lady wear expose clothing and show off their white big breast and i really steam. i can take it so i drive all my way to PPC to look for the big breast PRC and paid them to shake for me and i squeese their breast hard till they complain.

But i tried to have sex with my wife every weekend cause i never will had sex with those PRC cause i knew that if i had sex with them and i willlose interest with my wife so i insist only handjob by those PRc and had sex with my wife.

When having sex with my wife, i never touch her breast becuase i dont feel like it and i normally quickly finish off with my wife and go to bed.

BustLover · #**422** 20-10-2006, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by xilverzap

I dont feel the same way as i did before for my wife now although she is good. It is just myself that have fallen for another. And the relationship deepens with the other now. I used to think I can pull the brakes if the situation thickens but seems like I'd been sucked into another whirlpool of love for another. Haiz...

Keep both is definitely not an option as my wife is not willing to share me. That I understand. Not many wives would like to share their husbands. What do I do now? I really dont know too. I am kinda loss here. LoL....

Bro, to leave that woman or your wife can easily be decided by asking yourself what you stand to loose if you leave your wife.

Is she very dependent on you? (Financially & morally)
Do you have kids and are they attached to you?
Will it be the end of the world for them if the divorce eventually come about?
Will you be penniless after paying out the monthly maintenance etc?

If any of the above the YES, I am afraid you have to leave the woman and "loon". Patch up with your wife by re-collecting those good old days.

You should not worry too much about the other woman since she would have prepared to loose you; knowing that you are already married.

BustLover · #**423** 20-10-2006, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by hi5550

I always saw my office lady wear expose clothing and show off their white big breast and i really steam.

Hey brother, where is your office?
How old is your office lady and are they pretty?
Got vacancy or not? I want to be your colleague...

giggz83 · #**424** 20-10-2006, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by hi5550

sometimes i betray my wife and feel sorry for my children when i go to tuina and ask the PRC to shake for me. I really cannot tahan when i saw big and fair boobs in my office casue my wife boobs was really small and i am a bit sian to touch it anymore.

I always saw my office lady wear expose clothing and show off their white big breast and i really steam. i can take it so i drive all my way to PPC to look for the big breast PRC and paid them to shake for me and i squeese their breast hard till they complain.

But i tried to have sex with my wife every weekend cause i never will had sex with those PRC cause i knew that if i had sex with them and i willlose interest with my wife so i insist only handjob by those PRc and had sex with my wife.

When having sex with my wife, i never touch her breast becuase i dont feel like it and i normally quickly finish off with my wife and go to bed.

if you know she's freaking small... then why you married her in the 1st place?

#**425** 20-10-2006, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by giggz83

if you know she's freaking small... then why you married her in the 1st place?

2 words: Wonder Braaaaa hehehe...

beingunknown200 · #**426** 20-10-2006, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by giggz83

if you know she's freaking small... then why you married her in the 1st place?

sorry bro,its not only about the boobs in a marriage.I love big boobies too (> C or D), and my gf is only a B, but I m satisfied with it. I feel that is more to just boobs in a relationship, that is love,companionship and intimacy as well. Sorry if I offend you with my frank remarks...

If cant get satisfied with the boobs, then can always focus on other areas. Every part of the human body can be a potential sexual organ!haha unless the bro have tried EVERYTHING, or the wife just not interested, then I have nothing to say. If not, its all about being imaginative with sex

beingunknown200 · #**427** 20-10-2006, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by giggz83

if you know she's freaking small... then why you married her in the 1st place?

sorry bro,its not only about the boobs in a marriage.I love big boobies too (> C or D), and my gf is only a B, but I m satisfied with it. I feel that is more to just boobs in a relationship, that is love,companionship and intimacy as well. Sorry if I offend you with my frank remarks...

If cant get satisfied with the boobs, then can always focus on other areas. Every part of the human body can be a potential sexual organ!haha unless the bro have tried EVERYTHING, or the wife just not interested, then I have nothing to say. If not, its all about being imaginative with sex

#**428** 20-10-2006, 05:15 PM

I suggest all the frustrated bros and sisters to form

THE LEAGUE OF EXTRAORDINARILY FRUSTRATED GENTLEMEN AND LADIES ("LEEFGAL")

Monthly activity:
Week 1 : Mass tcss and cheonging session
Week 2 : Forum on how to change baby diapers for wife (for hubbies)
Week 3 : Cooking classes
Week 4 : Break. Orgy session at Hotel 81. Organiser will book entire hotel and provide condoms (4 per persons).

Yearly events:
1) The School break SYT tarma session
2) Annual Holiday Trip to Guilin for PRCs
3) Lectures on 'How to tell you wife you are horny in a nice way and she listens too', 'To tarma or not to tarma', 'The Peter Drucker's Guide to Cost Management in Cheonging' and last but not least 'How to get rid of perfume before going home to CO'.

I'll be the Vice President

hi5550 · #**429** 20-10-2006, 06:29 PM

Sometimes i really don't want to look at my collegaue breast but i don;t know why my eyes cant stop focus on their breast! Sometimes they wear very tight shirt and their breast almost pop out and i really cannot stand it.

So when i go back home and play with my kids and my wife was just another house wife at home.

Sometimes i understand why our government did not really put in stringent control to the tuina shop cause they knew that those man will need to go there and release their pressure.

xilverzap · #**430** 20-10-2006, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BustLover

Bro, to leave that woman or your wife can easily be decided by asking yourself what you stand to loose if you leave your wife.

Is she very dependent on you? (Financially & morally)
Do you have kids and are they attached to you?
Will it be the end of the world for them if the divorce eventually come about?
Will you be penniless after paying out the monthly maintenance etc?

If any of the above the YES, I am afraid you have to leave the woman and "loon". Patch up with your wife by re-collecting those good old days.

You should not worry too much about the other woman since she would have prepared to loose you; knowing that you are already married.

Bro, ironically, the answers to all the above questions are NO.... that's the thing... I do not lose out in those ways. In fact, the only reason why I am still hanging on to this marriage is that I still do love her. Not able to compare who I love more. Issue in this thread is NO sex with wife. Thats why I say earlier that is SEX a major factor in a marriage?? Now that it is out in the open, wife did try to persuade me to leave the other gal. I did mention why I am having an affair. But somehow, it fell on deaf ears or being ignore about it. The other gal cant say much after all she is NOT married to me. But I do sense that she loves me a lot too.

Well, I'd just have to figure this one out real well in order not to make the situation way out of hands.

Thanks for advice.

Rainman · #**431** 20-10-2006, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by xilverzap

Bro, ironically, the answers to all the above questions are NO.... that's the thing... I do not lose out in those ways. In fact, the only reason why I am still hanging on to this marriage is that I still do love her. Not able to compare who I love more. Issue in this thread is NO sex with wife. Thats why I say earlier that is SEX a major factor in a marriage?? Now that it is out in the open, wife did try to persuade me to leave the other gal. I did mention why I am having an affair. But somehow, it fell on deaf ears or being ignore about it. The other gal cant say much after all she is NOT married to me. But I do sense that she loves me a lot too.

Well, I'd just have to figure this one out real well in order not to make the situation way out of hands.

Thanks for advice.

My Bro has 2 wives, one in Osaka and the other live in New York. Can u imagine the trouble and time not to mention the money when he visit his Jap wife and kids there?

Also have another few friends with 2 wives. The question one asked is...

"Bro... Looks good but double nagging and cost plus.... where do you want to be when you retired>???"

It's not fun nor is it easy to managed.

I am just wondering where to retire now...

Sigh....

giggz83 · #**432** 21-10-2006, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by beingunknown200

sorry bro,its not only about the boobs in a marriage.I love big boobies too (> C or D), and my gf is only a B, but I m satisfied with it. I feel that is more to just boobs in a relationship, that is love,companionship and intimacy as well. Sorry if I offend you with my frank remarks...

If cant get satisfied with the boobs, then can always focus on other areas. Every part of the human body can be a potential sexual organ!haha unless the bro have tried EVERYTHING, or the wife just not interested, then I have nothing to say. If not, its all about being imaginative with sex

im not offended.

but the issue here is ..

he tried to somehow avoid his wife bcos he complaint of his wife's boobs are small .. so my qn to him is .. if he know he dont like small boobs .. why marry her in the first place and cause all the dis-please?

its not a matter of love, companionship, intimacy or imaginative. thats another issue.

although it plays a very huge part. but thats not the issue here. hope you understand.

viewsonic · #**433** 21-10-2006, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Rainman

My Bro has 2 wives, one in Osaka and the other live in New York. Can u imagine the trouble and time not to mention the money when he visit his Jap wife and kids there?

"Bro... Looks good but double nagging and cost plus.... where do you want to be when you retired>???"

It's not fun nor is it easy to managed.

I am just wondering where to retire now...

Sigh....

Nagging, that's the worst part in the marriage...Having our wife nagging at us.
If i was given a choice, i would rather stay single and bonk whatever girls i like. hehehehe.

Now got a family, whatever i do, must think of family first.
Worst part, must avoid making any mistake or careful with my words to prevent my wife from nagging at me.

Oxford · #**434** 23-10-2006, 12:07 AM

I had been lurking around in this thread for a few days now... i too had the same common problem here like all bros & sis. The thing is if the wife is working and don't have the mood to have sex i can understand but my wife is not working! It's not that i'm pulling in high income for the family but i earn just enough for her to not work and stay at home being a full time housewife. i have a 9 yrs old daughter. About 2 yrs ago my wife started to get hook on MMOPG games and had been on her computer desk from morning till late at night sometime not even sleeping can u imagine that?

We used to had sex abt 4x a week but now it's abt 1 or 2 times a mth. Sometime i even had small fight with her for not taking care of our daughter while i'm busy working and she is busy playing her online game. My daughter's school work had gone downhill becos of this.

I had used to beg for sex but now i don't anymore i just couldn' be bother but had spend more time taking care of my daughter's school work when i'm at home. I use to 'eat' outside but had since stop for 2 yrs now,... it's not that i'm feelng guilty to her but becos i couldn't have double role of being a caring father to my daughter and then screw ard outside. I'm still sexually active and with high sex drive but most time i DIY during shower. I had also spend my money on high tech hobby like RC plane flying and car racing just to keep me busy before i go bonker. Most time i bring my daughter into my hobby so that she'll learn and be busy instead of becoming like her mum addicted to PC gaming.

I have had other better choice of gals i met outside from my job some of them had even hit on me but i don't ankowledge their advances and keep all relationship as platonic becos i know once i allowed myself to step in, it will be the end of my family.

Bros here, i know exactly how we all feel but just take it and keep urself busy. I believe that rough times will pull through but we just had to hang on tight. Let's hang on together and hope to hear more positive or maybe successful savage stories from the very bro who had confide to us their problem soon.

azumi kawashima · #**435** 23-10-2006, 06:23 AM

i haven't shoot @ my gf about 6 months since i was departed to another country for working purpose. 6 months liao.. cham.