Someone’s Hitting-On my Wife

[perverse]

Hi everyone, read through the few pages and without making reference to this specific issue, i would like to address a few areas which have been brought up.

Personally i believe for me, if there is an alternate lifestyle, i would like the one to be in charge. And i do not think my girl should be seen as as any lesser. Because she and i are just enjoying sex for sex. It requires a great deal of trust. And from my experience, when it works out your relationship will grow even stronger.

Having sex is having sex, but after the thrill of experiencing other people, if she loves you, it'll still be you she enjoys most. I won't view her as a toy that other men can fuck because i do not see sex in that way.

I have posted explicit photos of my long term girlfriend in another thread and we have had threesomes and all. But we are going strong, i respect her and if all goes well, we may get married soon.

I feel being open sexually is quite a good idea also. So both sides need not resort to cheating or keep wondering how some one else may feel like.

But i do agree that must be careful of STDs and all that...

Just my opinion on things... Cheers

[itsabt6x]

hi bro perverse...what u've said was exactly how i felt about my ex (swingmate)...n i do agree it takes alot of trust....n may i add...to me...this sex thingy was for her pleasure....as oppose to her being a toy for other men....matter of fact, when she had her ons (in my presence)...she told me frankly...her ons mate felt used...after.....n she felt great!

anyhow, i appreciated all the feedbacks, both +ve & -ve, receive...well to each his own...as for my W....i'll let her b.....n not make her do anything against her wishes....

well, 1 thing i always believe is that if u loved some1, let her go...if she returns...she's yours...if not, it was never mean to b.....

[perverse]

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

hi bro perverse...what u've said was exactly how i felt about my ex (swingmate)...n i do agree it takes alot of trust....n may i add...to me...this sex thingy was for her pleasure....as oppose to her being a toy for other men....matter of fact, when she had her ons (in my presence)...she told me frankly...her ons mate felt used...after.....n she felt great!

anyhow, i appreciated all the feedbacks, both +ve & -ve, receive...well to each his own...as for my W....i'll let her b.....n not make her do anything against her wishes....

well, 1 thing i always believe is that if u loved some1, let her go...if she returns...she's yours...if not, it was never mean to b.....

Yah i think we share the same views more or less. Sometimes impression is that guys always fuck girls. But sometimes, the guy is the one left feeling emotionally strained or used.

And i feel, if people do not know you all and you have threesomes or foursomes with people you will not meet again in your lives, it does not matter what they think of your girl.

Most importantly, you must understand and stand by her. Then she will not feel any lesser.

[kmwalk6]

hi brudder,

your wife has clearly proven to be a respectable woman of high moral standards..while you may have your fantasies i'd very much rather you keep your marriage safe and sacred..not trying to sound like a holy man here but..think about it......she's your wife and the one you married because you loved her (i hope)...and certainly not because she would swing with you right...??

DON'T DO IT. PLEASE.

[JPimp]

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

1. Why is T smsing her daily…doesn’t he have better things to do?
2. Is he trying to get ‘friendly’ with her?
3. Doesn’t he know he’s married and he shouldn’t be doing this?
4. Do most married men does this and why?
5. Do I do such thing with other women? (I’m lost for words)

Hee Hee. Your woman must be quite a stunner You must feel quite pleased with yourself that your woman is still able to attract such attention from other men. I know I would. You might want to let your wife know that too. No wrong in doing that, only reinforces your marriage, in my opinion. That you also desire here as well. Perhaps you could tease her about it.

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

I’ve been thinking of ways and means to get W interested (or even entertain the thought) of an alternative lifestyle without any success.

Erm...What alternative lifestyle? Swinging? First and foremost, you have to be very convinced that you have absolutely no problem with a guy...maybe even two guys....more muscular....taller....maybe better looking....younger....taking your woman at the same time. And these guys are taking full control of the situation and woman thoroughly engrossed with this exilirating sex action.....you, meanwhile, at the sidelines sipping a can coke (or more likely regret, low-esteem and confusion!)

I have been to a wild party when I was younger. I was "lucky" enough to be in the action than just an onlooker with my girlfriend who was my partner. Thoroughly enjoyed it but I think I enjoyed it too much cos I was a constant nag to get my then girlfriend to attend the next wild party. We broke off....maybe she did not like DP!

Originally Posted by Castrol

bro this is funny la, a situation like this and you ask such questions. if a burglar breaks into your house and you see him, are you going to ask him...

1. do you break into houses everyday? dont you have better things to do like attending a ninjado class?
2. are you trying to be unfriendly to me?
etc etc...

Now THIS is FUNNY!! LOL