Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

nobody is born unwanted sometimes its our attitude towards life that turn pple off..
we cant change how the world think abt us..we can only change ourselves so that the world can think beta of us

agree to a certain extent.. i believe in the "self-fulfilling prophecy" effect. a person who starts off feeling negative would most likely exhibit unattractive behaviours which ultimately cause him to fail (say in dating). the negative outcome would then reinforce his initial belief.

But at the same time, i wonder does factors like luck & chance comes into play?
If say the inferior guy gets to meet a decent gal and have a chance to develop a relationship, this will undoubtedly have a positive impact on his life.

On the contrary, if all the inferior cum unlucky chap (i.e. me) meet with are rejections & failures, then his love life would just sink into a vicious cycle..

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

agree to a certain extent.. i believe in the "self-fulfilling prophecy" effect. a person who starts off feeling negative would most likely exhibit unattractive behaviours which ultimately cause him to fail (say in dating). the negative outcome would then reinforce his initial belief.

But at the same time, i wonder does factors like luck & chance comes into play?
If say the inferior guy gets to meet a decent gal and have a chance to develop a relationship, this will undoubtedly have a positive impact on his life.

On the contrary, if all the inferior cum unlucky chap (i.e. me) meet with are rejections & failures, then his love life would just sink into a vicious cycle..

yo bro..after so long neva see you post but in the end i still telling u the same thing..fall down 7 times..get up 8 times...

to a certain extend, we cant change fate and luck..but if we give in to them and blame everything on them then we will really hv lost...dun tempt fate or go against luck but neva give in to them as well

[no_faith]

luck do play a major part in life. in love, u got no luck, in love, it always ended ugly.
in career, u got no luck, every chances seems bypass u and u cant do anyting.

everytime i start to get close sum1, sum1 drift further.
everytime i trusted sum1, i get betrayed.
everytime i stand up and climb higher, i fell further down.

i still feel happy, i accept my life but but i bring it to the bright side.

to me, still got true love meh???

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

But at the same time, i wonder does factors like luck & chance comes into play?
If say the inferior guy gets to meet a decent gal and have a chance to develop a relationship, this will undoubtedly have a positive impact on his life.

7 yrs back, I was that inferior guy, 13yrs her senior. But she gave me hope, knowing what true companion and love was. That really gave me a tremendous positive impact on my otherwise dull life.The rosy impact last long but not permanent as my ex finally realized I am too old (maybe) to be her companion and she dumped me!

[Microsoft]

True love... Remind me of a friend of mine. Met his gf during sec 1. Pak tor 10yrs then get married. Till tis day when i look at them, they still joke laugh play n tease ea other jus like a pair of young lovers. BTW he is 48 and so r his wife.

His wife wasn't very pretty but certainly 1 of the most gentle and caring lady i ever met. She would sit beside my friend when he play majong at home. Serve coffee, clear ashtray, go ta pao meals etc.

How many of us had such luck to married a women like this. Haizz..

If oni my OC had 10% of tat gentleness..... Well life still had 2 go on whether u hav or dun hav rite....

[Xdecepticon]

I do admire some guys who marry a girls just for her simplicity nature. Beauty is secondary and not imperative. But for me I do admit looks/beauty part of the criteria I look for. Thats where blind Love comes into the picture.

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

yo bro..after so long neva see you post but in the end i still telling u the same thing..fall down 7 times..get up 8 times...

to a certain extend, we cant change fate and luck..but if we give in to them and blame everything on them then we will really hv lost...dun tempt fate or go against luck but neva give in to them as well

haha ya it's been some time since i came in here... how have life been bro?

during this time i've been out there fighting... to win that bit of love that's sorely missing from my life. ur phrase "fall down 7 times, get up 8 times" is like a textbook lesson - read alredy but vaguely remember, now fail exam then come back take a look at the textbook again. hopefully i'll keep in mind for my next exam... dunno why keep failing in this "exam"

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

7 yrs back, I was that inferior guy, 13yrs her senior. But she gave me hope, knowing what true companion and love was. That really gave me a tremendous positive impact on my otherwise dull life.The rosy impact last long but not permanent as my ex finally realized I am too old (maybe) to be her companion and she dumped me!

i understand that pain... i lost the only gal who ever gave me that feelin of love 6 yrs ago... all becos of my lack of maturity, my stupidity

but no matter life goes on right... i'm sure u are tryin to live life as best as u could now (despite that setback)

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

7 yrs back, I was that inferior guy, 13yrs her senior. But she gave me hope, knowing what true companion and love was. That really gave me a tremendous positive impact on my otherwise dull life.The rosy impact last long but not permanent as my ex finally realized I am too old (maybe) to be her companion and she dumped me!

i understand that pain... i lost the only gal who ever gave me that feelin of love 6 yrs ago... all becos of my lack of maturity, my stupidity

but no matter what life goes on right... i'm sure u are tryin to live life as best as u could now (despite that setback)

[curious79]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

i understand that pain... i lost the only gal who ever gave me that feelin of love 6 yrs ago... all becos of my lack of maturity, my stupidity

Woo....my first and only gf left me also becoz of my maturity n stupidity, we were togehter for 5 years n have now broken for 5 years

Worst part, I may have stop trying to her get her back; I have not stop hoping for her to be back. I just cannot forget her

Truely, understand ur feeling Bro

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by curious79

we were togehter for 5 years n have now broken for 5 years

Worst part, I may have stop trying to her get her back; I have not stop hoping for her to be back. I just cannot forget her

After 5yrs breakoff and you still cant forget her. I may be worst off than you. Looks like I have a long and miserable life ahead of me because I just split from my ex 5mths back ending a 7 yrs relationship. Haizz..

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

but no matter life goes on right... i'm sure u are tryin to live life as best as u could now (despite that setback)

Wish I could get hold of some holy water to erase off past 7yrs of relationship, be it bitter or sweet.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

His wife wasn't very pretty but certainly 1 of the most gentle and caring lady i ever met. She would sit beside my friend when he play majong at home. Serve coffee, clear ashtray, go ta pao meals etc.

My prc OC do the same thing... serving us over tea.. clear tables and so on but once the friends left.. I had to clean up the tea set and cups and sweep the floor... :X

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by littleme

My prc OC do the same thing... serving us over tea.. clear tables and so on but once the friends left.. I had to clean up the tea set and cups and sweep the floor... :X

Haha take it easy lah. Treat it as sharing the hse work load lor. Still ok if she's caring and understanding i guess. Like i say... my friend's wife is the oni 1 i encounter in my life time.

We use 2 say among us nxt time find wife mus find 1 lidat. Now... looking back... some got hurt badly and din marry, some divoice, some married but ended up living in hell...

[WeLoveSex]

For me i think money can buy love in this new generation