Falling In Love With HC Gal

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by NotByChoice

Dear Brothers,

Has anyone had this experience before?

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Worst thing is, I'm married and although I sleep next to my wife, I can't help but think of the HC gal all these while...cham liao lah.

I've been to HCs countless times but never have I felt this way...her face, the image of us bonking, and her alluring demeanour, has captured my heart and has occupied my mind for the past two weeks.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???

Hey, look at your post in bold. I can't find there is any love in betweeen it. It's your sex fascination which you can't achieved between your wife. Ask yourself this, what if she go back china how? Jump to another TN and fall in love in another. Please rethink again....peacefully.

[HC_Cheongster]

Sigh..... another one.... never ending sia....i posted this just a few days a go nia. i just wanna shared my experiance wif u a few yrs back.
i have a nice and caring wife at home. but at tat pt i did not realised it. oni find her nagging and sianzz. soon after i got involved with a wl in one of the hc. then i spend most of my times wif her negreting my wife. and of course she found out later tat im involve wif the gal and wanted to divorce. and the gal hoping tat i will hopefully patch back wif my wife left me. she quit her job in the hc and went aust to pursuit her studies. at tat moment my whole world just fell apart.
i started drinking and shutting myself up. knowing too well tats its too late to turn back the clock. and i hate myself for hurting two gals who love me as well.
then i had an accident one night after drinking. and was sent to hosipital. there i was injured and throughout the odeal it was my beloved wife who still stand by me and care for me. i beg and beg for her forgiveness and lucky for me she accepts.

i realised i was very lucky. in the sense the wl is not those sucker for money oni type. or i will lose more. i still hve fond memories wif her. and lucky not to hve die in the accident and instead hve used it to patched back wif my wife. thirdly im darm lucky tat my wife loves me so much so much.

But well guys r still guys. i still cheong once in a while but i never cheong with feelings involved any ever again. but i do agreed tat true love can be found in wl but whether its worth it or not better think twice. it oso just to serve as a warning to other bros around. so

BEWARE
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[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Idoru

Bro. I totally believe what you say. Once in a lifetime you will meet your Soul Mate she is part of your missing rib. There are incidences when both parties leave their love ones and wealth just to be together. Follow the flow and enjoy to the maximum but remember every happiness eventually will ends with sadness so keep your family intact.
Cheers

This is what you call fuck-buddy.

[FuglyMan]

Bro NotByChoice,

Y not tell us the name & where the gal is from ???
i will to there & help you find out the truth !!!
if she is really in love with U, then there should be no worries rite ??
if not ...take it as me contributing to your future funds la.

p.s. if you are angry by my words......think of bros banging her rite now !!!
and the moans cumming from her.
cannot take it ?!?!?!?! THEN FORGET IT LA !!!!!!

[notEnuff121]

NOT SURE IF THIS WILL WORK FOR YOU.. BUT IT MAY...

1. Understand what is the gap that existis between your wife and her ?

2. What can yr wife do to fill that gap alittle bit more to meet your expectation?

3. Think about old times, and how good it was then.. dont loose those for afew free fucks... (if you have any)

4. Take a short trip of like 4days, bring your wife for a trip.. bang her like hell and treat her well. all this to rekindle the spirit back. Get the free fcuk off yr head of the moment, take a closer look at the values between u and yr wife.

5. By the time, u return u will understand and have a clear view of a relationship the cherish.

DONT BE SMOKE BY A MOMENT OF DESIRE, YR WIFE CAN ALSO GIVE YOU HELL OF A RAW TIME TOO !!!! FURTHER ITS FREE RAW EVERYNIGHT IF YOU CAN TAKE IT.

hope this will focus on recovering / rekindle the spirit, and add a balance view to saying "dont go there"

[plman2002]

Bro imom, it should be Fatal Attraction lah. kekeke

Jokes aside, Bro NotByChoice, u mentioned that u wore BM2000 which means u r at least 35years n above so why u havent seen enough.
You got rough over some advice from other bros which i think is not necessary.
well, if u have decided to go ahead wif the hc gal, i dun see why u r asking for advice in sbf.
i think u still care for yr wife n want to end this silly act of yours.
most bros here are telling you to quit, so whats yr call?!

cheers,

[IloveBusty]

If she fall in love with your lanjiao every time you visit her get free fcuk....then worth it lah But if you have to pay to fcuk her then i think she fall in love with your S11 more..........think twice Mr. Robert-San

[NotByChoice]

Bro Sh_BoyToy,

I apologize for getting worked up...it's really frustrating for me, so I hope you understand.

To all other Bros/sis,

Thanks for all the advice! Yes, some of you are right by pointing out that I know what I want. But, more often than not, the heart rules the head to the point that logic is thrown out of the window.

Yes, I think some of you have hit the nail on the head...she gave me this feeling that I've been missing for the past decade or even more. Suddenly, there's this gal that is able to s+++e up the dead passion in me and makes me feel like falling in love once again. It's hard for me to resist this because, quite funnily, I'm more attracted to how a girl can make me feel - in other words emotionally - than the physical aspect of things.

Do not get me wrong. I love my wife, but I sorely miss the feeling of being "in love". I think imom is right (you're a lady, right?), this is infatuation...hahaha...ladies should understand how I feel.

Once again, grateful for all the advices. I'll still pay her a visit next week and shall take it from there....she has been sms-ing me, for your info. Not making things any better.

[h_lover]

Dun worry so much lah. Give urself some time. U will noe wat is best 4 urself soon enough. Dats wat happen to me when I fall in love wif a HC Gal long time ago.

[NotByChoice]

I think I owe it to everyone as to how it all happened. So, here goes:

Like most men here, I visit HCs but the frequency has reduced since I got married two years back. Honestly, I have this sense of guilt everytime I visit a HC and have problems enjoying sex at these fuck shops.

None of the HC gals have been able to make me fully enjoy commercial sex, until I met her.

During a visit to this HC, I suddenly saw this eye-catching gal pass by me. Damn, I though, was she attractive. My friends told me she had just started not too long ago and is not known to provide good or a friendly service. In a nutshell, she's like a dead fish.

Somehow, I stuck to my "feelings and instinct" and made an appointment with her two weeks later (I visit HCs only 3-4 times a year after marriage). When I waited in the room, my heart was pumping very fast because I did not know what to expect from her. Would she be as bad as what some people said she was? I didn't know, but I was full of anticipation.

When she walked into the room, she gave me a weak smile. I smiled back, not daring to look at her directly in the eye and she laughed. Hmm, she's not so bad after all, since she laughed, right?

Everything went on as per normal. The first 5 minutes was filled with an awkward silence as she gave me a half-hearted massage. I tried my best to break the ice and things got better and warmer when the conversation touched on mundane things like travelling overseas, the horrible men that visit HCs and her experiences with them.

I, of course, offered a listening ear and not too long after, she was lying next to me and chatting chirpily like a beautiful canary let out of the cage. Our eyes met throughout the conversation and she started to kiss me on my lips (Damn! I've never kissed a HC gal for obvious reasons). Strangely, my heart melted and I gave in...we were soon frenching.

Then the obvious thing followed....Like I said, I nearly did with her raw but she suddenly stopped me just before I pushed my cock into her. Wah...being a careful person, I was brave enough to wanna do it raw...

When I cum in her (with caps of course), she allowed me to stay in her for a good few minutes, kissing and caressing each other.

She then told me about going back to Malaysia and asked me if I want to join her in the trip...I was a bit taken aback, but, already swept off my feet by her, I did not know how to respond. How to go when I have a wife here?

She looked a bit disappointed and got up to help me dress up...before I went out of the room, she pulled my hand back, gave me a kiss and asked me if I would visit her again. She then gave me her hp no...

The rest is history....I walked around the entire day feeling and looking lost. The feeling was great. It was wonderful, but other negativities came into me mind and that's why I'm struggling now.

I hope you guys have a better picture now...I know WLs are practical ladies and I shouldn't be messing around since I'm married. But, humans are humans and men are prone to temptations.

[t123]

I can understand that for married bros, sometimes, go home after work, face the same things daily.

Sometimes, we really do not appreciate of what we have, maybe blinded by the surroundings which have become a ritual to us. We often have a tendency to look for newer things, hope to stimulate ourselves.

We also can get confuse about what we actually want, the feeling of that moment is overwhelmingly tempting.

Bro, try to communicate with your wife more. I know to relive that courtship lovey dovey feelings is almost impossible. Maybe try other means to revive the passion and feelings and you will discover why you want to marry your wife in the first place.

Your experience is similar to many that's why lots of the bros try to wake you up. Hope you will lead a better life.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by IloveBusty

If she fall in love with your lanjiao every time you visit her get free fcuk....then worth it lah But if you have to pay to fcuk her then i think she fall in love with your S11 more..........think twice Mr. Robert-San

Sometimes it can be quite deceiving even without paying fuck..she love me??
doesn't collect $$ from us doesn't prove that the WL is in love you....agree?
how about letting u do raw? does it show that she is in love with you too
quite contradicting at times.....what is your findings.
Sigh! fallen in love with a WLs is very stressful

[imom]

Originally Posted by NotByChoice

...I think imom is right (you're a lady, right?)....

Hahaha..... Now that is one funny conclusion...
Me with my numerous FRs - a lady....

Rest assured, Bro NBC, I am no woman...

Anyway, look, not many couples can maintain that 'being in love' feeling throughout the years of marriage. Passion gives way to care, love, respect, etc after the initial 'honeymoon' period. Those are the things that can keep a marriage/relationship going strong. Not the fleeting moments of passion. That is why so many men come to their senses after having affairs (commercial or not) and go back to their wives. They realise that the passion and 'being in love' feeling doesn't last.

[steamer]

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she looked a bit disappointed and got up to help me dress up...before I went out of the room, she pulled my hand back, gave me a kiss and asked me if I would visit her again. She then gave me her hp no...

The rest is history....I walked around the entire day feeling and looking lost. The feeling was great. It was wonderful, but other negativities came into me mind and that's why I'm struggling now..[/QUOTE]

reminds me of one gl150 ang pai, with great gf factor, many bros got her hp no. Many were won over by her charm, incl yours truly; many did favours for her..etc..until notes were compared one day..then got some reality set in.
But many, incl me, still look for her svc sometimes, but with eyes open wider lah now. However, her svc n gf feeling still great..

[sg_boytoy]

Originally Posted by NotByChoice

Bro Sh_BoyToy,

I apologize for getting worked up...it's really frustrating for me, so I hope you understand.

Bro, like my signature states, we're here for a bit of fun, relak lah, my feelings not hurt

Stay true to your family, remain rational and when you bonk her again next week, have a fucking good time, pay her and fuck off, don't leave your emotions there, swee boh?