I am addicted to a FL!

[AllIsBad]

Originally Posted by joew2005

sigh ..... it's easy said then done.

Very true.

[owl888]

Originally Posted by lfc78

Haha, so bro how many KC you have back in CP?
I almost weixin my mm everyday, spice up effect when u go back!

I learn to b heartless every trip new gal new kc

[FaithfulamI]

upzz for good advices

personally kenna KC trap by a thai coyote who looks a local without any plastic surgery, not the most pretty, so i'm guess im trap by her KC as well.

[lfc78]

Originally Posted by owl888

I learn to b heartless every trip new gal new kc

Well, CP is very much different compare to years ago. Service and attitude of current crop of mms there sucks. So when I find a gem, I rather polish it frequently rather then unearthing newer ones.

[larue]

Gesch: As such, my advice would be: go ahead and enjoy the moment. It's not everyday that you can have special feeling towards a woman, be it FL, WL or whatever. If 3k per month is okay for you after calculation, then go ahead. Not every 3k can buy you such happiness...

Most likely you'll wake up one day and find that your feeling is already not there. So the withdrawal from KC is not such a big issue either.

Asia1, 'U already married, just go out play, dont forget the fun and as long as u can afford, play the kc game'

Many thanks, indeed she will eventually head back home, and I will be left here with nothing but memories that will be lost in time, like tears in raid. But yes, I need to keep an eye out for expenditure escalation. Ha ha.

solarium, 'In my case the FL that I like is very direct and warned me that this lovey-dovey thingy will only last till her work permit expires.
But it is this kind of honesty that has got me hooked.
'

As she likes to tell me, we live for the present, and the best we can do is enjoy it if we can, and there is no point worrying about stuff we can may have little control over of in future. I take it that this is understood between herself and I that this is eventually what will happen as well.

In time, this will all end.

HCKing, 'TS better dun be too kay kiang, knw what addiction means? it means the more u do it the more u cant live without it. cut it loose nw b4 things get out of yr control. it's onli a matter of time yr small head will overtake yr big head. in fact, it's oredi heading this way judging frm yr own self assurance of the affair. this self assurance is just a pathetic self justification of why u shld continue the relationship, despite her being blah blah blah.'

What's a weak man to do bro?

wangmingjun, does my wife know or suspect anything? Maybe she does know something, suspect something, possibly even knows everything. I wouldn't know, and do not care to find out.

Oh, and women in Singapore should take heart that seemingly a large number of good guys still do exist, who value marriage and family as evidenced by the number of posts berating guys who do the whole family abandonment thing.

Now I'm not sure if I value marriage and family in the tradtional sense of the word, but there is absolutely nothing in my plans that involve leaving my wife and child to fend for themselves. Nothing will change that. I owe my wife a duty of care, which I am prepared to carry out for as long as I live, except in that one area in which I have felt for a long time now, that I no longer can.

[kristoa7]

Now I'm not sure if I value marriage and family in the tradtional sense of the word, but there is absolutely nothing in my plans that involve leaving my wife and child to fend for themselves. Nothing will change that. I owe my wife a duty of care, which I am prepared to carry out for as long as I live, except in that one area in which I have felt for a long time now, that I no longer can.[/QUOTE]

Kudos to you bro.There is hope for mankind...

[larue]

Why I like her because she's PRC, and not despite it, which is a fairly common attitude here.

I am a sinophile, been one my entire life.

A lot of her actions and attitudes are reflective of her Chinese background, and therefore by no means unqiue to her. They manifest themselves in many PRCs here, regardless of decency of profession.

And in many ways, these attitudes are the very opposite of many things I have over time come to dislike, and even despise about this country of ours.

The first is her money face. I am not sure why the widespread animosity towards 'money-faced PRCs'.

Everyone is money-faced. Who isn't? Why do women in this country pretend they do not marry for money?

And I have always believed women should marry for money (and guys too, but it's harder for guys obviously). Not exclusively of course, I wouldn't expect any woman to marry a hideous nasty character of an ogre purely for money.

But to pretend that the money-gathering ability of a man contributes insignificantly to their cost-benefit analysis is just pretty pathetic. Because it has somehow become shameful to admit that a girl lusts after a guy because he has money.

It should not be a shameful thing, it is someting to be embraced.

And the thing is, what do these money-faced PRCs do? They go out and try to get some. As much as they can in fact.

My WL has been out in the field for half her life, she has risen and fallen financially. And she has never stopped trying to earn more. She has worked in several parts of China, several countries and is here now, all for the sake of money. She only studied up to the equivalent of our O levels, and has been out working, decently or indecently ever since.

Same for the Chinese SBS drivers who come to this place to drive our buses. It is because they are money-faced, no.

What do repressed money-faced Singaporeans do? Complain, and then complain some more. Government must give us money. just fucking go out and get some. Don't go to a coffeeshop, real or virtual and complain that somebody owes you something, that one's been shafted by the so-called 'pro-ft' policies of our government.

Ironically, the loudest mouths are those whose livelihoods are in no way directly impacted by the foreign worker population here but who like to bash the government, because it is fashionable to do so. Fashionable and useless.

The world is full of opportunities. While trying to exploit an opportunity may be useful, it strangely appears unfashionable which is why Singaporeans don't want to try.

TBC.

[marcuslee]

Dear TS

Liked your story, as i am in more or less a similar situation.

Married and been cheonging around for yrs. always hv a bunch of regulars that i go to. And if they leave after 1,2 yrs, searched
for another one and she takes over. But a few months back, met a prc ktv gal and been meeting her once or twice a week

And i Find myself thinking of her everyday though knowing the dangers, i do not contact her everyday, only to meet up. I hv even thought of giving up on all the other regulars. These are thoughts i never had before.

Waiting for your updates

[littleman2]

Originally Posted by larue

Why I like her because she's PRC, and not despite it, which is a fairly common attitude here.

I am a sinophile, been one my entire life.

A lot of her actions and attitudes are reflective of her Chinese background, and therefore by no means unqiue to her. They manifest themselves in many PRCs here, regardless of decency of profession.

And in many ways, these attitudes are the very opposite of many things I have over time come to dislike, and even despise about this country of ours.

The first is her money face. I am not sure why the widespread animosity towards 'money-faced PRCs'.

Everyone is money-faced. Who isn't? Why do women in this country pretend they do not marry for money?

And I have always believed women should marry for money (and guys too, but it's harder for guys obviously). Not exclusively of course, I wouldn't expect any woman to marry a hideous nasty character of an ogre purely for money.

But to pretend that the money-gathering ability of a man contributes insignificantly to their cost-benefit analysis is just pretty pathetic. Because it has somehow become shameful to admit that a girl lusts after a guy because he has money.

It should not be a shameful thing, it is someting to be embraced.

And the thing is, what do these money-faced PRCs do? They go out and try to get some. As much as they can in fact.

My WL has been out in the field for half her life, she has risen and fallen financially. And she has never stopped trying to earn more. She has worked in several parts of China, several countries and is here now, all for the sake of money. She only studied up to the equivalent of our O levels, and has been out working, decently or indecently ever since.

Same for the Chinese SBS drivers who come to this place to drive our buses. It is because they are money-faced, no.

What do repressed money-faced Singaporeans do? Complain, and then complain some more. Government must give us money. just fucking go out and get some. Don't go to a coffeeshop, real or virtual and complain that somebody owes you something, that one's been shafted by the so-called 'pro-ft' policies of our government.

Ironically, the loudest mouths are those whose livelihoods are in no way directly impacted by the foreign worker population here but who like to bash the government, because it is fashionable to do so. Fashionable and useless.

The world is full of opportunities. While trying to exploit an opportunity may be useful, it strangely appears unfashionable which is why Singaporeans don't want to try.

TBC.

I have been a silent reader all these years on the experiences of many here and your thoughts above speaks out the thoughts that i have ! Kudos !

I am really tired of listening and hearing all those weak and petty minded people that just pushed the blame on the government and FT. Let's face the fact, competition exists everywhere and anywhere and if we are not up to the challenge, we are out of the game. I do hope to see the day that we Singaporeans rise up and work our way through and stop whining like a little spoilt brat !

[Gaofar]

I am addicted to a FL!..

And who wasn't addicted to an FL at any one time if you cheong long enough?.. I'll say that if you never kenna before and pulled out of it alive, you are not qualified enough to speak of others. Bro AD's case is the premier classic case of this year..

Anyway Bro L, from your posts I sees that you are a logical and sensible person to speak of your current "calamity" in such finesse structure (unless you are a reporter or a lawyer..). I gathered that you are actually capable to pull away from this situation but just need some "confirmations/advice" from bros here to kickstart you into action.

Well, let's start with what is her "winning-hand" over you shall we? But apparently you don't seems to able to furnish us with any details on what's her hold on you. You say that she is fugly, a 7.5 out of 10. You say that sex is just sex and nothing to scream about.

Ah.. But you mention that you like the way how she soothes you, the way that a woman should attends to you, ever so feminine and seductive, right?..

If that's the case my brother, then you really should just let go of this "cursed" relationship and concentrate on the key problem instead of venturing further. Let me put this to you: JUST because your wife did not have sex with you for years and not able to extend her supposed wife duties to caress you with womenly touch that you are yearning for, and with all other social pressure that you are facing, to finally met a lady whom would relish your "hunger" needs must be a god-found blessing for you.. I've been through this stage before brother, and I hope that you will not end your story like mine..

Sometime it is also important to know what is right to do and what is good to do.. If you have no other feelings for that FL, sex is plain, she is a plain-jane, she is money-face, she gets you things that you hate, etc., etc., then for goodness sake just stop this thing if the ONLY hold she had on you is that she can exudes womanly touch for you.. My last KC is at least a pretty SYT and at least 10 years younger my age, plus the womanly touch which I also yearned then.. Brother, your issue is simply your wife which you just need to have a heart-to-heart talk with her (or probably you have done that already?). Well, for me then I tried to talk seriously to my ex-wife but she simply "bochup", for a good length of 5 years before I go "hay-wire"..

I know how you feel. I know how one feels relieve and happy to finally found a woman who is concern about you so dearly that you are wondering why your legal other half was not like this.. And you find you want more of it.. That also spells the downward spiral that you are feeling now..

Brother L, I know you can do it. I know that you can close this relationship with that FL and move on. You should think about your family and weigh how important it is to you, sans wife if you may. We fathers are a bunch of emotional baggage. Want children by our side yet have to contend to wife's lunacy or non-existence attachments.

Sigh.. Stay strong brother. Your life is worth much more than this little r/s with your FL. Contact me if you need any advice and I will try to assist.

Cheers and regards.

[eQuipment]

Originally Posted by larue

....... You all know as well as I do, when one comes under the influence of KC, what is missing is not the ability to break the influence....... But what is truly missing, is the will to break the KC influence.

No amount of advice will work, because while it is happening, it is all so beautiful that victims like myself want to believe that it will never end. Until it eventually is, often not by our own hand.

bro, kena KC is not that difficult to break. as soon as u find a finer pussy, u will dump this present 1 for the next.... its the kongtao that is difficult to break

whenever the chicks ask me for favors beyond the standard transactions, i also counter offer, asking for favor to fulfil my dream of becoming father of many nations.

if raw is war, then, no raw = no straw.

*straw, dried feed for farmed grazing animals.

[superhuman]

Originally Posted by eQuipment

whenever the chicks ask me for favors beyond the standard transactions, i also counter offer, asking for favor to fulfil my dream of becoming father of many nations.

if raw is war, then, no raw = no straw.

*straw, dried feed for farmed grazing animals.

what does asking for favor to fulfil my dream of becoming father of many nations means

[dyelook]

Originally Posted by superhuman

what does asking for favor to fulfil my dream of becoming father of many nations means

means every country which have wl/fl, you wish you could have a son or daughter in that country.. in more easier words, SPREADING YOUR SEEDS TO WHATEVER COUNTRY'S PUSSIES THAT YOU GET A CHANCE TO LAY YOUR DICK

[superhuman]

Originally Posted by dyelook

means every country which have wl/fl, you wish you could have a son or daughter in that country.. in more easier words, SPREADING YOUR SEEDS TO WHATEVER COUNTRY'S PUSSIES THAT YOU GET A CHANCE TO LAY YOUR DICK

wahahahah, ok

[singmarine]

u cum inside her before?