Do you still wanna bonk your wife?

[freezetheDB]

Tyla Baby: you should start by offering to help him release

for example: when he is back from work tired, etc... whisper to him you would like to help him release (BBBJ followed by CIM) so he can have a good sleep, and ask him just to sit back (or lie down) and enjoy. Ask the samsters around here, which man will not feel touched by such a gesture from the spouse?

Repeat this often. A woman needs to pleasure her man so that her man will associate pleasure with his woman. This gives him a chance for his mind to turn his body on when he sees you (and associates with pleasure).

Its a matter of time he will try his best to pleasure you to repay you (do note, when he is turned on he can performed better as you = pleasure ), or he will just want to fuck you out of your brains on his own.

[mr nice guy]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

mr nice guy: Used to try it, but now the computer in the living room not very conducive leh. And I'm really sick of porn liao. Self-entertain with it for all this time, see until sian liao.
You sound like one very lucky guy.


masterdebater: I have no choice but to PCC leh. (Charbor version also referred to as "PCC"??) But... I think my parts spoil liao. Already immune to my own touch.

Sometimes he will be nice and "service" me. But often he is tired from work and spending time with kids when he gets home, I see him so shagged also no heart to ask him to help me out. Worse when he bring work home and work until 3-4am.

I rub/suck/lapdance also cannot pry him away from his work, cos he's the only one bringing home the bacon now.

You tell me how lah.

its not your fault.. u already done your best.. im not saying your hubby is eating out.. but its a possiblity tat he is...fingers crossed tat he doenst..
even if he does, doenst mean you have too.. as to get back at him..
its not a win win situation baby.. how old are your kids??

[TyLa_BaBy]

mr nice guy: Doesn't take a genius to figure out i'm having issues huh? Hahaha. Oh well, been to marriage counselling, etc etc. Sex drive don't match I also suck thumb. It was actually better when I was pregnant cos my drive was low, so for once we actually match up nicely and no one is stressed or frustrated about it.

Thanks for the luck. I need it.

[alacrity]

Frankly, I have become tired after so many years. But yet bonking my wife is an obligation that I will still have to perform.

[TyLa_BaBy]

mr nice guy: Kids are tiny. 6 mths and 2.5 yrs. I'm very certain he is not eating out, cos he likes to call me several times to a day just to see if i'm coping at home. But even if he was, I guess it's only normal?? What would piss me off would be that he'd rather sex someone else than me. Hahaha.

I don't intend to "get back" at him even if he has. Sex without love brings no joy to me.

[Masterdebater]

Tyla - so tough. Have a second honeymoon or something. Need time for yrself too. I will always try to service my wife when she wants it.
Then again I also try to spice up, sexy talk diff positions just be cheeky n naughty. I can't be shy because she's my wife! I have known my wife for 10 years before we got married... I know how hard to sustain.. Try n be innovative

[TyLa_BaBy]

** double post, paiseh **

[Masterdebater]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

mr nice guy: Kids are tiny. 6 mths and 2.5 yrs. I'm very certain he is not eating out, cos he likes to call me several times to a day just to see if i'm coping at home. But even if he was, I guess it's only normal?? What would piss me off would be that he'd rather sex someone else than me. Hahaha.

I don't intend to "get back" at him even if he has. Sex without love brings no joy to me.

U r so calm about this! If my wife thought I was cheating on her all hell would break lose.... Retribution!

[mr nice guy]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

mr nice guy: Kids are tiny. 6 mths and 2.5 yrs. I'm very certain he is not eating out, cos he likes to call me several times to a day just to see if i'm coping at home. But even if he was, I guess it's only normal?? What would piss me off would be that he'd rather sex someone else than me. Hahaha.

I don't intend to "get back" at him even if he has. Sex without love brings no joy to me.

hahahaha.. well, tat is just one of the ways to cover up.. im not being a fire starter.. juz telling you the reality of life..

hmmm.. ur kids still small.. maybe can keep yourself occupied by tending to ur kids.. now the time to play with them and teach them etc.. hehehehe..

[asspanker]

sure.. just married 1+ yrs.. still young and bonking.. ;D

sometimes she will just tease me by sucking me hard and leaving me to dry.. den i either PCC or return the favour.. Heee

[TyLa_BaBy]

Aiyo, why so many multiple posts?!? Paiseh paiseh. WHen I use Quick Reply it keep giving me error message, so i refresh page then end up it reposted.

It's not easy for 2nd honeymoon lah. Kids are still very small, cannot chuck them anywhere. Bring them along then defeat purpose. Our previous 2 holidays totally no sex cos kids sharing hotel room with us, and just want to unwind from daily stress by relaxing lor.

I've honestly done everything I can to try and spice up the sex life, but my husband is the shy type (probably cos he didn't have many gf before me) and he is also the boring type. No sexy talk. No funny ideas. Even when I try to seduce him with sexy lingerie and no obligations BBBJ, he will just tell me he need to finish his work first. By the time he's done ard 3am, I also half-dead liao.

[TyLa_BaBy]

masterdebater:
If it has been done, break hell also won't undo it what. Might as well calmly solve the issue right? We all have needs, if cannot get it at home, then no choice gotta eat outside what. It's all very matter-of-fact isn't it?
But here's wishing you never get caught! hahahaha.


mr nice guy:
I understand your intentions. No hard feelings.
From 9am to 10pm I'm already cultivating my kids lor. And I am somewhat proud to say they are well-balanced children who are generally well-behaved.
But after 10pm... it is time to stop being a mother, and start being a wife/woman. Time to do what I enjoy (ie: sex) and time to pay attention to my husband. Except... oh well, you know the story now, don't you?
I don't think any husband would enjoy it much if their wives only play the role of a mother all the time.

Today special case though. I'm feeling pek chek. Don't want to snap at the kids over my own questions/frustrations, so I'm minimising contact.

[Masterdebater]

Guessed as much that he's shy. That's tough. Ask him to watch porn together see if he gets stimulated. I feel yr pain. How about pccing in front of him n see his reaction?

Tell him u r going to find other guy! Haha! Kidding.

But I believe he needs to put in effort too. Marriage is just like work...

[TyLa_BaBy]

masterdebater:
He puts in effort, but its very obvious that it burns him out. And sex becomes a chore for him cos he is putting in extra effort for me. It's not a nice feeling for me to know that he's trying so hard that it becomes taxing. In long run, i think it'll kill his (already low) sex drive even more.

Actually I already strayed twice in this marriage. First time I told him outright. The 2nd time I told him 1.5 yrs later. It was not easy carrying the lie/guilt for so long. But in the end he told me... He's sorry. Because he really cannot match up to my needs, therefore I ended up eating outside.

I am also very lost, man.

[Masterdebater]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

masterdebater:
If it has been done, break hell also won't undo it what. Might as well calmly solve the issue right? We all have needs, if cannot get it at home, then no choice gotta eat outside what. It's all very matter-of-fact isn't it?
But here's wishing you never get caught! hahahaha.

Nah don't worry I don't eat outside so I won't get caught. Only pcc haha. I think only 10% of women think like u so calm. Remainder will rain fire n brimstone lar. You are way to logical liao!