Sex and a guilty conscience

[BJ21Boss]

Well the conscience is always there...
The problem is society, biologically we are suppose to fuck every single girl we like. unfortunately as humans we practice monogamy.

Well if you have a Long term GF or a wife, don't waste it all by going for paid sex...
There are STDs that can spread even when you use condoms. etc molluscum and herpes. These are tell-tale signs which give you away.
Like most like-mind bros, if you have a gf/wife, work things out with her.
Tell her you need to weapon X!

[Tripster]

Dear TS and all bros,

This topic is what I call "the hole in our soul". This hole can never be fully filled because it is in built into our DNA. Because we as human beings have imposed some kind of mental prison for ourselves through society, we do not go out everywhere sexing everyone we can find, like monkeys and rabbits.

But our primitive minds and DNA give us this reproductive urge to copulate to ensure the survival of our species.

That is why we men think and feel the urge to fuck everyday. For the younger ones amongst us, do you wake up everyday with a hard on? We are built for fucking, that is natural. So do not feel guilty that you lust or feel the need to fuck a woman outside of your monogamus life (wife or gf)

Some of us are able to tahan, some cannot, some cannot afford thus must tahan, some can afford so no need to tahan - but many brudders I know, after they done the deed, paid the fee...still there is something empty inside which makes them do it again, when the urge comes and the money is sufficient. This cycle goes on and on. Everyday, this story is played out by thousands of Singaporeans across Sillypore and it will never stop. This is the oldest profession, right? Commerical Sex will always be around.

Why? Like what some bros here have said : "Basically, we are fuckers, we need to fuck, it is natural to fuck, but through self control either internally or externally, we suppress those urges. When there is a need, there is a product or service.

Is this healthy? The argument never ends.

What I know to be true and I think many bros can attest to this, is that it is a vicious cycle. Commercial sex will cost money. That is reality - No money, no honey. Can we avoid it? Yes you can, many do.

Should we fuck around? Yes, many do, too!

Do we pay for sex? Commecial? Of course! DO you eat and dun pay? SO IF YOU DO THE DEED, pay!

No money? DIY.

The point I am making is this: Do or do not...it is possible. Your morals and discipline guides you. If you do...BE SAFE. That is responsible to yourself and your family. If you spent money, treat it as if you went for massage therapy. Even gfs and wives do it. Why not you? So don't lament about it. Just fully enjoy the moment and get the most out of the minutes of "passion"

If you don't, DIY...or better still practice sexual yoga and you will become very healthy and strong because you conserve your Qi.

I have been in this scene many years. This story never ends.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

peace
Trip

[woot]

Obeying one's innate generic programming is not a sin, neither is acknowledging the power and presence of various hormones that propel you to propagate.

STD and viruses only cull a certain percentage of the population -- this is normal.

Such is the way of the world... since deep down we're just animals.



So why feel guilty when you are simply ensuring the continuum of a species? Charles Darwin would be proud!

[agent47]

Well, what we do here isn't exactly continuing the species if thats what you meant. It's just pure lust and pleasure. Been quite sometime since i went for FL. Recently, told my FB that I will stop looking for her too. and just now i just diy-ed. -_-.
This thread is meant for me and others alike to air their grievances or worries and I'm glad many have given their input to this topic. Its a healthy conversation. Pls speak and let it out. It was my first step to cutting down(if you are aiming for that).

[watmidoin]

me also live double life. very stress smtimes. scared ppl find out. find out will totally shock them. everytime go "mission" muz wear different than usual. big hat n sunglass. use pre-paid card. walk in hotel backdoor. do things gui gui sui sui. den knn scared police raid. or skali big case they check hotel or prepaid card register go become witness. sibei stress. but bohbian. small head need vomit often. else brain also engine stop.

[TigerB]

Listen to what this man says

[mumbojumbo2010]

Originally Posted by watmidoin

me also live double life. very stress smtimes. scared ppl find out. find out will totally shock them. everytime go "mission" muz wear different than usual. big hat n sunglass. use pre-paid card. walk in hotel backdoor. do things gui gui sui sui. den knn scared police raid. or skali big case they check hotel or prepaid card register go become witness. sibei stress. but bohbian. small head need vomit often. else brain also engine stop.

happen to surf ard...wah bro, totally in sync with you on this. Sometimes you try to cut down, scared of getting STDs and after first shot start thinking about family, future, wife/gf...the "what ifs" etc etc but then after a while, got extra cash, see a SYT, small head wins Life is so contradictory!

[vhornypanda]

Sighs, I knew I was not the only one. I'm new to the scene since recently broke up wif gf. Even then, she wasn't active but at least I wud get some every few month (sighs). Now no more gal, DIY no kick. I even bought me a flesh light, was great at first but then it bored me out. It just feels different.
Am I the only one who thinks that I'm pathetic :/

[orneryjoe]

Originally Posted by vhornypanda

Sighs, I knew I was not the only one. I'm new to the scene since recently broke up wif gf. Even then, she wasn't active but at least I wud get some every few month (sighs). Now no more gal, DIY no kick. I even bought me a flesh light, was great at first but then it bored me out. It just feels different.
Am I the only one who thinks that I'm pathetic :/

No you are not the only one who thinks so. I think you are pathetic too.