Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Mighty Megatron

No lord please! Just plain old Megatron After all we both fellow decepticons.

Just to spice up and make this thread more lively lah bro. This the only place I frequent nowadays, trying hard to forget my 7 yrs relationship. But once I log out of SBF, my past bitter memories haunt me again..

[Mighty Megatron]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Just to spice up and make this thread more lively lah bro. This the only place I frequent nowadays, trying hard to forget my 7 yrs relationship. But once I log out of SBF, my past bitter memories haunt me again..

Sigh...I guess deep down inside every still single samster is a lonely soul awaiting their other half. Memories bitter sweet are still a thing of the past bro. Look towards the future! At least we still got good friends right?

[sertt]

hey bros i have a problem here. i got my gf like 1 month ago. at first she like me and love me alot but recently she now like not very committed cannot go out la cannot talk all these. Then i dont know what to do la i think to myself that i love her alot cannot break up but then if i continue like that sure die la. bros got any advice on what to do?

Just to spice up and make this thread more lively lah bro. This the only place I frequent nowadays, trying hard to forget my 7 yrs relationship. But once I log out of SBF, my past bitter memories haunt me again..

xdeception bro i agree with you... my first gf i also cannot forget about her but sometimes think about her... dont know what to do man

[The Sexorcist]

Why so serious over pussies my brethen? If wounded in the heart, only sex with a SYT can heal all wounds! If got bitter memories replace them with newer memories of sex with a pretty young girl. Sex heals so try it!

[sertt]

Originally Posted by The Sexorcist

Why so serious over pussies my brethen? If wounded in the heart, only sex with a SYT can heal all wounds! If got bitter memories replace them with newer memories of sex with a pretty young girl. Sex heals so try it!

haha sorry no premarital sex la . i catholic here so i DIY la. but no mood recently . have to solve gf problem first .

[no_faith]

bro sertt, how to tell she loves u in short 1 mth? sudden she not committed, i not surprise.
furthermore, in the young generation nowadays, i dun tink ur sentence "sorry no premarital sex la." really happen.

so tbh, i tink she got another love.
find another 1.
to be blunt, in church, i tot much more easy to communicate wif opposite sex rite? all church mates mah.

[The Sexorcist]

Originally Posted by sertt

haha sorry no premarital sex la . i catholic here so i DIY la. but no mood recently . have to solve gf problem first .

Ahem to that my brethen. BJ not counted as premarital sex right? So that works just as good. Have faith in yourself.

How old are you by the way?

[sertt]

yup bj is not considered as premarital sex im 18 why?

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by sertt

yup bj is not considered as premarital sex im 18 why?

Heed my advice. Concentrate on your studies. At your present age is puppy love or you are infactuate with love. Not true love. So dont play with feelings.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by The Sexorcist

If wounded in the heart, only sex with a SYT can heal all wounds!

Sex only satisfy one lust but not heal one wounded heart. Even after bonking a WL, the wound still there.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by no_faith

in church, i tot much more easy to communicate wif opposite sex rite? all church mates mah.

Quite true. Saw alot of filipinos at Novena.

[curious79]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Sex only satisfy one lust but not heal one wounded heart. Even after bonking a WL, the wound still there.

I agree with your sentence fully, sex is just a need but the love wound from that special one cannot be healed.

[soberguy]

I just skimpped the thread and only read the last few pages. My inputs here are:

There are only 2 type of love that I know. One which i closely related to so called true love and one that is not too closely related byt been made to believed to be the true love too.

They are Unconditional and Conditional Love.

Unconditional love is something of the past as in our parent generation (taking about those 55yrs & above), or the love between a child and parent.

Conditional Love is something that is practice widely, especially among the local girls (you can say I maybe wrong) as it seems all too obvious. The feeling is there only if you met the criterias.

Of course, look is an factor but not primarily and it goes both ways for how both sexes go for certain look, so nothing to debate about.


As such, the so called true love is only the conditional love and becomes far fetch for what it intended to be.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

Actually look can chg... A colleague of mine join the co 7 yrs ago. First impression jus another average looking girl. As time goes by, i get to noe she is actually quite a gentle lady with a very nice personality.

Initially when I first knew my ex, whos a simple conservative girl, I wasnt really serious about her, just treat and always reminded her I like but not love her. But she always told me she love me from the first day she knew me. Agree with you cos after knowing her for a year, seeing her everyday, like turned to love. Emotion bonded us together till few mths back she changed and we went separate ways. Gentle lady do have heart of cold steel, you know?

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by soberguy

Conditional Love is something that is practice widely, especially among the local girls (you can say I maybe wrong) as it seems all too obvious. The feeling is there only if you met the criterias.

But at times even if both parties met the criteria and both seems to be made for each other, 3rd parties (parents/in-law) may also affect our relationship ulltimately. But love for the parents over-ride our true love relationship. Thats my sour/bitter experience.