I'll leave the above questions aside for now n describe my personal concept of the different levels of "BY-ing."
Level1 : (a) BY-ing a chio gal of ur type but allowing her to work. This was my MO for most of 2009. If u find her in SG, she is most likely an undereducated PRC gal.
: (b) BY-ing a similar gal but her pussy is exclusively yours. She doesn't work at all. Almost all my gals since Jan 2010 belong here. (My current level.)
Level2 : Finding chio uni students or recent graduates of ur type in PRC, importing them to SG for BY-ing. (My next level.)
In retrospect, I was at this level once unwittingly. Last May I briefly kept a chio 22 yo SH gal I picked up at TAM. She was a recent graduate of 上海电影学院 who had a small role in a TV series, but our RS lasted only 2 wks. She was from a relatively well to do family. The kicker here was that she was a virgin, hehehe.
I was quite frugal then n when I refused to buy her a high end Apple laptop (over 3K I think), she cried n was angry w/ me, n we separated. Was I heartless? She returned to SH two days later n has not been back to SG since. Her pussy was very pretty n of course couldn't get any tighter, hehehe. A few esteemed bros met her when I brought her to PC 2nd FL on Fri 7 May, 2010. I still think of her pussy sometimes.
Level3 : (a) Getting FOC from a gal of ur type, but her pussy is not exclusive to u.
(b) Staying w/ a gal of ur type FOC n her pussy is exclusive to u.
Level4 : (a) Staying w/ a chio gal of ur type n she PAYS u, but her pussy is not exclusive to u.
(b) Staying w/ a chio gal of ur type n she PAYS u AND her pussy is exclusive to u.
Believe it or not, this is still NOT the ultimate.
Drum roll please...this is the ULTIMATE test of a real MAN.
Highest Level or Level5 : (a)Staying w/ many chio gals of ur type AND they pay u AND their pussies are exclusive to u!!!
(b) Accomplishing the above despite the fact that YOU r wealthy!!
I guess the very rare MAN who attains Level5, either a or b, may be said to be a master of mass hypnosis, Gong Tao or black magic, hahaha.
Are there any Level5 bros here? Pls come forward n tell ur story. Thank you! Would u accept me as ur most humble disciple?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
I am very new to your BY game. In fact I have no idea till I read your thread.
To say the least I have been marvel about your level 5. I wonder who had been so good at that.
<<<Yes, faithfulness of a man's sexual partner has always been a problem from time immemorial. Nothing is foolproof, hehe.
I hv used simple guidelines to turn the odds in my favor.
1) I never BY a gal who does ST or is known to hv done ST
2) I keep my gals full-time n keep them in a studio or master bdrm of my choice, close to me. They dun work. Period.
Let's analyze the words BY or 保养.
包 means inclusive, assured, guaranteed, bundled, packed, contained, to undertake the whole thing, etc. And 养 means provide for, keep, support, look after, maintain, etc. in other words, u undertake n assure/guarantee that u provide for n look after her total well being n livelihood n in return her body n pussy is exclusively yours. And she should not work at all.
So if ur beloved gal has to work at KTVs or HFJs n expose her beauty n body to other men, her faithfulness is at great risk. Bcos there will always be some men who r willing to offer more money...10X or 20X more in some cases.
3) Get some trusted frens who live in the immediate vicinity or, even better, in the same house/condo, to monitor ur gals.
4) Use unexpected video calling n/or visits. If she is not there, it's a red flag. Engage a PI or just dump her.
5) Ignore what she says, but carefully observe her body language, facial expressions n voice tone, etc. This is better than PI, hahaha.
There r times when I already hv 2 full-time 老婆,n I happen to meet a new gal I like very much, n if I fail to ST her, I may offer her "BY" but allowing her to work. This is usually a short-term arrangement n I'll usually terminate the arrangement after 2 wks. If she proves her worth n her faithfulness, I may keep her much longer.>>>
Any comments or criticisms?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
I read your guidelines above and totally amazed by it. So you had been enjoying exclusive pussies while BYing.
I really doubt many can afford your kind of play. This involves quite a large sum of money per month.
It applies to all of us, to every human being...Hahaha.
Me leaving this world poor? Actually, that would be wonderful, thank u! It would be a nightmare for me if I leave this world rich.
Why?
I'm reminded of the 6 principles of life:
1. No point using limited life to chase unlimited money.
2. No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it.
3. Money is not yours until you spend it.
4. When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth; when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late.
5. How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs.
6. No point working so hard to provide for the people you have no time to spend with.
Most importantly, money is not mine until I spend it. I want to leave this world poor, meaning that I'll hv spent all my money n hv no regrets, hahaha.
In the last 2 1/2 yrs I hv only spent a small fraction of my passive income in BY-ing SYTs of my type. Thank u, Mr. Zapper, I must n will spend a lot more so that I'll leave this world poor, hehehe.
Cheers!
Bro WB>>>
Bro WB
I fully agreed with you above.
We chasing money all the time but then life chased us. The money we had is not ours until we spend it.
I don't hope to live too old and no point in life if we are old and incapable. We need to be fit and have enjoyable life even old.
Although the above is not about chasing girls but totally makes sense.
IMHO, to completely satisfy a woman sexually, u need to fxxk her for at least 10 min. Of course u need to engage in foreplay n prime her pump by giving her multiple orgasms w/ ur fingers n/or tongue 1st. Then u must insert ur didi into her meimei n rock her for at least 10 min, preferably 20 or longer. It feels different, more satisfying n more complete, my 2 lao po both told me that. They never seem to get enuff w/ vaginal intercourse. It is associated w/ stronger n more prolonged oxytocin surge n more pleasure n more bonding, hehehe.
The problem is that many men can't last 10 min n they r clueless.
Here is proof ( taken from Revolutionary Sex written by an Ang Moh).
"It would be easy to just learn some techniques for
keeping your erection harder for a longer time (in
the “You” section of the book), and stop there, or
read a technique for stimulating her clitoris that will
drive her wild (in the “Her” section of the book, and
stop there… but those are the least important
aspects of what makes a great lover.
Bro WB
Bro WB
I was surprised that this topic was covered here in this thread.
Yes,we need to be able to last more than 10 mins to satisfy our partner. The PVO is also very important.
I also very surprised by your ability to have great sex daily at your ah pek age,
Yes, Boss WB...the above got my fullest attention.
I think I haven't had enough sex lately due to my busy schedule and poor health.
I hope to improve both counts soon. Hope to do more sex just liek you to love to 90 and still have sex with 18 years old syt.
Please post more anecdotes here so we all benefited form you.
Have a great weekend coming up soon.
Bro,
Hope you will have more sex soon.
Hugh Heffner married a gal who was 60 years his junior in 2016. Well done! But we will beat him, yeah?
And we will not marry the gal.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by CarringtonPlace
Bro WB
I am very new to your BY game. In fact I have no idea till I read your thread.
To say the least I have been marvel about your level 5. I wonder who had been so good at that.
Will continue to read more and comment more soon.
Please enjoy your great day.
Cheers!
Bro,
Level 5 (b) mastery is very difficult. The wealth of the man must be self made.
Level 5 (a) has been achieved by men who are leaders of some religious cult. These con men are excluded.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by RalphLauren
Bro WB
I read your guidelines above and totally amazed by it. So you had been enjoying exclusive pussies while BYing.
I really doubt many can afford your kind of play. This involves quite a large sum of money per month.
Please continue to share so that we learn more.
Hope you have a great weekend soon.
Bro,
Yes, BYing is not cheap.
I'm getting very good value for my money because I'm ready to walk away anytime. Have a great weekend!
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Originally Posted by HuangShuRong
Learnt so much from Bro WB in this thread, thanks!!
Please continue sharing and have a nice day
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Originally Posted by 25minutes
Bro - will defiinitely learn to do so. Hope you enjoy your week.
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Originally Posted by 6livings
Learnt a lot from this thread and got hooked.
Thanks bro WB, have a good weekend!!
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Originally Posted by tubo
Very informative thread by bro WB.
Please share more with us.
Have a nice weekend ahead.
Bros,
Thank you all.
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Originally Posted by BigLeague
Bro WB
I fully agreed with you above.
We chasing money all the time but then life chased us. The money we had is not ours until we spend it.
I don't hope to live too old and no point in life if we are old and incapable. We need to be fit and have enjoyable life even old.
Although the above is not about chasing girls but totally makes sense.
Have a great day.
Bro,
Tks for your post. It's about life. Happiness, health, money, relationship and sex are all interrelated.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by CarringtonPlace
Bro WB
I was surprised that this topic was covered here in this thread.
Yes,we need to be able to last more than 10 mins to satisfy our partner. The PVO is also very important.
I also very surprised by your ability to have great sex daily at your ah pek age,
Please share more with us.
Have a good weekend.
Bro,
Thank you.
I posted that some time ago. About 10 days ago it dawned on me that there is something much more powerful than a man's expert techniques, huge tool and his ability to last n last.
What a lao po craves most in bed, and outside of the bedroom for that matter, is for her lao gong to turn her on mentally and emotionally. But sadly, if her LG is like most men, she will be very disappointed.
It was quite a revelation for a lao chee ko pek. Who says an old dog can't improve or learn?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning to all samsters,
Thank you all for your interest and unwavering support.
To make this thread better, I have invited a most esteemed samster Bro Justime to be our Special Contributor. He is a veteran bao king of Singapore. A relationship and sex guru extraordinaire.
He will present somewhat different viewpoints and perspectives.
He started "Mistress" thread at SBF. He was a mentor and role model during my formative years.
I still remember that he introduced a 173cm n fair young woman from Dongmen in May/June 2009. I kept her only briefly. Didn't like her big tattoo on her butt.
He has agreed to contribute a post once or twice a month. The more the merrier of course, but I know he is a very busy man.
Thank you bro Justime.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro,
Yes, BYing is not cheap.
I'm getting very good value for my money because I'm ready to walk away anytime. Have a great weekend!
Bro WB
Thank you for your reply.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Thank you all for your interest and unwavering support.
To make this thread better, I have invited a most esteemed samster Bro Justime to be our Special Contributor. He is a veteran bao king of Singapore. A relationship and sex guru extraordinaire.
He will present somewhat different viewpoints and perspectives.
He started "Mistress" thread at SBF. He was a mentor and role model during my formative years.
I still remember that he introduced a 173cm n fair young woman from Dongmen in May/June 2009. I kept her only briefly. Didn't like her big tattoo on her butt.
He has agreed to contribute a post once or twice a month. The more the merrier of course, but I know he is a very busy man.
Thank you bro Justime.