am i cuckholded

[thrush]

You should check with your buddy about her before you decide to put your emotions into this.

[ah rat]

TS,any action last night

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by joncheong

i am currently in a r/s with this girl called S.... when i first met her she was a very conservative girl...i definitely know she is a very decent girl and she gave her virginity to me after half a year with me and i was her first bf which i am quite sure about also....after so many years of cheonging (I am a closet cheonger and many of the friends i know doesn't know that background about me..)

You had confronted her, you had raised the alert for her and her buddy. So any plans to expose or find out anything for the time being will be non futile. She and your buddy will just deny and accuse you of being sensitive or plain imagining things. My advise for you now, is to also act blur and act upon situation.

A cheonger should know that a gal that is inexperienced in life will yearn to find true love so they are easy distracted and swayed by outside bees that promise the world, the sky and even the universe.

[purepulp]

My humble 2 cents,

There is no point confronting them because if they totally deny it, there is nothing you can do too. Would you believe them?

I think the best thing to do now is to let things unfold naturally and be mentally prepared for the worst case scenario.

Good luck.

[Stud00]

When you Assume, you make an ASS outta U and ME.

I would suggest that you sit down and have a good chat with her before jumping to conclusions.

Cheers

[Sirrus]

Originally Posted by Stimsia

And who you call "buddy"

Respect from fb?
Who giv a hoot, just continue the sex while it last...

this 1 different leh. he dont treat her as a FB but a GF. for sure you would want respect in a love relationship right?

as the others say, pretend and fuck her upside down till ur bored. best if u take her pics

[unsung80]

Subconsciously ts could be hearing voice in his own head. You feel inferior because your buddy have a good bod and it unknowingly gets into your head. If is a fantasy for your gf, then is would be good to have a threesome sexxion. However you got no concrete proof they are having an affair unless you test her and your buddy secretly. Don't turn yourself cuckolded first, find out the truth. Good luck.

[Urza]

Just be happy with free bonks my bro ... try to confront her again. If she still avoiding then enjoy the bonks and get on with your life

[bigass]

call yr buddy and let him listen while you two fuck in future. make sure e moans are loud and clear. she moans his name u moans his gf's too

[5ag1_Boar]

Originally Posted by joncheong

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this morning i asked her about the matter and she felt pissed about it...i was only asking and she straight away walked away...

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the line I bolded above.... To me clear sign that they have done it and she is avoiding the issue. if it's just fantasy, she will talk with you.

BUT, before you do anything else, you must find out whether cheating or fantasy. True or false, it will bother you until you find out for sure. If you don't, your doubt will harm the relationship anyway.

Next, if both of you can't talk about this problem, your relationship is a dying a slow death, sooner or later only. A healthy long lasting relationship requires communication and honesty, even if it hurts.

Let her cool down, then broach the issue. Tell her you can't forget what happened and it's bothering you. See if she is willing to discuss with you.

Over or not, is up to you and her. But make sure you find out the truth.

If you cannot get anything out of her, ask your buddy next. See if he will admit.

If he is part of a group of friends, jio all out for drinks or something, then start a conversation with the group about "if you know your friend's gf is unfaithful, will you tell him?" and "if your friend slept with your gf, would you want him to tell you?" and other baited discussions. Obviously you need to steer the conversation to your benefit. Then wait a few days to see if he tells you anything.

If he does not admit, find other ways to get the truth:
1. Hire PI, but this is expensive. $6 to $8K.
2. Install software on her phone to track her or spy on her calls. There were some threads in SBF about this. Track her to find out whether she is where she says she is.
3. Follow her yourself, but not easy.
4. As other brother suggest, tell her you out of country or reservist, move into a budget hotel for a few days. Then check/spy on your home when she least expect it.
5. Check her SMSes.
6. If she say she OT in office, call her office line later from public phone... See if she answers. If she does, just hang up... No proof here. If she does not, call her handphone from your phone, when she answer, chat casually with her, ask her how is work, anyone in office with her. Call buddy phone same time from public phone or unknown number. Do you hear his ring tone in her background noise? If not, when he picks up, do you hear her speaking in his background (make sure you cover the phone mouth piece, so he cant hear you talking to her). Are the background noise the same? You get the idea...

Many ways. Just clear your head and think.

[joncheong]

Kum xia to all senior bros as well as other sammybros who advised...

Perhaps i thought too much and for the time being i would give her the benefit of doubt... True nothing wrong fantasizing about hot bods... The fact that she has been a conservative girl and then gave her first time to me and moved in with me tells alot...

We did again yesterday and to my relief she didn't utter any name... Guess it was a one off event... Cheers will update u guys if got any

[5ag1_Boar]

Glad you have moved on.

But for future, please do not confuse conservative with faithful. Not trying to place doubt, just clearing a misconception.

[insomia]

that is definately sure

[tomben79]

if you love her, give a chance... else reconsider and move on... better if you fuck until very shiok and share videos to us...

[koji]

for me i would say.. hard to forget abt this incident.. just bluffing ourself nia bro! would u still have the trust on her like b4? i dun ting soo