Guys do u rem the women u slept with?

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Brainstorm

I'm in my early 30s. I think the guys in their 40s will be way more experienced than me. I don't think the number of sex partners ladies have is 10-15% of what a guy will have. I think the number could be the same or just slightly lower. It's just that some ladies hide the truth due to social norms. If guys have more partners, it could be seen as a sign of manhood (positive perception). If ladies have more partners, they might be viewed as slutty (negative perception).
Just look at the couple Alvin and Vivian, I think vivian suffer more than Alvin from the sex video exposure.

Plus if you look around this forum, if a guy ask for FFFM, he will probably be laughed at. If a girl ask for MMMF, the queue will be very long. A lady can sleep with multiple partners in a session but a guy can hardly do the same. It's easier to chalk up sex partners as a lady.

Looking around the forum, there are more ladies here now to look for FB. I think the idea that less emotional investment means less chance of getting hurt applies to ladies as well as to guys these days. Friends with benefit is increasingly acceptable to ladies, I feel.

Agreed women have more to lose than men. Men have no problem telling me how many women they have scored (usual ard 30-60 exc commercial cases, much lesser if he is married). Women might not be truthful cos of the stigma. However, i dont think the women i know have more than 20, most hardly 10). Its not that they are unattractive or a prude, more of a personal choice i think. As for the concept of FB, its getting more popular. Personally its not for me, i am probably too emotional to adhere to the FB rules and I always loves a good romance

[NetRodent]

I sure unable to forget those wonderful memories of my flings.

I still unable to forget my first sexual experience with another lady after marriage.

I was in my late-20s, it was supposely a simple task of helping my ICQ female friend to fix her PC. We had been chatted for few weeks as pure friends and decide to meet her at her place to resolve some Windows Blue Screen errors.

Upon completing the fix, she simply pushed me down and pull down my pants and ride me.. caught in total surprise, not prepare for this, I came early. With this unexpected but thrilling incident, I was changed, shuttled between 2 place after work but that was a start of a extramarital relationship.

She had threaten me few times with suicides, I had to take urgent leave from my work to pacify her. few years it took for us to dilute this relationship, especially a lady with high sexual desire.

Had come to my senses, a good relationship is not just about sex.

With such experiences, I doubt I could easy forgetten about her.

[Blue_gal]

am bad in remembering faces..damnn i can't recall anyone of their faces now...!! Most of the time, we met and BANG tat's all..GeEss...guess i am into "Banging" ONly those days.. LOL ...am only can recall the one I am banging now! hahahaha...

[see see only]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

22 years old with 20+ ex. Bro, 20+ ex got board the bus? Seemed like it to me for the way you wrote it. But I just want to double confirmed.

Yes of cos ..... Tat's what has she confessed ... i respect the honesty though

If only for the age gap ... if not i will marry her ....

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

am bad in remembering faces..damnn i can't recall anyone of their faces now...!! Most of the time, we met and BANG tat's all..GeEss...guess i am into "Banging" ONly those days.. LOL ...am only can recall the one I am banging now! hahahaha...

See ... bro <<totally>> ... nothing surprising

[SGFT]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Do you rem all of them? Only those that are not commercial sex? Selected few? None at all except the current wife/gf?

If u rem all/some, do u rem the person or the sexual act?

As a woman, I would say most of us rem most/all of the guys we slept with because to a woman there is an emotional attachment after sex (exc when the woman is doing it for commercial reasons). We rem first n foremost the person then the emotions during the act.

What's its like for u?

I am curious to know after a few of my guy friends admit that its out of sight out of mind for them in most cases.

Definitely will remember them, might not remember exactly how many times and location, but definitely will have some fond memories of all those trysts.

The more exciting the encounters, the more likely I will remember...

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by NetRodent

I sure unable to forget those wonderful memories of my flings.

I still unable to forget my first sexual experience with another lady after marriage.

I was in my late-20s, it was supposely a simple task of helping my ICQ female friend to fix her PC. We had been chatted for few weeks as pure friends and decide to meet her at her place to resolve some Windows Blue Screen errors.

Upon completing the fix, she simply pushed me down and pull down my pants and ride me.. caught in total surprise, not prepare for this, I came early. With this unexpected but thrilling incident, I was changed, shuttled between 2 place after work but that was a start of a extramarital relationship.

She had threaten me few times with suicides, I had to take urgent leave from my work to pacify her. few years it took for us to dilute this relationship, especially a lady with high sexual desire.

Had come to my senses, a good relationship is not just about sex.

With such experiences, I doubt I could easy forgetten about her.

Thanks for sharing, this resonates with me. I do know a man who walks out of this n forgets the next moment like nothing happened.

[TheDrifter]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Thanks for sharing, this resonates with me. I do know a man who walks out of this n forgets the next moment like nothing happened.

It's not easy but it becomes easier to fark n forget as you chalk up the numbers

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by see see only

Yes of cos ..... Tat's what has she confessed ... i respect the honesty though

Wah, okie.

Originally Posted by see see only

If only for the age gap ... if not i will marry her ....

Wah, you not see see only meh, if really no age gap, stop show only.

Originally Posted by see see only

See ... bro <<totally>> ... nothing surprising

Lao Cha Bor Bro, I talked to you later. Got important things to handle.

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

LOL ...am only can recall the one I am banging now! haha

Hi~ Lolz

ps: Bro SSO how come my name in red har? Any meaning?

[tttk3388]

I will definitely remember all of them!....Wait wait! ..If i have forgotten or missed out any that means i dont remember anything, so how is it possible to know that i dont remember when those i have missed out doesnt even exist in my memories?

[onlyhuman]

as for me no, my rule of the game is do and forget. maybe thats why till now i still cant get hitched

[Dunhill_11]

Slept yes, fuck might not.

[spidey7]

TS e guyz u slept w remembers u?

[Weremonkey]

we are supposed to remember??

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by spidey7

TS e guyz u slept w remembers u?

I suppose they do as my cases involve them chasing me, romance over a period of time. Of cos after it ends, the liking feelings shd have ceased.

[ahtat77]

i do remember all of them as they were once my gf,only whether serious or not that relationship