How do you feel about that? To be honest, the sex was very gd because I could tell he was really losing control but I am still uncomfortable about not being asked....and no permission was given...
Sleepy- i agree with you..initially he was in underpants, because I was lying on my back, didn't realise at which point he took his underpants off till I feel his cock against me. And because it was my first time-I dont know what is the usual 'practice'.
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No he did not ask me, just turn me over and move my legs. But he help me to finish off, licked until I cum.
Sis, read liao,I think I go too get tantric therapist licence.
Totally agree with you. Worse, he did it without protection
Did you go for testing after that? Make sure you didn't get any bugs...
On any point of note, don't you think that it would already be a rape case? He did it without permission and he could be doing this to all his clients, taking advantage of the situation to further his own agenda?
MY understanding of a Tantric massage is it is based on mutual trust of parties involved.
There must be proper communication between the parties prior to the act. E.g. Explaining of what is to expect or is expected during the exercise, the expected emotions and reactions like orgasm of the party receiving he massage, etc.
Environment in which the massage is carried out is usually very subtle and "soft" with some essence oil, music or candles to provide a more relaxed feel.
The act itself is not focused on sexual results but more to help the receiving party understand his or her body. Intercourse is therefore not a necessity of the massage and is to take place only through mutual consent. Remember this, Tantra based massages are all about connecting with the body, mind and soul in depth, not just sexual attainment.
I was actually quite taken aback after that..rape did cross my mind...but it would be very difficult to prove..I don't want to be dragged into all that mess. Plus to be frank, I really think he didn't plan it..and in this context, he could say anything. What I can say is there was no physical force or threat, in fact, if I were to be honest, if it was a normal sexual encounter in which there was consent, it would have been great sex. Only that- in this case, I didn't say yes. And I belIeve he lost it.
I was actually quite taken aback after that..rape did cross my mind...but it would be very difficult to prove..I don't want to be dragged into all that mess. Plus to be frank, I really think he didn't plan it..and in this context, he could say anything. What I can say is there was no physical force or threat, in fact, if I were to be honest, if it was a normal sexual encounter in which there was consent, it would have been great sex. Only that- in this case, I didn't say yes. And I belIeve he lost it.
Perhaps the masseur need to wear a chastity belt with you holding the key to the lock.
MY understanding of a Tantric massage is it is based on mutual trust of parties involved.
There must be proper communication between the parties prior to the act. E.g. Explaining of what is to expect or is expected during the exercise, the expected emotions and reactions like orgasm of the party receiving he massage, etc.
Environment in which the massage is carried out is usually very subtle and "soft" with some essence oil, music or candles to provide a more relaxed feel.
The act itself is not focused on sexual results but more to help the receiving party understand his or her body. Intercourse is therefore not a necessity of the massage and is to take place only through mutual consent. Remember this, Tantra based massages are all about connecting with the body, mind and soul in depth, not just sexual attainment.
This is what i know of tantric massages.
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Yardstick- what u described was what I was looking for. I got more than I bargained =P
Tats true...though it not all about sexual attainment, it will inevitably lead to it when there are so much manipulations to the sex organs esp those tat are deliberate, fast & furious in massages such as yoni, when sexual sensations are somehow or other triggered due to constant manipulations of the sensitive female sex organs, like during love making for example...making them feel very high & wet...like all hell break loose !..yes, sis..m afraid u hv got more than u bargained for...as such is one of the expected consequences of such massages ..ladies going for it shd therefore beware & be forewarned if tats not wat they are looking for...just my 2 cents worth of tots
Was very nervous but it started well...good relaxing oil massage...and tantric like..very unusual from the normal massage..and then he started to finger me...which I cummed..was all good..but what surprised me was that he started to do body on body and his cock slide into me. He turned me over and asked if I would like my pussy sucked. By now, was very horny and I said yes. He ate me..,and then this is the shocking part.he started to fuck me. It was a very good session. But it was shocking nonetheless. Afterwards, he looked stunned, and said he lost control and this had never happened in his line...because he has seen so many female bodies he is 'immune'. He said he was only supposed to use his fingers....I was also quite stunned by the whole experience and is looking to hear from other ladies who has tried the yoni massage and what happened with them
Seems different from Yoni which I know/experienced about.
It supposed not to 'finger'. Are you sure he's a professional? Moreoever he started to fuck you without even asking?? Sorry. Not doubting... But just feel...
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It is not supposed to be. Sex was not supposed be in the pic-unless maybe if the girl asks for it and both agree. Even the therapist who did it said so to me. Oh well, I must be damned attractive =P
Yes. Sex is not in the pic... Unless the girl requested for it...
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I went for yoni too. Which one you go to? There is a private masseur who book a room. I took a shower and he told me to strip and lie face down naked. He stand behind me while I took off my clothing. He started by rubbing me firmly at the waist and down. After I relax then he start to rub me between my legs. It is new thing to me because he use his whole hand to rub, not gentle but firm. I am horny at the time and I responded quickly. After that I turn to my front and he continue to rub and finger me, and also rub my breast. Half hour later he get me to turn to one side and put my leg up to the side, and he penetrate me and do a few strokes. I didn't expect so I only resist after a few and he didn't do it again. He also give me happy ending by licking when he see me trying to touch myself.
Yoni usually comes with Tantric... And it don't required one to strip all. Usually will have bra & panties on. Not to mention, penetration without even asking...
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I did visit another one in Orchard Rd. I think he is gay but he also service women. He worked in a detach manner even though he massage all over my body including the breasts and nipples. I ask for sensual massage at first and he work me up to a high, then he suddenly stop and told me it's the end. Then in the next second he ask if i want to pay for yoni massage. I had to say yes quickly. He pumped me with his fingers hard and fast but I just cannot cum, and suddenly he just told me that it is finished. I had to beg him to help me and he very reluctantly pump me while I force myself to cum faster. Got a bad headache after that. Wont be going back.
Wow. Sound like cheating money... Haha....
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Originally Posted by Yardstick
MY understanding of a Tantric massage is it is based on mutual trust of parties involved.
There must be proper communication between the parties prior to the act. E.g. Explaining of what is to expect or is expected during the exercise, the expected emotions and reactions like orgasm of the party receiving he massage, etc.
Environment in which the massage is carried out is usually very subtle and "soft" with some essence oil, music or candles to provide a more relaxed feel.
The act itself is not focused on sexual results but more to help the receiving party understand his or her body. Intercourse is therefore not a necessity of the massage and is to take place only through mutual consent. Remember this, Tantra based massages are all about connecting with the body, mind and soul in depth, not just sexual attainment.
This is what i know of tantric massages.
I do strongly agree with what you said. Tantra is based on trust and communication. There will be music, candles, essential oil being used etc. It's like going to a reputable spa... Just that it's usually conduct in hotel or home.
The act (including yoni), does not focused on sexual result, like sex including penetration. Mainly to relax the mind, and to let you achieve orgasm or even squirting through such, by NOT fingering the pussy...
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U are very experienced huh
Because he indeed learnt it, and have the cert ar
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22-06-2015, 02:31 PM
..ladies going for it shd therefore beware & be forewarned if tats not wat they are looking for...just my 2 cents worth of tots
